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How do I know if the baby his exgirlfriend is having is his?

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Question - (25 March 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hiya ..

Well I have been seeing this boy for over 3 months now and I am crazy about him !! Its just that his ex-girlfriend is pregant? And shes almost 6 months pregant and they both finished the end of july start of august. I just want to know is it his. Do you know? I am soo worried I dont want it to be his !!

because it will ruin our relationship !

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A female reader, hey kayla United States +, writes (3 October 2008):

Why whould it matter if he has a child?

I mean if he didnt cheat on you with her then go for it and stay with him, but if he cheated then thats just tourching yourself, also depends on how old you are and if you can take on that your boyfriend is going to have another life to look after and have to be caring for another life and if you will be able to handle all that and if it would be even worth handling all of it

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2008):

hannah76 agony auntJust wait for the DNA test if there is one. I'd be rid of him before that anyway. Wake up!!!!!! If he has done this to an EX, then you will be next on his list!!!!!!! H.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008):

Is that the same as pregnant? Like she's having a baby? In 3 months time?

I'd hold on to him if I were you, he seems such a nice boy and I'm sure your parents will be right behind you in your choice of partner.

I'm having some difficulty understanding the dates though. Pregnancy usually last for about 9 months in humans, and if they finished at the beginning of August, and it's now nearly the end of March, that makes it 8 months since they were last together.

I'd say it can't be his unless they had a bit of nookie around October time.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2008):

kenny agony auntI think the only certain way you are ever going to know for sure is if he get's a DNA test done to prove who the father really is. Whether she will go along with that is anybody's guess, but its worth him asking her.

All the best x

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (25 March 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntSeems like a dream catch to me.

DNA test. Doubt she will get one to calm your nerves but he could requist one if she is making any claims on him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008):

You could always ask him to take a paternity test? Or just straight up ask him and if he if honest he will tell you the truth, whatever it may be!

xx Hope xx

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