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writes: i want to try cunilingus one day because the i hear it's satisfying to ladies. but i feel it's disgusting. can anyone tell me how it feels like in your mouth and how it smells? i have this feeling there's a bad oduor in there. how do i start? Reply to this Question
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reader, Crazy-Candice  +, writes (11 February 2009):
 Men are quick to ask you to suck their dick but when it comes to going down on a woman they ain't so fast.
To Be Honest i've had men who'se penis weren't so fresh and it is annoying, It is all a matter of personal hygeine.
I keep down there veryy clean but I have many male friends who've told me that there are alot of girls who don't. so pick the right girl not some tramp or slag.
If really worried have some shower/bath fun first and maybe get some scented/funky Lubricant,
for your first time (IT IS worth a try!)
Just take it slow and if you don't wanna, Don't spend too long down there.
I've given cunnilingus myself a few times and it is enjoyable, more enjoyable when you've had a drink or two first to loosen you up.
;-)
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (7 June 2008):
 First, don't rush into it. As you get more and more into sex, you'll naturally come to appreciate the fragrance of a woman. And they do have a fragrance -- from the fragrance of their mouth, to the fragrance of their skin, to the fragrance of their private parts. Each person is different.
As for the idea that it's dirty, well, that's obviously some impression that you've got. I'm not sure what imagine it to be like, but it's not a "dirty place". It's no dirtier than her mouth, which is used for eating, drinking, and breathing. If the lady has showered and kept herself clean it shouldn't have any objectionable odour. But remember, there's huge variation on this. Some girls have a very strong scent; others have virtually none at all.
For me, the vulva is one of the most delightful parts of the body. It's got lovely flesh that you can kiss and enjoy with your lips and tongue. In my opinion, it's no accident that they're built like this. It's a result of evolution -- through hundreds of thousands of years, women's private parts have evolved into exactly what the male of the species likes! So in time you'll find yourself loving what Nature has provided! (Just my private theory!) Just relax and enjoy these things in our own time.
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reader, angelrockheart +, writes (31 May 2008):
ok heres the thing - every girl is different - there is no ' set of rules' for giving oral sex - if you are worried about the odour ask her to wash with some gel specially made for female genitals before you start- also explore what she likes by aksing her - good luck x ( if you are really uncomfortable you don't need to do it)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): Oh how did I know DoubleM would answer on this thread :]
Look honey, do you find your penis disgusting? It has a taste and a smell, just like a vagina. Of course, it depends on the girl's personal hygiene, but most girls are good with keeping it clean down there. You'll do it once, maybe slightly hesitantly. The second time, you'll get your technique. And then you'll be hooked. If you find the woman for you, then everything will fall into place.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (31 May 2008):
 Indeed, cunnilingus is possibly the most effective way to thoroughly please many if not most women. More can be said about that, and you can read a great deal about it by using this Web site's search fields. But to answer your question, the taste and smell of a woman's private area can vary greatly - from totally wonderful (once you are acclimated to the activity) to repugnant. If the girl simply bathes and properly cleans up beforehand, most are entirely pleasant and will be a joy to explore with your tongue.
First of all, most of the time, your attention should be directed to her clitoris (although usually not at the beginning). Her clitoris area is as clean as any part of her body and emits no unpleasant odor or taste at all if cleaned. The only part of her vulva (pussy) that tends to be fairly prone to taste or odor is her vaginal opening. Still, if she is healthy, balanced (bacterial and pH as partly mentioned by "Danielpew") and recently freshened, her vaginal opening can be no less than delicious to a man who is acclimated to providing this kind of stimulation for a woman.
It is not absolutely necessary to plunge your tongue into her opening, however, because most her sensitivity centers at the clitoris. Licking up and down the inner and outer labia (lips) usually provides intense stimulation for most girls. Licking and plunging the vaginal opening with your tongue also provides great pleasure for most women, but this is where you might encounter a fairly musty smell and some pungent taste. I would describe some as being similar to the taste of (dairy) sour cream or plain yogurt. Again, if clean, it is not really unpleasant and most of it usually goes away (dissipates) after a minute of good licking. The bottom line is that you can provide so much pleasure for your girl that it is a hundred times worth a bit of sour taste to give her multiple orgasms - and trust me, you will be richly rewarded by most any girl who appreciates your talents.
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reader, taina1980 +, writes (31 May 2008):
definetely don't try this until your are ready...have your first be someone that is special to you... know that of you try this act on just a random chick it may go wrong and it will turn you off from it forever... and if she stinks be tactful and take a shower with her! good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): If you think that it is diguesting then I don't think that you'll enjpy it, and if you don't enjoy it then I don't think the woman would. All women would taste different and feel different.
There are lots of other ways to please women, but if it's an experience that you would really like to try, then you could start off in a shower or both with your partner... Please them with the shower-head and then a little with your fingers, then move on to the next step. This way you know that they'll be clean and any natural smells will have decreased some what.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (31 May 2008):
 I think all women taste/smell different. Depends on personal hygiene and what products they use. Also if they have had sex recently that will alter the taste/smell. If you are really against it though dont try it until you are ready. When you are take it slow and lick it like an icecream with a relaxed tongue not a tense one!!!!!!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 If you feel cunnilingus is disgusting, I'm afraid no one can help you.
As to having an odor, well, all women have it. That's because the vagina is an open organ; it's always exposed to the entrance of all sorts of microorganisms (including those you carry on your penis, maybe without even knowing you do), so it keeps itself clean by means of a delicate balance of pH and humidity. So, it has to have a scent. Mouths, for example, very often have a particular smell. Having a scent does not make a vagina dirty.
Of course, if the lady is a little careless, she can have a bad scent. Just like anyone else would. I suppose women might also occassionally find a guy whose groin does not smell like lemons and flowers.
If you want to try it, do it. Your mouth is as much a part of your body as your penis is. If you dont' have much reservations about penetrating a specific woman, and then kissing her and exchanging saliva, I don't find a reason to think cunnilingus would be any dirtier.
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