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writes:hiya. me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for the past 3 months, and i cant conceive,with my last boyfriend and me, couldnt conceive.is there something wrong with me?or is it because of my age or something??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): a baby is just gonna make everything in your life harder…are you searching for welfare
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): You are WAY too young to worry about a baby right now! You are not mentally prepared to handle the responsability that goes along with this! Please listen to the other aunts on here and take this time to live! It is so important to just be a teenager! I dont want to sound harsh but I had a baby at 16 and never got to have those experiences and trust me you miss them! And chances are the babys father will not stick around no matter what they say! Please just think this through before making any rash decisions.
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reader, Charlotteannex +, writes (2 April 2009):
 Hey hunny.
It's totally not your fault.
3 months really isn't a long time to be trying for a baby.
One thing I would suggest is getting tested to see if you are both fertile. It may not be your fault. and it is most certainly not your age.
Hope this helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): Girlfriend, you may think you want a baby but what about living a little first. Is he going to marry you? Hmm, if not then why? You are young and have so much to learn about life and I hope you aren't under the impression that a baby is fun and will bring you closer. How about staying up all night with a screaming baby, no sex cause your too tired, no money, no more free time, whew sounds like a lot of work huh! I wish you luck with whatever you decide but think long and hard okay :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): i don't think it's your age,from the moment you have your first period,in theory you can conceive.if you're worried that something might be wrong,then the best thing to do is probably visit a gynecologist.but are you sure you're ready for a baby?you're so young,honey i'm not sure it's the best thing to do right now.please make sure that you can support a child financially,mentally and emotionally before making a decision like that.make sure you and your boyfriend are mature enough and love each other enough for this.if not,you definitely shouldn't be thinking about a baby right now.
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reader, chazx +, writes (2 April 2009):
 No hunny its not your age.3 Months isnt to long to be trying for a baby, plus it could also be your partners fault, if there is alot of stress or bad vibes it'll make it hard for you to concieve aswell.I also have to say you are only 16-17 years old and i advise that you think very very hard about whether or not you really want to have a baby right now, as i am 18 years old and have a 9 and a half month old daughter and its so much more hard work then i thought i'd be :)Pm me if you need me
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): maybe it's a blessing in deguise that you have not fallen pregnant yet. You have years and years ahead of you to think about having a baby. At your age you should be having fun and studying to enable you to have a wonderful life, where you can earn good money, have a lovely home and car and then when you can give a little person not only love but a brilliant standard of living should you be thinking about trying for a baby.
Probably not at all what you want to hear but it's my honest thoughts on the matter.
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