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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend is unhappy due to a death and from abuse by a guy at school, how can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I have this friend that I just met about six months ago. She is having troubles and I think I'm starting to like her. She lost a friend in a car accident a couple of months before we met, and she's still sad about this. Then she likes a guy who she doesn't ... (130 words)

Do I really know she is the one if she's the only person I've had sex with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. My girlfriend and I Have been together for 6 months, with a brief history before this particular relationship. It is at the point, as hard as it is to believe, where we are thinking about our future together. We have begun to plan our lives around each other and are ge... (202 words)

I want to move on with my life, away from my husband, but I don't know where to begin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Married for 10 years, fell out in two, I feel so alone and so cheated, and I have some mental and health disabilites. He cheated and we are passed that but to sum it up, he's just not there. I would have terminated it but it's hard for me to keep work . He works out of town ... (104 words)

Husband still receives calls from "the other woman" after moving back in, now what am I supposed to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - In 2003 my husband left me, saying he needed to find himself! We spent a year in counselling only for me to eventually discover her had another woman. She contacted me and said they started the "relationship" in 2000. My husband said not until he left home. All water under ... (329 words)

I have strong feelings for my college lecturer, does this mean I'm bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - For about 3 months now i have had these feelings for one of my lecturers at college but the thing is she is the same sex as me. Dont get me wrong, i still like boys but am worried that I might be bisexual? I know that nothing can happen between us but these feeling are so ... (74 words)

I overheard my mom say she was sexually abused and now I'm really upset, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really really worried. My mum was drunk the other night and she was talking to this man that we knew... and i was there but she didn't see me, and she was really upset and she said that she had been sexually abused when she was young, and she still thinks about it and suff... (79 words)

Should I go to a "Gentleman's Club" to lose my virginity or am I selling myself short?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I've been pondering this for a while now, but I'd like to get some outside opinions on this. I'm still a virgin at 20, and quite frankly I'm over it. It hasn't happened yet, I can't see it happening anytime soon, and I just feel bored and frustrated. I... (298 words)

Does he still have feelings for me and want me back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me about six weeks ago, I didn't think we'd speak again. There seemed to be no reason for the breakup other than that he was under alot of stress at the time and couldnt handle us anyway he deleted me from his phone, his facebook, his email everything. And ... (622 words)

Why am I having dreams of kissing my boyfriend's friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I am in love with him, true love. But recently I've had random day dreams where I am with all of my and his friends and me and his friend have been kissing. help?... (43 words)

I love her, but is she just too old for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im so confused right now... Im currently 18 but my girlfriend is 23. We been together for 2 months.. I've been getting teased by some of my friends because she is 5 years older than me.. Even my ex said "Who was that old lady riding with you?" Im like so confused... b... (65 words)

Madly in love with a guy who is scared from having a painful divorce, is there any hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I fell madly in love with guy and we saw each other for 5 months. He is scared by a painful divorce and finds it hard to show his feelings. I found out he was also seeing someone else while with me and i obviously ended the relationship. He has wormed his way back and I cant ... (77 words)

I really like both of the girls, but I don't want to have to go through anyone cheating on me again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, my gf and i were doing really well until i caught her with another guy. I broke up with her and i got another gf. Then today, my old gf comes to me and begs me to come back to her, and that she was really sorry. I really like both of the girls, but i dont want to have to ... (76 words)

I just can't break up with my cheating boyfriend even though I have proof, help me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't break up with my cheating boyfriend. I found proof he cheated on me and yet I can't seem to bring myself to break up. I go to college and I sadly do not have any friends at all where I live. I lost them all so I could be with him! So no one can help me through this.... (70 words)

If you leave someone alone, do they realize what they've lost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - One for the men....I was in a 'relationship' with a non committal man. It would seem that i care about him more than he does about me, and he says he cant get into a serious relationship, so we decided not to see each other any more. At this stage, I m finding this hard to ... (109 words)

Does having sex for the first time hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Does Sex For The First Time Hurt? Me and my boyfriend Are both virgins and have been talking about sex for a while now. But im sooo afraid it will hurt! i am not good with pain! i've told him this and he says he doesnt want to rush me. But i REALLY do want to do it, ... (101 words)

Two guys are fighting over me but I don't want to ruin our friendship, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a new amazing group of friends but two guys fancy me, they are fighting between each other and threatening each other, I don't like either of them more than a friend and I have made that clear so I don't know what else I can do butI don't want our group to break up ... (61 words)

After five years, my fiance says he doesn't love me....What am I supposed to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for 5 years we have two children together he always seems i was every thing to him in 2007 we plained to get married in october 2008 and in the mean time we both were trying to have a baby we tryed for almost a year and i had a miscarged in december ... (187 words)

What should I do with my sweet but seriously jealous boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

13 March 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hello, my boyfriend is seriously jealous and name calls me because of things I have done in the past. I have never cheated on him... but he sometimes acts like I have. I don't know why he feels sort of betrayed becuase of what I did in the past. Why do some men react like t... (494 words)

Scary changes in our relationship, what do they mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

13 March 2008 (M) - Hi guy's, i'm not too sure where to start really but here goes... Ok, i've been with my partner for 10 months today. obviously at the start everything was brilliant etc etc etc. However, the past 2 months things have dramatically changed, im 21 and my partner is 23. Over... (536 words)

How much longer do I wait? I don't want to nag, but I don't want to let it go either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been living with my boyfriend for 6 mos now. He has soul custody of 3 kids. They sometimes go and see their mom, but she is not very frequent. I love them all dearly, and we get along quite well, but there just isn't enough time for he and I to go out on a date every ... (138 words)

I've never had a boyfriend but really like this guy, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 16 nearly 17 and I've never had a boyfriend. My life is pretty boring, a few close friends, hardly ever go out only to school. This boy started talking to me on myspace, and he seems I don't know how to say this but perfect?? He is just like me alot, we have the same ... (183 words)

He bought his ex-wife a pair of shoes, this confuses me!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I browsed on my bf's emails today. I found out that when he came back to Australia from his visit here, he bought his ex-wife a pair of shoes, clothes, etc. I read it through his reply to his daughter's email... His wife cheated on him so they're now legally separated. He ... (123 words)

He is open and direct in everything else except marriage plans, is it really too early? Should I give him an ultimatum?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dated a guy - 8 mths. Love him. I am 39, never married, he says we should take our time, I want to get married and settle down. Is 8 mths too little to give an ultimatum? Am I being fair? He doesn't want to talk about marriage at all now - does that mean he isn't into me ... (82 words)

I don't wish to have a relationship with him but feel somewhat obliged by the attention and support he's given me as a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this man who helps me to get through my divorce. I was very unhappy at that time. He is very supportive and attentive. My life is back on track now. Then I realise I am not in love with him. But he said he has fallen in love with me and very happy to show me off as I ... (97 words)

Since my BF told me he was bi, we did not have sex as much as before. What is happening?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend told me that he was bi, which is okay with me. We have had fun exploring with it. But lately he doesn't always want to have sex with me or go down on me as much anymore. He does other things to please me. He says because he is angry. He says that he doesn't want to ... (193 words)

How can I help him stop feeling so pressured?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my australian boyfriend last year. He has since had to move home but I travelled over and spent a month with him. Now we have a big decision to make and he is freaking out. We both decided I would move over there in May but I may struggle to get a working visa so we have ... (237 words)

Does she really like me, or should I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

13 March 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm in a really awkward situation at the moment. I've known this girl for 4 years. We were close friends for 3 of them, but I've been getting attracted to her more and more over the past year. I'm a virgin, and she's already had sex with about 6 guys at least, or so s... (234 words)

Is there any physical harm in giving or receiving a golden shower?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age - My husband and I have a great relationship. We have been married 24 years and our only child is on his own now. We have always been open to "suggestions" as long as it doesn't hurt the other or both physically. We always agreed to try what the other suggests at leas... (161 words)

I don't know if he likes me or not because he can't say hi to me online.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was out with my family and another family there was this guy I met. He asked me to give him my msn so I did. We talk online but sometimes he hardly says hi. He asked me out 5 or 6 times I was really busy and had a lot of things I had to take care of so I said no with my ... (223 words)

Manipulative behaviour

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age - Help! I really need some advice and very quickly. I have a situation which I just don't know how to deal with. I am a woman who has a really close relationship with a gay man, - we are best friends, and he and his partner and I are really close. But we don't live in each ... (890 words)

Why do I keep bleeding? Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - PLEASE HELP I lost my virginity last monday, with hardly any blood after more like a spot, anyway since last thursday I've been bleeding after sex and on saturday and last night (weds) I bled during sex, it's blood like from a period, but no pain it stops soon after and does... (99 words)

My boyfriend likes my hair combed down over half my face...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have pretty shoulder length dark brown hair and my boyfriend wants me to have it combed down over half my face all the time because he thinks it's sexy. Is this normal?... (34 words)

Do you think I should ask her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 14 year old boy and she is 13 do you think it would be the wrong age to go out with her, I met this girl last year we met through a friend and we have seen each other about 2 times but we always talk on msn and bebo. She said stuff like "love you" and puts kisses I really ... (117 words)

Tips on how to be more intimate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm Ebony, I'm 15 and I'm a virgin. I've been with my boyfriend now for 2 months, he's the same age, but we've been talking about sex. I don't know if I'm ready or not, I know it's illegal and I know about the STD's and risk of pregnancy etc. I was just wondering if you... (91 words)

Please suggets whether to carry relationship with her or not????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old guy in love with a 27 year old girl and she shows that she loves me more.. but her nature is very practical and professional as she can do anything for her job and whenever we spend emotional time she immediately switches to business and always thinks about ... (127 words)

Does he genuinely love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I tell if my boyfriend is in love with me and doesn't love his ex anymore?... (18 words)

How common is it for a guy to give his girlfriend oral sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How common is it for a guy to give his girlfriend oral sex? My girlfriend says she wants it but I don't know if I'm ready. Any advice would help. Thanks.... (31 words)

I really loved the way my girlfriend looked when we first met but I don't find her attractive any more.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - We've been going out for about 1 1/2 yrs and we live together. We did just have a baby about 4 mos ago. I do love her and the baby and i don't want to jeopordize our relationship but i can't get into her physically because i'm just not attracted to her anymore. She's a pretty ... (121 words)

Guy number 1 versus guy number 2

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - sorry but this is a very complicated, weird, and long question. so i just got out of a six year relationship with guy#1. he was a wonderful guy, caring, although i was very much in love with him, it somewhat fizzled in the end. conversations ran dry, time was always ticki... (510 words)

Dealing with a wounded ego after I bested my BF

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my BF is being really pissy over something I didn't think was a big deal. We were talking the other day about sports we no longer take part in but used to enjoy and I mentioned that I used to do judo in college and was pretty good, even though i only received a ... (244 words)

The mother of my child wants to date a drug dealer - help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my ex says she has no feelings for me and there is a new guy texting and calling her who is a drug dealer. my ex is asking how i would react if she started seeing him. as we have a 3yr old son together. obviously im not happy to say the least. what can i do to stop her making a ... (240 words)

Advice for my pregnant twin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid and All readers; This is a question about my twin sister, not about I. I'm 17 and my twin sister is pregnant. I'm so excited to be an Auntie, but I'm also scared for her. Her boyfriend is only 16 and he's already an alcoholic. He treats her like s.h.i.t and... (254 words)

How long do hand jobs and blow jobs take?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 questions how long does a handjob take (on average)? and how long does a blow job take (on average)? (both until the guy comes) I know it differs from guy to guy obviously but Id just like to hear some averages and opinions thanks... (60 words)

Should I trust her or not? I don't know if a cheater can change...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hey, hi! now a few months ago i wrote about an ex girlfriend who still had feelings about me.... now the dilema is we've gone out a few times and she has tried to kiss me but i've never kissed her back... reason being back when we broke up it was because i classed her as c... (256 words)

When did I conceive my baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had my baby on February 28, when would I have conceived him?... (13 words)

Pads vs. tampons

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well im just curiouse. I just started using tampons, and I actualy like this better than pads. There much easier to deal with, and the pads bunch up and I get uncomfterable. I asked some of my friends and they said none of them liked tampons, and I was wondering if I was ... (60 words)

At times he is nice, at time he calls me nasty names. What do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age - I am seeing guy who is like two people sometimes he is very nice and then later he calls me a s___ and a w____ and says that I am fooling around which I am not. Is there any hope of him calming down and being always nice?... (48 words)

How is an abortion done?

This question has 114 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

13 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much.... (30 words)

Should I let my ex know that I am still waiting for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex-bf and me have been together for 5 years and during these 5 years, he has been a very loving bf. He loves me alot and we really wanted to be together forever. However, during the 5th year of our relationship, he found out that I was cheating on him. He says that he can ... (357 words)

I thought her religious upbringing frowned upon premarital sex, but her almost inexistent desires continued to be a problem after our marriage!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married now for almost 3 years. Prior to marriage, we dated for a few years and during that time there was a gradual decline in our sexual relationship. I spoke to my wife about this and she said it was a moral issue since we were not married. I understood this as ... (360 words)

I thought it was a girls-night-out, drank too much, and woke up next to a naked man...what should I do about telling my husband?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure what to do. My husband went away for a business trip that extended into last Saturday (because he had a late Friday meeting, and he was several hours away). My in-laws took the kids for the weekend for a visit. My girlfriend invited me (and I thought a few other ... (660 words)

Is privacy good? My bf changed his chatroom pins after an argument...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is privacy good? my bf and i we knew everything about each other. even our chatroom pins etc. all stuff like that. and now we had a argument. and we changed our pins. is it good? or is the reason maby that he does not want me knowing everything anymore? maby the reason is him ... (68 words)

Should I believe her or my friends about her flirting? I'm confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i dated a girl five yrs ago 2003 to be precise before i went to school. i got back to find out she still likes me: she always smiles when she sees me, always wants to be round me, i asked her if she loves me she says yes, if she wants me back, she still hasn't answered. she ... (149 words)

Masturbation after childbirth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently gave birth to my first child a little over a week ago. Everything went fine and I only tore a little and have a few sutures. The doctor gave me the normal don't do anything for 6 weeks speech and knowing your most fertile time is after child birth, I wasn't ... (135 words)

Can we cure my brother of his addiction to pastel-jacketed family saga novels?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm embarrassed to say that my 39 year old brother has started to love reading family saga series - I find this pretty funny. I don't think I'd associate that type of fiction a male tends to read in his spare time. Ever since my family visited my mother on Christmas, she gave ... (179 words)

How can I help my HIV positive friend to get in touch with other diseased people for friendship/companionship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a really good friend.He is really caring and considerate.The only thing he's HIV,tho he takes good care of himself and is otherwise healthy.He is lonley and wants to meet someone with the same as he has,for companionship and if they click hopefully leading to a ... (99 words)

Does our ages and age difference count?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, i really need help. i'm 15 and there's a friend who lives on my street, i have knew him since i was about 6. (he is 13 now by the way so i'm 2 years older). we both fancy eachother. do you think it would be right for us to have sex seen as though we both want ... (96 words)

Now that he is married and we met again after my travels and the abortion he did not know about, what should we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just started up a relationship with a married man. And it's killing me inside because I feel so sorry for his wife who I know does not deserve what we are doing to her. The problem is. Myself and this man have a very long history together. We went out for a while but... (321 words)

I'm sure he plans to dump me (because of his very unkind comments), but why so cruelly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age - Last weekend I visited a man I have been seeing for a year or so. He says "i love you" every time we talk. Always kind, considerate. So last weekend, in the course of two days, I heard, "does someone have a saggy butt" "you eat with such gusto" "when you wear your hair down ... (207 words)

How can I help my girlfriend handle depression and the past when she won't talk to me about it??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, im here out of concern, i have a really loving and awsome gf. we have great communication skills and it is really easy for us to talk and be together...but for the past month i feel that she has receeded into a form of depression..due to family issues..and she wont talk ... (167 words)

I'm 15 with no boyfriend, but I want to have sex...what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there im 15 ive not had a proper boyfriend (and still don't) but i really want to have sex ino i obviously can't but im so down about it :( help me pleaseeee x... (35 words)

How do I bring up my rape fantasy with him?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I bring up my rape fantasy? I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, I trust him and love him but i'm a little scared about how to tell him i have a rape fantasy. He's told me his other fantasies and we do some pretty outrageous sexual activities. He's always b... (174 words)

How do I compete with his perfect high school friend? We're all friends, but he has a crush on her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So my suspicions were correct. My boyfriend of 8 months still has a crush on his high school friend...who is my co-worker and also really good friend. We met through her and now I feel like I can't compare to his perfect girl. This was my biggest fear in our relationship, ... (228 words)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

This question has 207 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much.... (16 words)

I'm very nervous about the threesome, as I do not wish the third person to interfere with my relation. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really nervous about having a threesome with my fiance because of past experiences. I've told him about my past and I told him that I was really nervous about doing it and he just said that we would only do one, but it still makes me nervous because I don't want the other ... (70 words)

My boyfriend is my only joy, but depression is getting to me. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14years old and have a really upsetting life, my dad and aunty have passed away within 4years and i just haven't gotten over that yet. I had to hold it in and be strong for my mum and little sister!! I'm letting it all out now!! I have a boyfriend he's very supportive, he's ... (175 words)

I'm losing a good man to date others who are just after one thing. Am I crazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i need advise, please don't judge me: i've been in a relationship for almost 2years, we were close friends and i loved him and i still love him, i just think i'm not in love with him. I'm full of guilt because i have been dating as if i was single, it's like a drug for me,... (305 words)

Does this mean my teacher like me? My friends threaten to tell another teacher of our supposedly inappropriate relation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it's another teacher situation but help would be much appreciated … I’ve had a pretty rough year – the loss of my Nan triggered a huge bout of depression which hasn’t really left me but through it all I’ve had my teacher helped me through. I’m not ‘in love’ with him... (305 words)

Confused about who I love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs plus, and he is my 1st. before we went into a relationship, i have interest in both he and one of his friend. every week end, i will be meeting my boyfriend and his friends. gradually, the feelings towards his friend is back. i don't kn... (112 words)

Boyfriends, why am I going off them?

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi cupid. This boy i liked asked me out yesterday and i don't know why, but within a day i have gone off him. It isn't the only time, but the boys i have been out with i go off quickly. Why do i do this? Am i a freak? can you give me advice please. thank you x... (66 words)

He broke up so he could party during his last semester of school without worrying about me, his exact words! Do I accept him back??

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my bf for a year and a half and he wanted a break so he could go and party his last semester of law school without worrying about me (his exact words). Before he left we were having problems and we tried to fix them and three times he gave up, saying it was too ... (103 words)

How long does it usually take women to stop holding grudges and hate and to communicate what is missing? Will it be easier to separate for now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in the military and been married for just over 12 years and have a 4 year old son. We met in college over 20 years ago, but didn't get married until I joined the military 13 years ago. Our marriage has had ups and downs before and we went through some abb... (829 words)

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13 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Girlfriend suggested a threesome with another female and now is skittish about it ,how do i help her feel better about it? i told her it was up to her if she wanted to. this isn't the first threesome, she had one before we got together and said the guy had faked a pannic ... (68 words)

Are these signs he wants me to leave (moving away my things)?

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been really stressed out over this the past few days and today just made it worse-pls help me!! been with my bf for 3 years. we are both 29 but I have 3 girls from a previous marriage. he's never had a live-in gf and i'm his longest relationship. we've had our ups an... (838 words)

The idea of sex with an older guy scares me, as I have only dated men of my age before. Has anyone had such fears and how did you control them?

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13 March 2008 (F) - I'm planning on having sex with a 32 guy im 22. I'm not a virgin but i feel unexperinced compared to him. All so he has to use mega condoms cause regular don't fit right so im scared of his size. Hes tall and thin but i guess his penis is to big. Is it gonna hurt to have sex ... (119 words)

What ideas do you have for us to talk to her parents constructively about our age gap?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 32 and she is 17. We are having issues with her parents agreeing for us to see each other. I realize everyone has their opinion on my intent and her being young, but that isn't the question. My intent is for us to be together. We know how we are together and... (151 words)

Help me choose between my boyfriend and my best friend!

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, we split for about a year and I dated my best friend. I love them both but differently. I think that there is more passion and compassion with my best friend but I feel guilty if I leave my boyfriend and I don't like the idea of him ... (69 words)

We made plans to have sex....could this be his way of asking for a relationship without really asking?

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I need help! I've been telling this guy how I feel for awhile now and he just never seems to catch on. Well, today we had a talk and he tells me that he needs something more than sex. He wants a companionship. He and I haven't had sex recently but we did make ... (99 words)

My husband really wants a baby of our own but I can't have one, what are our other options?

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello loves, I really am hoping someone can give me a few options here, im 27 years old, and my husband and I have been married for 4 years, 3 years ago we tried for a baby but failed. We've kept trying and no success, I've had 6 miscarriages. Im so very upset, I am okay with ... (185 words)

Does my ex really want me back after a bad breakup or are these just "booty calls"?

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13 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Does my ex girlfriend want to get back together? we broke up, very badly, and did not talk for a month. I called her and invited her to a party at my house. she came. i kept things light and did not mention the relationship at all, and even kept contact as minimum as ... (262 words)

My girlfriend denies cheating but I think otherwise, can anyone help me out?

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for two months and just broke up on Sunday but are now back together. The same day we broke she had already started talking to other people. That made me suspicious of her cheating while we were together. Today one of my closest ... (119 words)

Is it easier for a girl to give a blowjob or a handjob?

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13 March 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for awhile and been fooling around. Almost all of this stuff is the first time for us both so we don't have any experience. I've fingered her a couple of times so she wanted to give me some handjobs. The problem is that she gets ... (139 words)

Not sexually active but I haven't had my period in almost 6 months, what's wrong with me?

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't had my period in over 5-6 months!! And I am not sexually active!! Is something wrong with me? ... (20 words)

Am I weird because I enjoy kissing and licking a woman's posterior?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age - What do you women here think of a man who really loves the female posterior? The reason I ask is because I am somewhat obsessed with the female ass. I absolutely loves kissing and licking a woman's ass. I'm talking the cheeks, not the anus iself. But sometimes I think I'm ... (259 words)

I got these sores on my tongue after going down on a guy, is it serious or could it be something else?

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my question is about some sores that have developed recently on my tongue. a few days ago i messed around with this guy friend of mine, first time we ever did anything. We kissed and stuff and i went down on him, and now since yesterday evening my tongue has hurt and has a few ... (108 words)

Should I stay with him even though I don't fancy him and hope I develop deeper feelings??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a new relationship(been with him just over 2 mths now) with a really sweet, kind and generous guy, So i really wana make it work but i'm still in love with my ex who i split up with nearly 3 yeas ago (another very long complicated story) and i dont actually fancy him and ... (161 words)

He stood me up and now wants to make it up to me, should I let him?

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy asked me out and said he would call me last night at 6:30 and we could meet for dinner somewhere. I have known him about a month but this would be our first date. Well, 6:30 came and went and he never called the rest of the night. I was stood up! This morning he calls ... (238 words)

What is the difference between like, love, and lust for someone?

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13 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I thought i knew what love meant and felt like but coming out of a relationship in which i wasnt truly happy i cant say that i was in love. And now im hanging out with this new girl who me and her are about to date we both know it and i care about her ALOT but i dont know if ... (90 words)

She loves to hang out with me but only with other people, is this a bad sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

13 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am really good friends with this one girl. She knows i like her but she has never told me how she felt about me. All she said was that i was an amazing guy who makes her the laugh the most. She loves to hang out with me however she only wants to hang out if we are with ... (71 words)

I'm really depressed and want to runaway..

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13rd old girl. I'm in gr.8 so I am still in public school I've been going through alot in my life lately. I've just been a really sad, lonely, depressed young girl. Even at school recess, i'm all alone outside. I've been crying alot when I'm in my room. And I stay up all ... (67 words)

We always talk online and she says she loves me, is it a joke?

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13 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 14 year old boy and i met this girl last year but we always talk on msn and bebo. She said stuff like "love you" and puts kisses i really like her but don't know whether she feels the same way. I don't know whether she is joking or she means it ?? what shall i do pleas... (66 words)

How can I get him interested as more than a friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody I have a major crush on a friend of mine. I cant stop thinking about him and everything seems to remind me of him. I can't get him out of my head. It just really turns me on that we have a lot in common and I just love his personality. He is also really good ... (107 words)

Am I crazy for donating my eggs even if it makes my boyfriend mad?

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I saw a show on TLC about great people, great couples not being able to have children and it broke my heart. I have a son and I'm not wanting to do the pregnancy thing over again but I cant help but want to help. I'm a full-time student and I don't know if should be a ... (81 words)

What should I wear or do to get a boy's attention?

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys so i need some advice to get this boys attention. what should i wear tomrow? how should i do my hair and stuff. and tonight i am going to speak to him online, we used to really really like eachother and we ended things and stopped speaking for a little but now w... (89 words)

Is he really my long lost love or should I let him go again?

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 35 years old and have no children. I have known my male friend who is 45 for 6 years. At the time we met I was in a serious relationship with someone so we kept alot of our more than friend feelings on the back burner. Towards the end of my 7 years relationship with my ... (259 words)

He doesn't seem to have time for me any more.

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm with this guy and our relationship used to be so great but now he doesn't have time for me. We never hang out or do things together because he's always with his friends. Iif I try to talk to him I don't want him to think that I'm trying to take him from his friends. I'm ... (78 words)

This girl and him seem too cozy together!

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi... well I'm in a long distance relationship and I really like my boyfriend but lately he seems different he doesn't write as often... He has a metroflog where he posts pictures and people can comment on them. One day I checked it out and he has many comments from a girl that ... (106 words)

He tells me nothing about finances in the event of a split and I've come to know that he's hidden assets in parents names should a split occur. I feel really stuck.

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13 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married 15 years. He's told me he's going to live with his extended family of 15+ members till his dying days despite me wanting my own independance and space. We are of indian background. We have 3 children who are picking up the vibes despite the ... (145 words)

Is this too much? I don't think it's right to go to a place like that without your significant other.

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13 March 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is going on a two week bike trip in the summer... which is a long time.. their last destination is to spend one or two days at a bike rally.. I don't feel completely comfortable with a boyfriend being in that type of environment where girls go crazy and there is a ... (139 words)