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writes:I don't know what to do with the relationship that I'm in. This man that I'm involve with I don't really know where I stand with him because he is playing games and he know I love him too. This is what he has been doing lately. When I be in the club he has beeen acting like I'm not in there and be talking to other woman and danceing with them he just don't show me any respect at all he has start lying a lot to me.So I started to ingore him in the club but not disrespect him. So when I did that he got mad with me and he grab me by the arm and ask me was I ingore him and he act like he wanted to hit me I was given him tast of some of his on medical. So then he started bring up excuse to me about a old boyfriend that I haven't mess with in years so when I ws trying to tell him that he was lying and just make up excuse not to be with me he hung the phone up on me it's been 4days now and I haven't heard from him he haven't call me and I haven't call him either. So I need to know is it over between us why is he acting like that with me do I need to go on with my life or what or do I need to wait on him please can somebody tell me different please Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you again for your advice I'm taken it too. He call me today and ask how I was doing. I ask him what was his problem he said that he didn't have one so I ask why he was ating the way he was then he said that it's a lot of stuff that he has stop doing and one of them is going out so I ask what that got to do with me and him. I ak him was he still interestion in me or do I interest him any more he ask me why. Because I wanted to know what he wanted to do with this relationship. He told me that he don't have time right now for what he is doing in life I asdk him what is that he said I didn't need to know his business. He told me to do what every it is to fulfill my needs and to be happy. So is he tell me to go own with my life or what if he is I don't think he means it It's just all about money with him right about now but I think I'm going to follow your advice and just go on with my life. Like I said I don't think that I will be able to lovr another right now because I love him. I don't know why it is that I want to spend my life with this man. Maybe it's his personally.
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (2 April 2009):
 The hurt you feel will go away and yes it does take time. Go out and have some fun with friends or family. Being in love with someone who does not respect you can be difficult, but you cannot force him to respect you or even love you in return. Close off your heart and find someone who will take it and really hold it dear to them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the answer that you have given me. But still I don't know how to leave this relationship because I'm in love with him so I really think that he is bioploar and he just need help well since he haven't call me in three days I guess I will go head and try to forget him but it is going to be hard for me to do. Now I'm scarce to date another guy because I'm tried of being hurt so what can I do.Thank you all very much
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (2 April 2009):
Why would you want to be with someone who shows you NO RESPECT? Please, respect yourself, call the ingrate, tell him yourself its over and wash your hands of it all. Don't sit around and wait for him to tell you what you already know. If he wanted this relationship so bad, he would have contacted you by now!
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