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writes:My partner left me about 18 months ago now for another guy and at the time her sister spent a lot of time at my place, helping me with childcare. I fell for her and a while after I'd split up with her sister, we started dating. We dated for about 6 months and she split up with me last month. She says she couldn't date her sister's ex even though she'd been dating me pretty successfully for 6 months and her family and my kids were all fine with it. Is your sister's ex really a total 'no'? Even if your sister was fine with it and had left the guy anyway? Surely if I'm off-limits now, I was off-limits 6 months ago too? I know I can't change her mind but I just feel a bit down about 'wasting' 6 months with her for her to change her mind about dating me
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): hmmm, i'm quite young @ 19 almost 20, but i see no reason for the tide to go that way, but no your not offlimits to the gal, the sister obviously ditched you for another guy, ok we'll turn the situation another way round, if lets say Sarah was dating a guy called Paul, and Paul's brother being Mathew, then Sarah ditched Paul for Mathew, do you see anything wrong? i for one dont! it works both ways, i shouldnt keep pestering her though that'll be a total no!
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 She didnt change her mind, she just didnt want to date you anymore so she gave you a reason. Thats all. Dont worry about it anymore and go hit the date seen back up. I know, easier said than done.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (2 April 2009):
 yes you should have been off limits to her, she wa just too stupid to see this at the time, forget her, move on!
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