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writes:Dear agony aunt,I´ve got a really big problem.I´m in love with a mautre lady. The problem is that my classmates know it and they make jokes about me. The girls in my class laugh and that makes me angry!! Why cant people leave me alone. I just want to live the way I am doing right now. I dont wanna lose my love because of that. Can you give me an advise what to do?pls answer fast it´s really important for me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): Thanks to all answers. I decided to ignore my classmates and live my live the way im doing now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): Whenever you hear one of those girls talking about how hot some grown man is, start laughing at her childishness.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 Being with this "mature" lady is your business. Don't pay attention to people.
Many young men have relationships with older women. Many men have sex for the first time, or "learning periods", with older women, "mature" or not. What is the matter with these guys?
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reader, Gio  +, writes (30 May 2008):
Just try not to pay any attention to them, most of these 'making fun of others' comes form jealousy. Ignoring them could be the only solution, nothing much you can do about ignorance. Don't let the sillyness of other people affect you or your relationship. Show them that you are mature enough as to not be bothered by their comments.
Nowadays, just as with inter-racial relationships, it is a commmon occurence that the male is younger than the female. Read this page and see what I mean: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3679116/
Hope this helps you, write if you wish
All the best
Gio
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 Unfortunately, we have very little control of what others do, say and feel. You do, however, have control over how you react to it. What is most important to you? The lady you love or the opinions of others around you? When it comes down to it, at the end of the day, it's the lady you love that you snuggle in bed with, who tells you everything will be okay. Not these other people that keep heckling you. Typically, when other people put so much focus on other peoples business, it's because they need distraction from their own issues. Lets not forget that EVERYONE has their own issues. Makes you wonder, what kind of dirty laundry are they trying to distract themselves from? Keep that in mind when they bother you about it. Keep your eye on the prize, wether it be a mature lady, a guy, a younger lady, WHATEVER. Do for YOU, not others! And smile, because at least you know what you want in life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): Being an adult is about accepting yourself, if they want to mock you, that's their own immaturity showing through. They obviously haven't got the capabilities yet to be mature.
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