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writes: Can someone live in a marriage and think of someone else the whole time? Like someone was in love in his teens and never truly forgot this, so he or she dreams about him the whole time, secretly or in the back of his mind? I think my mom is doing this, and it really freaks me out. Is it possible she never loved my dad? I found some evidence, that it might be the case and my whole world has collapsed. How can I trust her? Or trust love? Please tell me how is it possible to be like that? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): I think everyone has that first love that they wont get completely over. It doesnt mean that your mom doesnt love your dad. Do you know the whole story of the other guy? Maybe he broke her heart and she moved on. I know that I will never completely be over my first love even 13 years later. But that hasnt stopped me from loving others even falling in love once again. Ask her to explain this to you if you are having trust issues with her. But dont let this stop you from trusting love! Love is a wonderful thing and everyones experiences are different so you shouldnt think this would happen to you. I wish you all the best!
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