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writes:my boyfriend told me he has slept with some one else, and now I dont want to touch him or be close to him although i do love him.My best mate has been there helping me out and listening to my problems we have been best friend since school and have always counted our selfs as sisters. but now after all the problems we have been through together I feel like I love her more than just sisters. we are both bi and both have boyfriends but I do feel more than just sisterhood for her now. I dont think Id be able to go out with her but I dont want my feeling to get in the way of our friendship what should I do?PLEASE HELPthank you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): No offense, but I think you may be a little confused. You've had a rough time with your boyfriend, and now you're feeling hurt and emotional. It's easy to have those lines of friendship blurred when you feel vulnerable like this.
My advice would be to not push anything, you may just be asking for more drama. You cannot be sure of her feelings, and you might hurt a good friendship.
If you are done with your boyfriend, rest a bit before diving into something new. If you really want to explore something with your friend, it can wait until your head's clear, right?
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