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writes:hi guys! i really like this guy and he likes me too we have fun together but i wish we could move to the next level,like a relationship,buti dont know what to do to get him to ask me. so i need your help. Reply to this Question
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reader, lboy  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 dear reader,
your asking us what we think you should do to get him to ask you, but first you need to know for sure that he wants the same as you then if he does whats stopping you from asking him??? there is nothing wrong with it, you can say it feels weird but it will for him too hehe trust me, stay the way you are now learn for sure that he really likes you then try more to take it to a relationship level.
good luck
lboy
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reader, Artistry  +, writes (31 May 2008):
 Hi, I would think you would play it by ear, and continue to enjoy his company. Sometimes guys want to have friends and other times they want lovers, other times friends turn into lovers. I would not push it too hard, he has to be willing to go to the next level, if he is not, you might have him backing off the friendship, afraid you want more than he does. Do not make yourself available for him, all the time either, he will start to take you for granted. Let him miss you, every now and then, he should start to want to know where you are, and maybe then he will realize, he has feelings for you. But if you are always around, there is no mystery. You will be like comfortable shoes, and you want more than that, but slow walk it as they used to say, you will grow on him, if you play it right. Give him a little of your attention at a time, and play the game of maybe, maybe not. You need to lightly chase him, until he catches you. Enjoy the relationship, but don't give too much. Good luck.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (30 May 2008):
 You need to find out if he wants a relationship and there is nothing to stop you asking him! However if you sound it out first you could stop yourself getting hurt. Some people just want fun and it might be that he is happy with things the way they are x
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