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writes: Hi,I was dating this girl for a couple months, doing the long distance thing while she was at college. When she came home from school she said she didn't think we should see eachother because she didn't want to get attached. I txted her a little more than I should have probably and lost my cool a little bit, but I just can't let this go. I really like her and I don't understand what happened. I left her a humorous voicemail the other day asking her to come hang out and she said that it was a very adorable message, BUT she really does not want to get involved. She knows she'd get attached and doesn't want to get hurt.I don't know whether to believe this or not. Part of what drew her to me originally was the fact that I played guitar. I was thinking of writing a song (sort of, I don't really play much anymore) and emailing her the lyrics. Nothing too sappy, just light and funny I was thinking. I don't want to push her away though. Please give me advice on what I should do. Thank you!!!
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 I dont think it will hurt to send them but maybe she just isnt on the same page as you at the moment and is either NOT interested or as she states just doesnt want a relationship at the moment. This is the time for her to have fun and enjoy life. Send the lyrics, my hubbie plays guitar and sings in a band too and we both play piano and I find nusic very romantic and a real turn on so you never know it might work just dont get your hopes up and if it doesnt work there will be someone out there who will love you and cherish your music too!! x
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reader, growing  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 I would suggest that you should look for some place where she won't mind coming and you two can sit and talk.
when she comes make sure that whatever feelings you are showing here in your question,she too can get a feel of that from your face and then just speak you heart out and ask her what's holding her back?when you would know the reason then solution can be taken out.so talk and come up with some sensible suggestions and try to win her trust before her heart.so first look for some friendship and then for some relationship with her.as this will put her at ease with you and she won't mind,getting attached to someone she knows and trusts.
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