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*urt4life
writes:Read my other 2 question to know more about my situation,please any ur help.My baby father has done all he could to make me feel like shit. He abuse me in many different ways, but i still love him, and have hopes one day he will realized how much i love him. He is a sweetheart when he wants to have sex with me, after he do he says is only pussy, nothing to it, them he start to verbally make me feel down just as a bitch.... We don't live together, he don't look like he wants either, he works at night, and he have had the courage to confess, girl he have met in the public transportation on the way home, they have invited him home, not only that he had unprotected sex, in a first day with a bitch who offer to him at 2:00 am in the morning, it worries me with how many women he have had unprotected sex, i feel so miserable, the not matter what he does to me, i still love him more and more, last night i had sex with him unprotected, now i need to drink an emergency pill to not get pregnant again, i cant take this anymore, who can i find a way to not let him used me anymore,i think he have problems, how can he loves me so much, and the, change his mind and start to make me feel mad, he always manipulate me, the worse he don't want me to talk to any gut, he tell me to day to move on, to let him alone, the he don't want to be with me, them 10 minutes pass and he said, i love u, i wish i can have u in my arm every night.WHAT CAN I DO?[Moderator Note] When referring to previous questions please provide a link or the subject title. As this will assist the aunties in identifying which of the 100's of previous anon Questions are yours. Alternatively you can take a minute to register with Dear Cupid and previous questions can be accessed more easily by clicking your username.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): Sorry, it's me again. I really need to think things over more slowly. I now see that you have been stupid enough to have a child with this man. Ah well... at least you have a child to love with all your heart.
Put your child first, ignore your feelings. You have made your mistakes, it's not fair for your child to suffer. Ask yourself a question - How would you feel if your son or daughter was treated like this. What would you tell them to do. Follow the advice that you would give as a mother. What would you tell your best friend? How can they be happy if their mother is unhappy. How can they be happy with a father that treats their mother like this.
Sorry - I'm finished now. Blessings to you and your son. Death and destruction to nasty, dirty men who cheat and hurt and have no respect for anything but their dicks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): Damn.... You've got me started now. I hate men who abuse and hurt women.
When your ready to get over him, read this post. It's quiet good about how to move on and forget. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-your-ex.html
Good luck to you....... IF YOUR SMART YOU WILL DUMP THIS GUY AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. HE LOVES HURTING YOU. Life is short and there is no sign that he can change his behaviour and treat you nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): Sorry I misread your post. I now see you are sensible enough not to bring children into this sick unhealthy relationship.
But you love him enough to risk death or lifetime illness due to his unprotected sex and promiscuity. Aids and HIV are still around, their not rumors, people catch it all the time.
You love him, when he abuses you enough and makes you cry and hate yourself enough, you will move on. When he gets bored and tired and finds a woman who is strong enough to take him on and stop him from doing this shit, then he'll leave you.
Dump him or continue being "IN LURVE....." untill you get fed up and find someone who can give you the love, kindness and tenderness that I think you deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): Read this http://www.dearcupid.org/question/warning-signs-youre-dating-a-loser.html
If the girls he sleeps with are bitches, then what are you. At least they've got enough sense not to take the "dog" home with them, so it can shit in their face.
You love him, and you will do anything to keep him. He knows this. So why should he change. He's got you at home, and can have sex with anyone he wants. Your the best bitch he ever found, cause you'll forgive him no matter what. Why? Cause your "IN LURVE....." He says sorry, he says "I LURVE YOU" and you forget and forgive.
What can you do.... Dump him, develop some self respect. Realise that your nothing to him but a convient sex object and move on to being a proud single mother looking after her son. Stop being HURT4LIFE, learn how to be HAPPYWITHLIFE......
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 I think you love him because you think that you deserve it. I think that you've been brainwash.
You're not in a relationship, at least not in my book, this is just being F*** friends.
The only thing I see that he's doing good is telling you that you should leave him.
By being with a monster, you're missing out chances with actual good guys that would treat you like a princess, like every woman should be treated.
If you're able to love a monster, just imagine the love that you'll be able to give to a "Good-guy".
You want to change him? Sorry to tell you this but nobody can't force someone to change himself, it must come from the heart, HIS heart.
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