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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi I'm in a great relationship we have been together for three years and are talking about marriage.I could not ask for more. I do however have a problem my guy has a little brother two years younger than him they are extremly close and love each other. His family is great and I like them all and they like me. To get to my problem. His little brother came to stay with us for the week he lives out of town. I was ok with it. My boyfriend works alot during the day and has been doing night sifts. His brother and I have been hanging out renting movies and going out to eat having a good time he calls me his big sis and my boyfriend loves that were getting along so well and likes when we do things together. I did too. I was starting to realy think of him as my brother but one day watching a movie he asked me to pass the popcorn and he kissed me. I was shocked and pulled away and slapped him in the face. He said he was sorry and should not have done that.I could tell he was embaresed and he went to the gest room to bed. When my boyfriend got home I was planning to tell him but he walked right passed me and went to wake up his brother to tell him something and they got the laughing and I did not have the heart to tell my guy what happend.He loves his brother so much and I would not want to cause a fight between them. I know my guy would be angry he is the jelous type. I don't know what to do his brother did say sorry and is not staying at our house anymore. I realy want to tell my boyfriend but am scared he will be irate. To me the kiss was nothing but what if he blames me? Or beats up his own brother they are so close what do I do I dont want to tear them apart but I feel my guy has a right to know what happend.Someone please give me some advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, Edward183  +, writes (25 March 2008):
I agree with the above poster I would leave things as they are.
Next time you see his brother clearly state the boundaries to make sure this doesn't happen again and you can both move on with a clean slate.
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