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writes:HiI think my divorced boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level but i dont know how to tell him i am still a virgin at 38, what do i say to him as i am not sure how to tell him, i dont want him to think there is something wrong with me being a virgin at 38, which is my choice.Thanks
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reader, bfire  +, writes (2 June 2008):
Hey don't worry about it at all. Most men like virgins as others have said. Just tell him and that you are happy that he will be your first. He will probably be honored. Maybe a bit more nervous, but nonetheless honored.Virginity is not a curse!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): No problem. Men seem to love virgins (if the posts on this site are anything to go by)
You waited for the right man and you want it to be special. Ask him to be gentle and take things easy with you, cause you've waited so long and you want things to be magical and perfect for your first time.
Sure 38years is a little on the older side (my opinion only) but nothing to be worried or ashamed about. He'll be a little surprised and probably a little scared (taking a virginity is difficult for a man) Have fun and relax in the knowledge that your first time is with a man you love and have waited for. Make it good for you and have fun.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 There's nothing wrong with your being virgin at 38. You just decided to wait. If this is the right time to lose your virginity, well, do it. I'm sure he will enjoy being your first man.
If you feel a little nervous about having sex, maybe the girls in the site will help you with that.
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