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reader, missNBSB  +, writes (20 December 2008):
a person is in love with you if s/he cares about you,if s/he enjoys your company and make your conversation longer than you think,.. if s/he always look in your eyes and smile very sweet...and if you are around s/he don't know what s/he need to do..s/he always want to be with you even in a storm because when we love someone,we are doing what they want even to sacrifice all of what we have...we always want to be with them...take note:don't you ever try to give all of what you have just to prove that you love him/her bec. sometimes although we gave what we had we can't get what we want and still s/he brake your heart..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): love is when two persons look real deep into eachothers eyes and find it hard to look away.
love is when you are able to talk about everythink and anythink, love is when u always want the other person to be happy and you enjoy the time spent around them. love is when you contantly think of the other person you may find it difficault to sleep, eat and even concentrate.love is when you have a strong freinship and trust between two persons, love can be hearing a word or sentence that he/she may use that causes you to have the tingles/ butterflies. love is when you could be yourself, love is when you think da same at times, love is all about the good times.....I love being in love! x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): When you do find real love you won't ever have to worry if the other person loves you. All you can do is worry about your half of the relationship. If you love someone you will be utterly happy because seeing them happy makes you happy. If you are seeking to be loved, it might be a good idea to see if you love yourself or not. Everybody needs to be loved, but you cannot love another until you love yourself. Romantical relationships are similar to friendship relationships. It is very easy to confuse the two as very different things. Falling in love with a lover is like falling in love with your best friend. In the beginning you spend a lot of time together, building mutual trust, being able to tell them your secrets and seeing how they handle it, supporting each other, and giving put ups/ not put downs. When you find a friendship like that, you know it's worth keeping. Then years down the road you think "hey that's my best friend". Love takes time, maturity, and self growth. You will realize this someday years down the road.
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reader, useiwayne  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 I completely disagree with the post that says you cannot know if someone loves you. Love can cause feelings, but is most accurately described by actions.
A person who loves you will relate to you by being patient and kind to you, they will not be self-seeking (selfish). They will want you. Love is and irresistable desire to be irresistably desired. When you think of this person, however well these describe that person will tell you if they love you.
The other post here is totally right about this one: your happiness will be more important than their own. But remember, this statement is a two-edged sword. The other person's happiness should also be more important to you than your own. All of these things, in fact, must be applied to you as well if you want to know if you love someone else.
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reader, Escalaya +, writes (25 March 2008):
 There's no way to TELL if someone loves you.
When someone truly loves you, it's not something that can be shown through action, or words alone. You -FEEL- it, I like to think that love is like the wind, it's felt. Not seen.
~One Love,
Escalaya
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): So many ways, it's different for everyone.
They genuinely care for you.
They never want to hurt your feelings.
They bring you little gifts, just to say they love you.
When they say they love you, you can see it in their eyes that they mean it.
They treat you the same in front of friends.
They're not embarrassed to be around you.
They make an effort with your friends.
They never push you into anything.
Their rule is your happiness before their own.
They take you sweet places.
If you ever need anything, they're your total support.
You can look into their eyes as you kiss and not feel awkward.
There's something unexplainable between the two of you.
They have your trust, and you never doubt them.
They never tell anyone your secrets, no matter what.
They have the ability to make you laugh when you're crying, effortlessly.
There's so many ways honey, but at your age, I'm sorry to say this but I doubt you've found love. But hopefully, one day you will :]
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