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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:A guy from my college started contacting me on Facebook a few weeks ago, telling me how much he liked me/'missed' talking to me. I replied after a while and we started to see other around at college. He would tell me some very personal stuff and kept saying how much he loved me. For some reason however, for the last week he has not spoken to me at all, in fact I have not seen him at all (although he lives there) and he has also not responded to an e-mail I sent. Today he had promised to come and meet me but didn't.I'm very confused - why do you think this is? I don't think I've done anything to upset him? And I don't want to appear desperate!And in case this is relevant, we're both autistic and he has been abused for most of his childhood?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): I am sorry to hear your situation. I presume the local lad you have been seeing is in your age. You have to understand that it is not uncommon for young lads to get tired of a relationship. But you can still be optimistic. He might be facing a problem which he does not feel comfortable sharing with others. You mentioned in your post that you are autistic. I assume loneliness, feelings of inadequacy and alienation from social life have made you crave for a companion who has a lot in common with you. Just take one step forward and develop a new social skill. Enlarge your social circle, so that your mind will not focus on a person who may disappoint you in the end. If you still feel compelled to contact with that young lad, try to leave him a message on facebook telling him that you are worried about him. Try not to put pressure on him, because some guys don't like persistent girl. I hope my advice can help.
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