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writes:dear cupid.I currently have an girl friend, i feel that i do not like her anymore.I dont know how to end the relationship so that i can move on and get another girl friend, as there is someone else like.I know i may be young but i still dont want to break someones hearth, she is a nice girl and deserves better (someone who likes her more)thanks a lot everyone!
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reader, yeahsureyoubetcha  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Honesty is the best policy. Tell her that your feelings have changed tell her how great she is and that you want her to be with someone better than you. Be honest, be polite, be grateful for the time you have had together and tell her good bye. Do not start going out with someone else right away. That would be disrespectful.
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reader, XAsk-AmyX +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Its good that youve taken into consideration that you do not want to hurt this girl.
Let her down very gently, just make sure she knows the reasons why your ending it and make it clear that you did love her once but you just feel that its time to move on.
And i agree with the comment bellow, if she does know the girl that you like then i wouldnt wait a while until you ask her out as its unfair.
And if its one of her friends i wouldnt strongly advise you do NOT as her out but if you simply cant follow that then at least ask your soon to be EX if it would be alright if you asked her mate out.
Good luck
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