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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok thankyou to anyone that can help! I swear i've ruined my life. I don't know how to get over him!Thing is ive liked this lad nearly 2 years now and yes all through this i thought he liked me...so did afew others but he doesn;t and hes tol people he would never go out with me because im not the sort of person he would.Thing is i know you are gnna say im stupid so please dont critisise me on this but yes he was the love of my life! I'm not kidding i;ve nver wanted a bf before and tbh i still dont! i've never been bothered about it except for him. I did actually find the exact alike person of me in him! Seriously we were just...it as like we were meant to find each other..same type of people!Anyway i dont know how i can get voer him because i lvoe him and i want to be good mates with him and not loose contact with him when we leave college at the end of this year! In one way i think its best to just cut all contact with him but thats impossible because he knows half my friends and we all go out together and stuff.Thats another thing when people joke about setting me up with someone or try it i can;t take it it just upsets me because i just dont want a bf and tbh whenever im around him its so hard and upsets me. Everything does because i know the only thing that would make me happy is to be with him and it'll never happen. Don;t get why he ever showed he liked me or anything...hes said to someone if he actually wnated me he knew he could have me.. and yea its true he could but that just shows we'll never be together!But seriously i need help what can i do! I feel like i want to end it all and because ive never wanted a bf and because im abit quiet i take things harder...also it wont help when i meet new people because they literlly just think your strange..I love him though i wish i didn;t and i wish i could belive everyone when they say its only a crush or its lust but trust me tis gone to far for that i know him so well its unreal although things are abit awkward between us sometimes and i wish they werent because he dont mess around with me like he does with others! I know i need to get over him but i just dont see how im going to be able to do that and still be good friends because everythigns gonna hurt me! pleaseee help!
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reader, crimson_kiss  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 You already have your answer that he is not going to be with you. Now you have to bring yourself to the realization that you have to move forward. If it takes for you to stop hanging around with the same crowd of people for awhile, so be it. Try to remove all memory of him, if you can, and just do your own thing for a bit. Taking time out for yourself should help set you back on track. Wishing you well....
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