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writes: Hi, I would really need some real help, and I appreciate some feed backs from people.basically, I have this problem of reaching the orgasim real fast, I don't know how to stop cuming, before she comes first.I have come a cross some ideas like ejaculation before sex, or stop before cuming for 60second, eventhough this helps but it kind of take away the whole real experince, it makes it like artificial. can you please suggest somthing I can try to hold it longer, and make her cum first before me?I am open to any idea, my girl friend is so cross about this and I really want to put this right, once and for all, so please help me...thanks very much for your timeNick
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): Just think about your grandma in pijamas...it helps me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): Many women have their best orgasms from oral. My wife and a woman who I dated many years ago have/had their most intense and longest lasting orgasms with oral sex. Even if they have orgasms with intercourse, giving them an oral orgasm will make the experience much better for them. I enjoy giving my wife oral very much and her response makes me feel good. While giving her oral you can also gently rub her G-spot with your finger. It is about 2 inches inside her and is really the back side of her clit. It is somewhat rough in texture and easy to find. Rub it gently in a circular motion while gently licking her clit. I never noticed any smell or taste with either my wife or that past girlfriend of any other woman who I was with.
As I am older now, I last much longer then when I was younger. What I used to do if I thought I was going to orgasm too soon was to try to think of something boring, like some work that I had to do that I didn’t like. My wife never noticed that I was doing that when I told her what I did. After she had her orgasm then I would concentrate on my own pleasure. As someone else suggested, you could try a condom for a while, as they will decrease the sensitivity for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Have you tryed clitirol stimulation before you penitrate(no touching) This will excite both of you she gets to have her orgasm just before you penitrate..Or oral can she orgasm this way...You can do it more than once a night massage and candles if you massage her and then use a special toy love, get gels, oils, creams, lots of toys play around abit give her lots of attention and lots of orgasms then go in for the kill!!!! ....WELL THATS ALL MY SECTRETS FOR ONE NIGHT HOPE IT HELPS A LITTLE TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXX
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Simple. Give her ample "oral stimulation" before you even begin to think about intercourse or whatever you enjoy for orgasm. There may be a few women who do not like having their privates expertly licked, sucked and loved, but I have never met any of them. So, take care of the lady first, and then your desires are most likely to be completely fulfilled. If you could use some advice on the techniques, there are writings in the search field above under "cunnilingus" and other key words such as oral sex, clitoris, G-spot, etc.
Additionally, you will likely be very aroused while giving your girl oral pleasure, and may even release, but it will more likely help teach you to maintain excitement for longer periods of time. Just concentrate on the business at hand - to please her "first." You will become a real lover.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Simple, stimulate her enough before you enter her so that she is ready to go.
Foreplay, you need more of it.
Condoms might help as well to reduce the stimulation.
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