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writes:I was wondering if i was a slut. Its been on my mind for a while now. I am 15 and I am not in a relationship but lost my virginity recently. He wasn't my bf, but i really like him and don't regret it. Well anyway I did most things with him (bj, ect)so i was wondering am i classed as a slut? and will guys see me as a slut now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Who you gonna tell. It's nobody's business but your own.
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reader, MissKimberleyX  +, writes (1 June 2008):
 I'm your age.
Trust me, your not a slut!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): Unfortunately at your age you can pretty much be certain that at least some people will be calling you "slut." Losing you virginity to a guy you like doesn't make you a slut but at your age the kids are merciless. Particuraly the girls that may like this guy or the girls that are worried that you're prettier than them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): First off sweetheart, here's the adult stuff.
Wear a condom every time, protect yourself from dirty diseases.
Get on the pill too, if you're not already, but remember, that doesn't protect against STD's or HIV / Aids.
I don't think you're a slut, but be careful, yeah?
There's nothing worse than making a decision that you can't walk away from because you're either pregnant or have some gross disease that you can't get rid of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): If you wanted to, and you didn't regret it, then there's nothing wrong with having sex. Don't let other people label you. I think most girls label others slutty because they're jealous of the attention those girls get from boys. As long as you and the other person enjoy it, and cause no harm, then there's no problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): well... Don't be suprised if you get called one, if the word spreads around, people can be like that.
You're only really a slut if you go round sleeping with loads of lads, but maybe you should have made sure he was your boyfriend first, but as long as you don't regret it and trust him 100% then it should be ok.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (30 May 2008):
 I don't really see you as a slut but I could understand how some people would think you are. After all you are underage and you did have sex with someone you weren't in partnership with and didn't really know. People would perhaps call you a slut because you gave away your virginity so readily and maybe some guys would try to have a go with you now they know they don't have to try and be nice and be your boyfriend to get sex out of you. Just make sure that next time you do have sex its when your of legal age and with someone you love or are in a relationship with and this will guarantee you won't get called a slut.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): I only see girls who are constantly sleeping with men they don't know and don't especially like (or dislike for the matter), just for the sake of getting of it, as sluts.
I don't think that you're a slut.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 Well, first off - it depends how classy the guy that you did it with is!! If you got any sort of reputation, it would be because of him, I almost guarantee it. If he goes off and brags to all his friends about how you guys did it, blah blah blah, then maybe the guys will start thinking things.
Or, if you go around and brag to all your friends about how you did it and how you want to do it some more - then people might think things about you.
But, you're NOT a slut. That's just the truth. And if you keep your sex life private and your fella does too - no one will think anything about you. Anyone who calls you a slut is stupid and judgmental - don't even worry about what they think.
Just make sure when you're having sex, you keep everything 100% safe!! Otherwise, it's not slutty - but it's icky! And dangerous for your health! Okay, sorry... just had to throw that in.
Don't worry, sweetness.
xx India
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 I can't speak for everyone, but I wouldn't see you as a slut.
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reader, a-g55 +, writes (30 May 2008):
 some will some wont. the one that will you dont want anyway, the ones that do are probably maturer people. girls will think your a slut when there jealous of the fact that your maturing faster than them. please just go out there and do what the hell you want and when you want it. sluts are people who see themselves as sluts and others do to and they loose self respect and end up gettin treated like a slut. where as you can be a confident lass who does exactly as she pleases and doesnt give a fuck about anybody elses thoughts. guys and girls will see this attitude as pretty dam sexxxayyy!!!!!!
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