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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The age difference bothers him and now he doesn't want us to be together, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are 8 years apart and things have never been easy. The age thing doesn't bother me one bit, however it bothers him big time. He says he wouldn't care if all my friends and everyone didn't know who he was (He was the construction worker at my high school) We ... (170 words)

After sex it hurts when I pee but it's not an infection. What could it be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya :) i have sex with my partner alot usually everytime we see eacother which is 4days a week .. but after we have sex my private parts are always hurting and its hurting wen i do a pee .. i dont know what it is .. its like a burny feeling after i have sex which usually ... (85 words)

We're really close - how can I be sure she likes me in the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i am currently living in halls at university. i have a crush on my flatmate and i have a feeling that this is mutual between us. how am i to be certain though? as one wrong move by me could cause a long period of awkwardness. we text frequently which she likes to call cheeky ... (100 words)

I ejaculate too quickly. I want my GF to be able to cum first, can you suggest something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

25 March 2008 (M) - Hi, I would really need some real help, and I appreciate some feed backs from people. basically, I have this problem of reaching the orgasim real fast, I don't know how to stop cuming, before she comes first. I have come a cross some ideas like ejaculation before sex, ... (150 words)

How can I get her to cum before me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

Am I a loser?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel like such a loser. i had an amazing party for my 18th and invited lots of my friends, so afterwards we planned to have an afterparty at a house thats about 5 minutes away my mum was fine with it because it was after the party, but then the boy couldn't have it. later o... (256 words)

I'm seeing a man separated from his wife but I just found out they are planning a holiday together! Should I believe him about the divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with this man for a year. In the beginning of our relationship he told me that he is separated and he said to me that he is divorcing her...She is living abroad and they have a child together. I did not believe him and always insist that we should b... (248 words)

I keep having gay thoughts about a close friend. I'm confused! Help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's the story ... I'm 18 yrs old, I'm not sure if I'm bi-sex u Str8, definetaly not gay. Lately I've been having gay taughts about a friend of mine. I don't like any other guys, I just like him. I continously think about him all day long and I can't get him out of my mi... (197 words)

I'm a sexy single but I can't find that special someone so should I move to greener pasteurs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive come to the conclusion I am never going to meet anyone special. Im 35 and without being big headed v attractive, fit, with my own home car etc. I was badly hurt 4 years ago and took the time it needed to get over it but Ive been single for most of this time now. All my ... (145 words)

I'm fifteen and want a baby with my boyfriend (16), should I wait?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

25 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Ok your gonna all think I'm absoultely crazy and some may tell me I need mental help but please tell me your thoughts about what I'm about to tell you ok. Ever since I was very young I've wanted a baby.I'm 15 years old now . I know I'm going to be a great mom and I want t... (281 words)

Is it okay to be there for your ex when he is down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years have broken up for a week now and it's been goin well, i have jus been goin up n down with emotionss.. we didn't talk until las nite he said dat he is sorry for doin this to me but he was jus havin a break down and said he hates his life (... (214 words)

Am I wrong for sleeping with my boss? My friend is making me feel horrible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I slept with my boss recently, we are both single (he is a fair bit older than me), it was kind of planned and came after months of incredible sexual tension in the office! No one really knows and apart from a little awkwardness at first, everything is back to normal and the ... (275 words)

He hasn't called after our first night of sex!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy recently and after talking for ages my friend invited him back with me. I was a bit nervous and did explain before we left that nothing was to be expected. We dropped my friend home and him and I sat till light talking and kissing. Well we did end up ... (122 words)

How do you come to terms with never seeing them again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

- How do you come to terms with the fact that you will never see somebody you have become very attached to and have maybe even fallen' in love ever again? Because I just don't think I can. x... (40 words)

How can I be more hygenic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

- Im not very hygenic and want to become more. I dont bath regually. What can I do to become more hygenic and smell nice and be clean?? I was thinking to have a bath every other day. Change my bedding every week. Brush teeth twice a day which i usually do anyway. and Just make ... (60 words)

My girlfriend flipped over internet pic of me kissing a girl! How can I get her to see that it is just an innocent peck on the cheek for the camera?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i went to a party recently with a friend. As we got to the party, we met some friends and started taking pictures before we entered the place. One girl told me to kiss her on the cheek while taking the picture. I kissed on the cheek but not like I meant it. She posted the ... (331 words)

How do I get my best friend to see I am a good asset to have in his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i am not sure but i think that know this guy i really like that is also my best friend is starting to have feelings for me and last night he did something unexpected i got to hold his hand in public kind scared me a little at first but was glad that it happened but how do i ... (108 words)

After 21 years my husband says I am too old for him and that he doesn't love me anymore! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age - After 21 years of marriage my husband woke up one morning and told me that I was too old for him ( I am 12 years older than him) and that he didnt love me anymore. He says I have not done anything wrong its him, he hasnt had an affair so he says. what do I do, I love him so ... (85 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend his brother tried to kiss me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm in a great relationship we have been together for three years and are talking about marriage.I could not ask for more. I do however have a problem my guy has a little brother two years younger than him they are extremly close and love each other. His family is great and ... (372 words)

I'm 17 and she's 44, but I've fancied her for over two years now, and I think she likes me too..any tips on how to progress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 17 and i have noticed that i dont fancy girls my own age. However I have found that I fancy older women is this normal and ok? I know this lady and I fancy her she is 44 and single. I have fancyed her for 2 years now and think she likes me to she always talks to me and ... (114 words)

My breasts have become tender and I'm getting bad stomach pains, is this related to recently coming off depo-provera injections or could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, This may be more of a question for the doctor, but maybe some of you have had the same experience. I was on the depo-provera injection for three months only and came off it on the 14 December. In January a had light bleeding which lasted for about seven days. I ha... (159 words)

My friend is 14 and her boyfriend is 19, I'm sure they love each other, but her mum is against him, what do I advise to help them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Okay so this might be wrong in some of your eyes but to them it is love. they know they will be married when they get older. they love each other more than anything else in the world. her dad loves him and his family loves her. but there are a few problems. he... (217 words)

Our friends want us to join them on a nudist beach,but my wife is a little unsure about doing the Full Monty, any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age - hi we have been asked by close friend to go to a local nudist beach. they have started to go and enjoy the freedom of no clothes. we are both open to the idea and not prudes. but my wife is a little unsure about being seen by someone so close and currently is fully shaven. ... (114 words)

He's seeing new people and is happy without me. Will I ever get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 18 and me and my ex have recently broken up. I thought I was fine for about a week but then I realised that he is happy without me and is seeing other girls. I feel terrible, I was nearly physically sick when I found out. Many think that our relationship was just a ... (150 words)

Whenever I criticise his porn viewing he brings up my past and calls me a slut!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with this guy for about 4 years... at least that's how HE puts it. We hung out together for one year, have lived together for the past 3, but in my mind, have been officially a couple for maybe 1. I have always tried to make it perfectly clear in my relationships ... (321 words)

My boyfriend fingered me yesterday and I'm bleeding today...is there something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im sixteen and my boyfriend and i are sexually active...we've had sex a few times, and he's fingered me a lot. I was fingered once before by a different guy and i masturbate a lot. I dont ever remember my hymen being broken and thats my problem. Yesterday my BF and i were ... (136 words)

Due to my very troubled past and bad experiences with people close to me I have trouble trusting people. How can I trust my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Wow. Where do I begin? When I was younger I was raped. Then later on in my life I was molested twice. Then at 17 a 38 year old from the church that I used to go to since middle school tried to have sex with me. My mom french kissed me when I was little, and I've had a ... (806 words)

I had lesbian sex with my boss.. could I make her realise we can develope a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I did something really stupid. I slept with one of my managers from work. I've fancied her since my first day there. She makes my heart melt. She made all these promises to me saying we could be really good together, especially since she's going back to part time work a... (261 words)

Is he using me to fill the empty void his ex has left in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - well ive been dating a guy for about a year now and we recently moved in together...we meet shortly after him and his ex broke up. they were together and lived together four years. she left him for another man. he still keeps letters and pictures, occasionally he'll talk about ... (148 words)

I'm trying to make conversation with this girl but I'm not good at it! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i need some advice, im not very good at what to talk to this girl i like her,im a bit shy too so that does not help anyway.... i do try to make conversation but she does not do qustions back to me so it seems its just me asking which seems boring i think she likes me i r... (71 words)

Should I ask for his phone number or will he think I'm wierd?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some advice. There is this guy I met and I really like him. At first I didn't know I liked him but I think he liked me. I'd see him often and had great time talkinn to him. But I was too shy to make a move.Then he droped out of our school and I haven't seen him for ... (131 words)

Is my boyfriend starting to trust my cousin more than me? Is this right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My b/f was supposed to go to bradenton to go to a junkyard with his cousin sunday! Well i dont how but they ended up on mrytel in sarasota which is completely impossible! Since they were there they decided to go hang out with my cousin! My b/f and my cousin are getting a little ... (117 words)

I know he likes me but he's a mess...can I start something with him or is this a bad idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm wondering if anybody has any advice regarding my situation. I worked with some one for a year i kind of liked him and i know he liked me. anyway he had a girlfriend who he lived with. Weve kept in touch over the last few months, he broke up with his girlfriend about 4 ... (258 words)

I never hear back from the boys I kiss! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want a boyfriend, its been so long and Im startin to feel lonely. I seem to gt boys attention but all we do is kiss at a party or when I go out but then thats it, and I never really hear back from them. And if we do talk after I always make the effort, its so annoying! ... (77 words)

How can you tell if somebody loves you

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - how do you know if someone loves you... (8 words)

His friends party or me should I make him choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend live quite far away, and i usually see him every other weekend, i didnt see him last weekend so im supposed to see him this weekend. The problem is is that hes going to his friends birthday,and there going out to bars etc. I cant go because ive lost my ... (122 words)

How do you deal with the pain from having an abortion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey,i had an abortion 2 weeks ago and feel like i am falling apart. My family have been surportive but they dont understand. i cant talk to my friends either they are trying to help but theres nothing they can do. I just need to know that i will be able to move on and the pain ... (71 words)

Do you "spit" or "swallow"? What do you do with the cum?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - when you give a guy a handjob or a blow job and he cums...what do you do with it??? do you spit it out or what?? sry,ive never done it before and i want to know so i know what to do... (42 words)

Is it bad to ask my boyfriend for less attention? I have feelings for a long distance friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well theres this guy and we've met way long ago, since then we've always liked each other. He lives in the Philippines and i live in United States. but no matter what everytime i go there its like the feelings never go away. In other words we've liked each other for a ... (439 words)

His arguing and rudeness since our wedding is causing my love for him to disappear...I have no idea what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age - My husband of one year (although we have known each other for nearly three years) is becoming more and more insulting towards me. Prior to our marriage he was fantastic for 18 months, full of fun, loving caring and gentle. The day we got married he threw a temper tantrum ... (213 words)

I keep testing, hoping to be 'prego', what should be my next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - OK well ! I still have no period or signs of a period. And I'm due on 3/28/2008, I had a blood preg. test on 3/23/2008 which may have been too soon but I thought I'd test anyways. I did a urine test on 3/24/2008. Both were neg. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what would ... (73 words)

How can we be friends again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - She found out few weeks ago I like her I spoke and admitted it. She spoke later saying she doesn't feel the same. We were close friends but now she talks ok when I talk but most of time she avoids talking like walks faster when I'm near her. Its ripping me up inside as before ... (69 words)

Is seeing someone else while split up cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think he seeing someone else while we were split up is 'cheating' on me?... (16 words)

Do you think he's gross to like me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl, well I'm almost 14. Recently since I've been on msn, someone added me on their list. I accepted them because I might know the person. I asked them who they were. He said his name and that he was 26. I told him I was 13. Don't worry, he's not a perv. We ... (106 words)

Eleven year friendship, five months of long distance relationship...and we've never met in person!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend on the internet 11 years ago this summer. We were kids when we first met and dated on and off, drifting apart occasionally, but never losing contact of each other. Last May he finally broke ties with his ex-girlfriend, and I was breaking up with a short lived ... (536 words)

He no longer wants to please me sexually or orally after I had our baby, I feel insecure and need advice!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is 37 and im 27 and we just had a baby but about 6 months into my pregnancy he quit wanting to please me sexually or orally. I go down on him several times a week but he makes excuses on why he won't please me. The only time he does please me is when I complain and ... (163 words)

What's 'cowgirl' please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Just a quick question.....What's cowgirl position? Is it like "French carriage to Lyon" due to the bumpy road which lead from Paris to Lyon. Anyway......I dare say I've just realised that I've become old...........thank you all. ... (40 words)

My husband lied about contacting his ex, he's posted near her now...I am going totally crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is in the army and is posted to the North of England while I still live in Scotland. He comes home at weekends. We have been married for nearly 12 years and have one child, a daughter aged 9. His ex girlfirend lives near to the area he has been posted to and he... (620 words)

How do I know if the baby his exgirlfriend is having is his?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya .. Well I have been seeing this boy for over 3 months now and I am crazy about him !! Its just that his ex-girlfriend is pregant? And shes almost 6 months pregant and they both finished the end of july start of august. I just want to know is it his. Do you know? I am soo... (78 words)

I need a boyfriend and I don't know what to do!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I am 13 and I have never had a boyfriend. I don't know what to do. Please help me.... (20 words)

He told me I had bad breath and I am sooo embarassed!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I got told the other night when I kissed someone that I had bad breath but then he was fine after, he was just like joking about and making it funny, but it so wasnt! I want to speak to him again but am so imbarressed as it was the 1st time we had met! What if hes like telling ... (71 words)

Where should I take him so we can talk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I posted earlier under 'is he "hiding" something?' How is the best way to talk to him calmly about how I feel about dating and tell him that. If I take him out to dinner how to I convince him that I want to take him somewhere nice for it to be a date. Outback to me is not a da... (104 words)

Can't leave him but he's horrible to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age - Hi everyone, I'm feeling low. I feel my boyfriend is mistreating me. He is 28 I'm 43, he's turkish. I know it's a big age gap, but I don't look 43 and he looks older. The problem is we have been together for 18 months and things are starting to go bad, he can't hold down a job, ... (170 words)

My period was different, I'm not pregnant, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This might seem silly (and embarressing) but I usually have really heavy periods, and not much discharge. But my last period was late and really light. and the amount of discharged has increased. I can't be pregnant, because the last encounter I had didn't involve s... (53 words)

How can we make our long distance relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age - I am in the Northeast, have 3 children and am separated. My soulmate is about 1000 miles away and has two children. Neither one of us can realisticly move to where the other lives as the kids cannot be taken away from their other parent. My soulmate and i have known each other ... (189 words)

Could my future career affect my dating life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 14 year old male and my cousins and friends keep trying to get me a girlfriend but the fact I want to join the military in the future as a medical technician. I dont think girls will want to date me if I wont be around in the future. Sombody please help, I want to know ... (91 words)

Irregular period...is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this is quite embarressing I'm 16 and had my first period when I was 13. However it is still very irregualr, sometimes I have a day flow, someitmes I have a week, and sometimes months go without anything at all? I also have bad period pains sometimes, what is going o... (69 words)

Can someone explain why guys like dating and sex sites if they are in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i recently posted a question about my boyfriend lieing to me about being on dating sites/sex sites. I know its wrong for me to check in his email but ever since I first found out about his lieing of this I guess I've lost trust in him. He has asked me to give him another chance ... (176 words)

The future for us as friends almost like we are still in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. Hello. Rcentely, I've broken up with my 7 month boyfriend as because, he wants his space and 'single' life back. He explained it was not me but, him and I could go onto more details though, this one striked me. He said ''Sarah. Let me make this clear. Nothing h... (350 words)

Does she have an interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I went to a dance with my family and this girl I met about 1 year ago came with her family. Since we met I hadn't asked her out so I decided I was going to ask her to dance if a slow song came on. Too make a long story short I ventually asked her to dance and she said that ... (115 words)

Do flings for sex and fun and friendship work? I have no experience in them.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi my long term partner walked out on me in a temper a couple of months ago - we have seen each other on-off since then and although i love him dearly i don't hold out much hopes of a proper sustainable reconciliation ad he is having some sort of mid life crisis and is blaming ... (230 words)

He hasn't responded to my petition for divorce...any ideas why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am at the moment going through the stage of divorcing my enotionally and sometimes physically abusive ex. The last time I saw him was the beginning of dec when he caused criminal damage to my car. For the first time ever I stood up to him and got the police involved as I had ... (173 words)

He said it was a drunken mistake while we were split up...what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year n half and it went great we were so happy until last night i found out he was seeing this girl twice whilst we were split up (but we knew it wouldnt last long and got back together within a week.) I am so heartbroken and i dont know what ... (114 words)

My parents are getting divorced and my bf has asked me to move in...I'm not sure what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has asked me to move into his house with him. This is not the first time in the last few weeks, this time he said that he felt our relationship had got past just being a relationship and he wanted to take it further. We havent always been stable ( mainly due to his ... (290 words)

Pregnant, and experiencing bleeding...I've seen the doctor but want advice too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, was just wondering if i could have your help and advice once again! I am now experiencing what every pregnant woman must fear.............bleeding. I had a bleed on friday for about half an hour, and a bleed for 8 hours yesterday. Ive had no clots, and... (135 words)

I'm stuck in an on again, off again cycle with my first love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm just looking for some advice really about first loves. I keep going back to mine when deep in my heart i know that it will never work. we have split up about 3 times before and each time we have had no contact for 3months but then one of us rings each other up and we d... (144 words)

Lack of trust on his part...do I deserve my privacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my fiance now for almost 4 years, but over the past year he has suddenly started to not trust me. He keeps checking my text messages when I'm not around and he finds out passwords to my e-mail accounts and checks those too. He hates it when I go out with my ... (126 words)

Friends... or more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, lately me and one of my best friends have been getting a lot closer. Whenever one of us is drunk we end up spending the night together. It has happened a few times now, but every time it comes to the next morning we have to pretend like it didnt happen as we are both ... (167 words)

He is joking with me about our past...but what does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i broke up with this guy 6months ago, we later started talking, and he would joke with me at work place about how he touched me, he would jokingly tell me how he worked hard to get me pregnant. he would always be the first to notice my facial expression, my dressing, or my ... (96 words)

I feel like I give him sex to swap help from him... please advise.

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've just divorced my husband of 20 years and met this Englishman 18 years my senior and Im not from England. Im 45. He is trying to help to get my life on track. He has sex with me whenever he sees me. I never say no because I would be totally lost without him. I feel ... (85 words)

Could our relation work despite of our different lifestyles and do I ask my ex to reconsider??

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25 March 2008 (F)

- My bf of two months broke up with me yesterday. We originaly met thru a mutal friend. Anyway he said the reason was cuz he wasnt ready for a relationship (we are 19). I took that to mean he wants to sleeep around with as many girls as he can. Apparanrly before me he did...bu... (536 words)

My ex told he he hated me and that his new partner is miles better. Why does he behave so and how should I react?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone i just would like your opinions on a situation. I'll give a bit of background info.. Me and my ex split up in june last year it was a real bad break up and i thought it was all my fault as id slept with someone whist we had split up (a previous break up i thought ... (406 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend and should I tell about my feelings to his best friend?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem and I don`t know what to do. I`m in a relationship and we have been living together for 3 years, some time ago we also got engaged. He is a really great man and I love him a lot, but not a way I should. I have been feeling this way for over a year, I don`t have ... (278 words)

I'm being made redundant and its making me depressed. I don't feel family are being supportive. Can anyone offer some advice?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling really low at the moment. I am shortly to be made redundant from a job that I loved until fairly recently. It was a fixed term contract position in which the suggestion was that there could be a permanent job there if I stayed long enough. The cynical me would ... (849 words)

My 13 yr old daughter had a disturbing dream about her teacher. How do I deal with this?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My daughter (13 years) told me something that was very embarrassing for her. what happens if your child has a dream about teacher she doesn't even like as a teacher or fancy. she told me that is was kind of creepy and she doesn't think that she can look at the old guy agai... (88 words)

How can you tell if someone likes you? Apart from the obvious, Is there any body language to look out for?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How can you tell if someone likes you? I don't mean ovious things like asking you out on a date or physical contact but body language. Do they display signals when they are not talking to you? say, they are in the same room as you. could you read their body language? ... (57 words)

Do you think the guy I met is ready to take me and my baby on in a relationship?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i was texting this lad that i really like for about 3 weeks he lives about 20 mins away! and on friday i stayed at his and we slept together, and hes not ignored me hes rung me everyday and we have spoke for about and hour a time. im a single mum with a 3 month old li... (173 words)

How do you start taking it slowly after a whirlwind long distance relationship?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 30 and have been in a LDR with a guy who's 24, for about 6 months now. At first he couldn't get enough of me. He'd PM me non-stop during the day ending them with love you forever etc etc, sending me requests to join him on the webcam as soon as I logged onto MSN after a ... (216 words)

Why wont she believe me when I tell her she is beautiful?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi ive recently met this girl and shes amazing, and the only thing wrong with her is her acceptance, she wont accept shes beautiful no matter how many times i tell her, how can i prove to her shes beautiful, bear in mind that ive only said she is over the internet as i said it ... (109 words)

Have I just "spotted" something odd about my penis?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey just a quick question really i have two or three really tiny little red dots on the head of my penis, im still a virgin and havent done any oral lately, dont think its much but just thought id check :)... (44 words)

My cousin is in love with me but how can I live up to her expectations?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a cousin who is in love with me. She suggests that she wants to marry me and says that she loves me, yet, nearly every week, we have a fight on something small and she expects me to say sorry, even thought it is my fault. She says she really loves me but doesn't say ... (95 words)

My boyfriend ran into his ex- he used to be obsessed with her- should I be worried? He's acting wierd...

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend ran into an old friend not to long ago and I asked his friend about her, apparently they had dated and he was obsessed with her. He's been acting weird and giving her things, fighting over her with his friend jokingly (Who had dated her too)"I told her this first" ... (144 words)

She got back together with her ex and I'm still not over it! How long will it take?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was in a serious relationship which unfortunately lasted just 4 months because of an argument that we had which ended in her breaking up with me. I was devestated by the break up but thought i'd recover with time. We broke up 7 months ago but I still think of her almost ... (207 words)

How should I break up with this guy? He keeps cancelling dates to see me!

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm was in a relationship with a guy but lately, we haven't been seeing each other. When I ask him out he agrees readily, but in the end he always cancels for some reason or other and he will contact me to apologize and reschedule the meeting. At first I used to agree but ... (327 words)

His ex sends graphic naked pictures to him- up close & personal! How should I react?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My BF and I have been dating for 4 months. He has TWO ex wives. His son is from his first. She cheated on him and is now married to the one she cheated with years ago. She has been sending him naked (and graphic) pics of her body...(yes all of it) up close and personal. He ... (203 words)

I met him online and then he "disappears" so is there still hope?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this guy on a lame site. well he messaged me saying he is also new in the city and that he didnt have friends, and i am in the same situation. so we talked. i learned that he is looking for a long term relationship, which he mentioned on his profile, and i was just ... (514 words)

I feel like I've never stopped loving her, so is there a chance?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's my problem: I moved from one country to another nearly 10 years ago. I haven't seen nor talked to my old friends who stayed back there for all this time cause there hasn't been a way to do it. Among them was my first love ever - we had no relations with her back there, ... (272 words)

I want to make him jealous and beg me to be with him, any suggestions?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - how can i make my friend whom i have been fighting with for 2 weeks now jealous and want me the more? help me i love him. but i want him to beg!... (33 words)

My ex says "I'm gonna get you pregnant"! What does he want?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i broke up with my ex 6 months 4 months ago, after few months we began talking because we work in the same area. but after some months, we would find our selves flirting with each other, mixing up old talks about our feelings to our discussion jokingly. he would always pick ... (122 words)

I've been dating a guy that calls me "a friend" & doesn't answer his phone! What is his deal?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been going out with this guy for 4 months now, and things were going on well with us, we do everything lovers do, but yet he calls me his best friend and says am just a friend, that kinda pisses me off though, but i still keep up. weeks later he started avoiding me, and ... (170 words)

Is he "Hiding" something?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - well there is this guy that i live with and we have fooled around a few times but it seems to only happen when we are high on something and in that state he likes to be the bottom but then when we are sober he gets mad at me when he feels that i treat him like a fifth wheel i ... (157 words)

How do I convince my boyfriend I still want to be with him if he has "Erectile Dysfunction"?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf suffers from Erectile Dysfunction although we have never actually seen a doctor about this,we are unable to properly have sex. Now,however,he has decided that we should just be friends as he can never be in love with me the way he wants. In other words he is kidding on ... (140 words)

She says she doesn't want anything serious so how do I take things to the next level?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, so just about 4 months ago i started to get back into dating again when i met this girl that has me going crazy now(in a good way). she has been writing me messages and texting me multiple times a day and she always wants to be around me when im in town. She is really ... (214 words)

Cheating on my boyfriend with my married coworker! Why don't I feel bad about this?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - In order not to make this too long, here is the situation. Basically: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. He ended up cheating on my emotionally (flirting, texting, talking with this girl quite a bit younger). We got back together, things had been fine for... (334 words)

I don't want to leave my boyfriend but I am finding myself attracted to a girl! What do you think?

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25 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - This is a hard question to ask . Please don't judge me by this ok . I have the most amazing boyfriend anyone can ever ask for! He's the very best ! I would never ever want us to seperate I love him soooo much! He loves me too. But recently I have started liking this girl ... ... (217 words)

When you get your "cherry popped" is there a lot of blood?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 13 and i didnt get my first period yet, but i want to have sex so when my cherry pops will alot of blood come out because i didnt have my first period yet?... (36 words)

How do I ask a girl out?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i really like my friend. i'm 15 and she's 16. we've been friends for 4 months. she just broke with her bf of about a year. to make a long story short we always kinda flirted. i really like her and i wanna know how to ask her out. i don't wanna sound stupid and also i don't ... (85 words)

What can I say to her when I call to make this right? I'm so embarrassed!

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this new cell phone I hardly can pay (well I can't pay for it) but let's just say I have faith I'll find a good job soon. Anyways, I recently saw an old friend from high school I have not seen in a while and of course we spent some time talking about our lives and mutual ... (186 words)

How can you tell if a person is gay ? How do you know it's just not a crush?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm about close to 17, but I feel so young, like on 14 or so. 17 seems like you're supposed to act all mature, but I'm still in high school! Anyways, I think I'm gay either b/c I've been looking at porn and then mostly gay porn for a long time now. I see some people in m... (170 words)

Should I be glad after 18 months he finally introduced me to his mother? Or mad because I feel like a "dirty secret" because he had never mentioned me before now?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend for a year and a half invited me down to meet his mother last saturday. And since I will be moving to Iowa what was the point on meeting his mother right? Well he explained to me that he wanted to see if there other doors to be opened. What ever that meant I still ... (277 words)

Signs of "A boss having emotional feelings towards employee"?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have 5yrs with company.... * Never admits others to conversate with me with out him being around! * Wants to be on top of things, when it comes to conversations. * When looking at me, stares off into lala land. * Always states "don't get married anytime soon" * Neve... (88 words)

We've been together for 5 months yet I'm still shy and stuck for words when he is around.....please help!

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well for starters im 14 and he is 15 i am an EXTREMELY shy person and we have been together for about 5 months and i dont know what it is but everytime i am around him im speechless! i dont know why so could you give me some advice about How NOT to be so shy when i am around ... (63 words)

After 13 years and four children together can it really be over?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend broke up with me after 13 yrs and 4 kids. but still wants to be friends but i love her.and she says she need to go on with her life now but still she wants to be friends ive read that we shouldnt talk and all that right now we are going through a ruff time but i ... (69 words)

Can you help me understand why she had sex during our 'time out' period..?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Here's my story. 2 years ago, my best friends sister asks me out. She is a year and a half older than I am. We begin dating and things are perfect. She has many close friends which are guys. There is one certain guy who she would hardly hang out with, but on occasion ... (547 words)

Performance anxiety is ruining my life....any advice that doesn't involve medicines?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - im having performance anxiety. You know how the mind have a powerful control over the body? Well im having trouble relaxing. and almost all of my sexual encounters went wrong. So im thinking that because those painful memories my minds self defense to act this way. so ive ... (125 words)

I love him but I think he has some one else, how can I get over this?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - heyy i like this boy and all and we went out one time and then he said he just wanted to be friends so we went for a few months just talkin and then he said that he likes me. i liked him still, too. we went out again and a about 4 days later he said he wanted to be friends. ... (132 words)

I love him so much so why am I always having a go at him?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm engaged to a wonderful man whom i love and who i am IN love with. I'm just not happy. I love him with every inch of my heart, we have a gorgeous home and a fantastic relationship. We are best friends as well as partners. I love my job and have an active social life, but for ... (161 words)

Does he like me more than friend?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy and he makes it seem like he likes me too. We've had a few conversations online and some in real life. I catch him looking at me sometimes, he's stood beside me and joined in my groups convo, does the little things I ask him to do, teases me playfully, we ... (169 words)

He wants to give me oral-any tips or advice on what to do in preparation?

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend are in a really good secure relationship and we love each other a lot. However, when it comes to sex we both like to please one another. We both try hard to make sure the other is satisfied. I'm okay with everything apart from oral. I love giving h... (202 words)

Breaking up is hard to do! Any tips?

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25 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - dear cupid. I currently have an girl friend, i feel that i do not like her anymore. I dont know how to end the relationship so that i can move on and get another girl friend, as there is someone else like. I know i may be young but i still dont want to break someones hear... (82 words)

I'm having mental health problems and I think it is partly because of stressing out over "im"!

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25 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey dudes/dudettes this week has been a rollercoaster week for me...i was diagnosed with depression at the begining of the week, i was also given pills to help stop anxiety and worrying all the time, ive had blood tests and im gna be going in for sum head scan soon,i was ... (439 words)

He frogives his ex for cheating but wont forgive me for my harmless flings before I had even met him!

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25 March 2008 (F) age 36-40 - ok this is probably very juvenile of me... but here it goes. i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. he's my first boyfriend, and the only man i've slept with, we have shared a lot, and have a lot in common. however, there is this guy who introduced us, w... (507 words)