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*hawn67
writes:I have met a woman that I am absolutely crazy about, but am having trouble understanding some of her behaviors. She is 8 yrs younger than I am, she has 2 children and has just gotten out of a bad marriage 6 months ago,I am 41 and a single father of a 11 year old son with autism, she is 33, we met and immediately hit it off, we spent every day together for the first month or so,and still spend a lot of time together when we can.We have talked about everything, I'm not a very open person usually but for whatever reason I feel so comfortable with her that I have opened up and talked with her about everything good and bad that has happened in my life and she has opened up with me too about a lot of things she has never talked about with anyone else. I won't go into a lot of details but she has been emotionally abused in the past by her parents and her ex, and I think that it has caused her some problems with trusting people. She says that she cares about me so much that she is afraid to hurt me.I'm wanting to take our relationship to the next level by moving in together, she will text me and say that she loves me but won't say it to my face, she runs hot and cold with me sometimes and it confuses me really bad, she will tell everyone that I'm too good for her and that she wishes that I was a jerk because then she wouldn't be worried about hurting me. One day she will be very close with me and the next day seem distant,when I ask her what's wrong she says that its just her and that's she crazy. I love her more than I can say and want to build a life together with her, I have spent a lot of time with her and her children and she has with me and my son, I want her to move in with me and my son. She says that she is scared and unsure about her feelings, because she feels on top of the world when we are together and she hasn't felt like that in a long time but she wants to be sure that its not a mistake because I make her feel so happy right now? I know that she hasn't been treated right in her past and I'm O.K. With giving her time to figure things out, but the emotional roller coaster that she has me on is very hard to deal with, one minute I feel like she loves me and the next minute and that she doesn't and is beginning to take its toll on me! It really hurts to me when she closes me out.
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