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writes:Here's the story ... I'm 18 yrs old, I'm not sure if I'm bi-sex u Str8, definetaly not gay. Lately I've been having gay taughts about a friend of mine. I don't like any other guys, I just like him. I continously think about him all day long and I can't get him out of my mind. I'm not sure if he's bi-sex or str8, once he kissed a boy a don't know if that means anything. Anyway I guess he's str8. To make it worse he like to sort of flirt, sending txts with kisses and stuff like that, making me more mad about him. As a already said I don't like any other guys, but I can't help thinking about him. We're really good friends I don't want to do anything stupid and ruin our friendship, but he's so fu**in hot! I can't get him out of my mind! I have left 3 options!* kill my Best friend?? (nah!)* reveal my feelings? (( Nah! ))* or should I avoid him? Any other options??
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reader, lboy  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 dear reader,to be honest i would not do any of the above choices you mentioned, don't kill him lol, don't tell him how you feel YET and dont avoid him that willl just make it worse cos he will send txt's wantin to know where u r u'll feel flattered that he is worried and ull start to feel bad about ditchin him, i say just keep the friendship going then maybe one night when ur alone just talk to him about it just ease into the conversation ok don't be up front and blurt it straight out cos that with knock him back just let him know gently just bring it into the conversation i dont know how but you'll figure something out lol and if he dont feel the samew way he'll tell you but most likely still be your friend then ull be able to move on and find someone else lolz, and if he does good luck with him lol, anyway thats all i can say for now so hope it goes well and let us know.good lucklboyxxx
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reader, Jolie +, writes (28 March 2008):
 hahahaha whenever i wanted to say something .......I usually drink 2 bottles of wine and I say it. I will feel less shy & I wont care. And bdw a real friend stands there for you in however you are so if I were you I would talk to him and tell him how I feel.
Good luck :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks daniellexxxx it was helpful! but I'm afraid I might ruin out Friendship. At least right now I get a chance to stay with him, even though I hide my real feelings :S . The strange fact is that I don't like any other guys, just him.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (27 March 2008):
 reveal your feelings to him soundds to me like your bi. but talk to him about how you feel atleast you will have it of your chest good luck x
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reader, MsLaverne +, writes (26 March 2008):
 Hmm...why don't you meet a counsillor and talk to her/him about this problem?
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