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writes: Hi, I'm 15 and my girlfriend broke up with me. Yeah, I am heartbroken and she didn't tell me why she wanted to leave and I didn't ask because there wasn't really any point. Well I didn't try to stop her from leaving because if she wants to do this then I'm not gunna try to change her mind cause I know that will make her unhappy. Well today a friend told me that my ex (Sedona) was mad at me cause I didn't try to change her mind and tried to stop her from leaving. I didn't think I should've done that cause if she wanted to go why would she want me to stop her?? So my question is did I do the right thing and not try to stop her? or should I have tried to stop her?? I'm confused big time.
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (3 April 2009):
Well u did the right thing! U didn't do anything cause u knew she would have been upset....cause u love her! So ya u totally did the right thing;)
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reader, AxelVIII +, writes (3 April 2009):
well. I think you did do the right thing. I'm a female and I'm thirteen.you are very right, she probably would've gotten mad. I know your confused but try not to be. try to understand that you did do the right thing and why should she care? she's the one that broke up with you. my advice is this: just forget about her and tell your friend that you did do the right thing.
I hope this advice helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): Yes you did the right thing. If she wanted you to stop her then she should have never left in the first place. If you still have feelings for her then talk to her about why she left and why she wanted you to stop her. Maybe you can patch things up.
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