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His friends party or me should I make him choose?

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Question - (25 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *mmaxbaby writes:

Me and my boyfriend live quite far away, and i usually see him every other weekend, i didnt see him last weekend so im supposed to see him this weekend.

The problem is is that hes going to his friends birthday,and there going out to bars etc. I cant go because ive lost my i.d card.

I really want to see him because i miss him so much, do i let him go or make him choose between me or the party?

I know it makes me sound selfish but i just really miss him and feel extremely lonely as hes all i have.

Please help me!

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2008):

BigSis agony auntEmmababy...my advice is don't make him choose betweeen you and his friends, chances are - you may lose him for good, because it's going to sound like you don't trust him and please believe me when I tell you - guys do not want that...then where will that leave you and how will you feel?...'coz you're gonna miss him a lot more then, aren't you?

If there is definitely no way of you going to this party with him, then let him know you trust him to have a good time and he will respect you so much for it.

Besides you've heard the saying, 'Absence makes the heart grow fonder', which means he's going to be dying to see you in two weeks.

BigSis xXx

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A female reader, Emmaxbaby United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2008):

Emmaxbaby is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Emmaxbaby agony auntits hard as i have major depression and hes all i have, and i get so lonely without him

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2008):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntget a life, seriously

if you have nothing to entertain you besides your boyfriend you lead an empty life. try making friends or get a hobby.

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