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writes:Hi Im 18 and me and my ex have recently broken up. I thought I was fine for about a week but then I realised that he is happy without me and is seeing other girls. I feel terrible, I was nearly physically sick when I found out. Many think that our relationship was just a stupid, young, immature type of one, but I really did feel for him, i would have done anything for him. We had an abortion last year and ever since then things went downhill, he stopped being affectionate, didn't want to see me as often...this all carried on for almost a year until we finally ended it. He began taking drugs (which I hate and couldnt handle) and we drifted apart. Will I ever get over him?? Please help, anyone, if u can please do. Thank youxx
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reader, dr. scotty +, writes (25 March 2008):
it'll take some time. It may seem like you'll never move on but what you have to remember is that when we look back on relationships we remember the good and not the bad times. You ended things for a reason, so stick to it. If it didnt work once, the chances are it wont get any better a second time.
none of us like the thought of someone we've cared about being with someone else. It's natural. We've all gone through it.
You've had to make some tough decisions, especially for someone so young. You are obviously a strong person, and to be honest i have no doubt theres someone out there that'll make you forget this waste of space ever existed!
kindest and warmest regards
x
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reader, kirstylou +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Hun i feel for u, i really do! i know how it feels to lose someone you love. When i was going through it..i thought il never get over him..il never cope..il never find any1 else like him, But eventually i forgot about him. I had to keep busy, it was hard but it helped me through it. why dont u meet up with friends and do stuff together.. it will help pass the days otherwise you will only be sat in the house thinking and gettin upset over him. Trust me in a few weeks or maybe months.. you WILL get over him i promise. being upset will make you ill, and u dont want that do you? you will find sum1 much better and they will think the world of you :)
take care chick x x x
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reader, Escalaya  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Of course you'll get over him, hun. It just takes time. Just keep your head up high, smile, and look towards the future, 'cause there'll be another guy who'll make you happier then this one ever did.
Take care of yourself, sunshine.
~One Love,
Escalaya
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