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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I would like to know more about her and build a better relationship.

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10 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 14 year old boy. I met this girl last year we are good friends but don't now a lot about each other. I would like to know more about her and build a better relationship. What sort or qustions should I ask about her? I think she likes me but we don't know each ... (91 words)

What is causing this pain when we try to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I are having trouble with our sexual relationship and are not sure what is causing it. We have only recently started to have penetrative sex but I find it excrutiatingly painful and the second time we had sex, or rather tried sex, was so bad he could hardly ... (332 words)

Meeting with my ex's friend for the first time in nearly a year.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Tomorrow I am going to a university for an interview. This university is located about 50 miles from where I first met my long distance (240 miles) first love at a train station in her home town 3 years ago this summer. She broke up with me back in June. Sinc... (243 words)

I don't know... Is she playing hard to get?

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10 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What is she thinking? The new girl, got her number. She had a BF that shes known since they were babies, and he moved a long ways away. Shes really shy and i am too. A couple nights ago(friday night) i let my friend use my phone and he texted her "I love you..." she said "I ... (422 words)

I have been seeing him for 2 years and have still not met his family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship with the same man for almost 2 years. I have not met his family yet, in fact when I ask him, he says he is not ready. He says his family isn't like mine. My children are very protective of me, I'm a widow, my family gets together as often as we ... (93 words)

How do I get the old man I fell in love with back??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I would like some advice, I have been seeing this guy for a while, 18 months and it is long distance, thing is it used to be ace! and don't get me wrong but when we are together it is good!! fantastic! but when we are apart now, it's unbearable, no replies to texts, ... (246 words)

Should I just accept that he will never be in love with me like that, or is this a sign that he's not really into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

- I know some men are not that romantic but I've known my boyfriend for a number of years, and was around him and his former girlfriend a few times in social settings and I know he was very romantic with her (nuzzling her in public, holding hands, kissing her, rubbing her neck or ... (224 words)

Am I just putting too much thought into something small, or just not trusting him the way I know I should???

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this guy that I've been with for almost 6 years. We have 2 children together, a 4 year old, and a 1 year old. I really do love him, but I don't know if I should let go. He is a great guy when he wants to be, but I have so many trust issues with him. When I was pre... (695 words)

Should I tell my partner I slept with his mate when we were broken up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i am a 8 month old pregnant female and with my partner for 3 years now.We have been on and off in the three years.But i have really hurt him throughout the three years.And it is all coming back to me now.Firstly,we got together while i was waiting for my boyfriend to come ... (328 words)

I'm going to take the test!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend about 2 months ago, we were kind of stupid and didn't use a condom... my period came fine that month but then 4 days late and really light the month after. During those 2 months I've had cramps like never before, I've had to urinate like I've never ... (95 words)

I love someone so much and he used to love me until he started to fancy my mate!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6129 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really, really, REALLY like this guy called Rhys right?? The only probem is, I don't know how he feels about me! The other day we where playing truth or dare(suprise,suprise) and when I had to snog Rhys on my own I said to him "look, we don't have to you know, they will never ... (508 words)

I love my friend but her husband is dying so it would be the most inadequate moment to confess my lesbian feelings now. How can I control myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not really sure if this is a question, i just need some advice on what i should do. I'd appreciate your input. I'm a lesbian it's something I've never hidden about my self, i'm feminine and a flirt and some times it gets misconstrued. I'm also a nurse, 8 yrs ago i took a... (498 words)

Can the love be brought back? For my part the emotional connection is weakened...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This question may end up a little long winded, and I apologize up front for this: but I am desperate! I have been with the same man for a little over 10 years, have been married to him for almost 5 of them. Somewhere along the road over the last few years, things have star... (424 words)

I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward! We have been really good friends for 5 years and I have felt something for him over the past two years but never thought much about it or told anyone that is until my best friend got off with him and I got jealous and ... (170 words)

What sort of signs should I look out for that may hint that he likes me just so that I can get a better picture?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6126 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this lad in my class for 4 months who I thought liked me and then I didn't he was giving me so many mixed signals. I got accused of liking him which made me think even more, obviously to these people I didn't admit it. I have recently been having problems with my ... (263 words)

Is it normal to have doubts before your wedding? Did you...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 7 years. we are getting married in less than 3 months and I am having doubts. I have been with him since i was 17 and hardly had any other relationships before. i just don't feel attracted anymore although i do love him and care very much ... (113 words)

Love Mess...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6128 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This time last year I just split up with my boyfriend and was feeling vulnerable, I invited my friend over, who has a girlfriend and I told him how I was feeling etc and one thing lead to another and we had sex, it was perfect. He ended up telling his girlfriend and they ... (228 words)

Me and my best friend's BF flirt a lot, but my friend only blames me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help my best mate has this boyfriend and they don't seem to be in a close relationship. The trouble is me and him always flirt and send dirty messages to each other. She blames me about it when half of it is his fault. what should i do??????... (48 words)

What to do to my body to make the first time special? Paint my toenails? Shave my pubic area?...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a question. Planning on sleeping with a guy this weekend and am wondering if theres anything I can do ot my body to make it extra nice? Should I shave my pubic area? Paint my toenails? Wear perfume? Scented body mosturiser?... (47 words)

I have become the class joke but I am NOT gay as they tease! How can I cope??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - people at school keep calling me gay. relating me to everything gay. they don't stop. they are getting nasty now . i have become the class joke HOWEVER I AM NOT GAY. i feel almost suicidal and if other people didn't need help i would have done the foolish act by now PLEASE... (59 words)

My GF has rare qualities, biblical I would say. But is this worth a lifetime of sexual frustration?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, My gf and I have been together for more than 8 yrs. There have been ups and downs but never any really really serious arguments. As a person, she is far far better than me. Patient, kind, loving, forgiving, quiet, loyal - she is very much a 'biblical' type ... (286 words)

Why is it that we are having more sex than ever and we are supposed to have split up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is it that we are having more sex than ever and we are supposed to have split up?... (19 words)

Does them jumping into another relationship so fast mean he was cheating all along??

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10 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner someone of over 17 years broke up the relatinship and then had found someone else in a few weeks. They have made no contact since the break up and in addition moved to another part of the country away from friends and family. I dont know if she has moved away with ... (114 words)

Trouble getting "hard". Is this common?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I had trouble getting hard with my girlfriend totally out of the blue whilst we were fooling around. This has never happened before should I be worried?... (29 words)

I would like a man's opinion about whether or not you would dump someone because of braces? Do you think I should have backed down and said I wouldn't get them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 years old and in university right now... I had been seeing this guy for 2.5 years and it was very serious, talking about the possibility of engagement at some point in the next 3-4 years... very serious. I loved him with all my heart and we had very few problems, lots of ... (372 words)

Did she like me or was just being friendly, and why can't I get her off my mind when I hardly even knew her????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this girl in the old 8th grade who i think i fell in love with her. She wasnt really pretty but something about her i liked. I was new last year in 7th grade and she was the friendliest one toward me. She'd always smiledand staredat me whenever i looked at her. ... (133 words)

Is it worth just keeping on 'meeting' with him in the hope that it may go right or do I just walk away??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F) - I was seeing a guy who was hurt badly by his ex. They were together 5 years and she cheated on him, and now he just doesn't trust anyone for fear of getting hurt.. So we stopped seeing each other as I couldnt hack the fact that he was distant sometimes.. The thing is that we ... (98 words)

Oh so confused...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met this girl roughly 2 years ago through a different girl i was dating at the time. i didnt really think much of her at first but as the years have gone by, we have got closer to eachother. Im afriad i have fallen head over heels for her to the point where i really w... (144 words)

He's not yet dumped his other girlfriend!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend has a secret and it's about him not dumping his girlfriend from his old school, should I finish with him or not see him? I thought about it and I don't want to finish with him because I love him ... (45 words)

There's this girl in my class who I think either hates me or is jealous of me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this girl in my class who I think either hates me or is jealous of me. I'm in a new school since last year. One time in November she said in a note that she was sorry for talking about me behind my back. Yesturday she called me and blocked her number and started ... (142 words)

He has a girlfriend and he wants to have sex with me...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

10 March 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Recently this 22 year old guy has been flirting with me, I know him from a friend. I know he wants to have sex with me but I'm unsure wether to or not. Because your first time is supposed to be special, I know it's illegal, but I really like him. He also has a girlfriend and I ... (68 words)

When is a relationship a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I really like a guy that I met through my work and we have been seeing each otber occasionally since last summer, just meeting up for dinner or coffee etc. In October he invited me to his house and he told me that he only invites people he really likes. We had a fun evening ... (281 words)

Loving the one you can never have...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem. I am in a relationship with someone, but am not happy. I haven't been for a while, and I think that the 'emotional distance' is just too far gone to salvage at this point. I am planning on leaving as soon as possible. Here is where the problem comes in... (231 words)

I broke up with him because his ex still calls him and he won't tell her not to, saying he has a "weak heart"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated my boyfriend for a year. I find out one night by checking his voice mail and found his ex girlfriend left him friendly messages. I ask him if his ex has ever contacted him or ever met her, he denied it, getting mad at me for accusing him. He flips out on me saying how ... (227 words)

The feeling of loneliness is becoming unbearable. What is wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been feeling really miserable lately and I don't know how to shake this feeling off. I am 29 years old, female. I have good friends, a very loving and supportive family, a job I adore, yet, being single, I feel terribly lonely. It's like all the good things in my lif... (318 words)

He's only friends with her but she frightens me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has a close friend that is a girl he was best friends with in high school. They got back in touch about 2 years ago. It was a problem in the beginning because he was lying to me about spending time with her. He lied because he thought I would be upset, which I was. ... (298 words)

She knows that I like her but told me that it was going to be hard for me because of her attachment to her ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently met somebody (three months ago) and started becoming attracted to her about a month ago. I found out that she just got out of a relationship (very short) but she's told me that they put closure to it but it's still hard to let go, because they were good friends since ... (86 words)

I do not know if returning to my wife would be out of fear of change or love. How to determine THAT?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hi. ive never posted anything before and i guess its because i really have nowhere else to turn. anyway here goes... i've been married for ten years. thank god we have no children and i'm only thankful for that because of my situation. my wife has stuck with me through a lot. ... (339 words)

Should I feel guilty about checking my ex's personal mails when I had reasons to be doubtful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I began dating someone I have been friends with for a few years. I had recently separeted from my husband and he and his ex wife were awaiting their divorce to be finalized. During the first 4 months, things were going really well. He has a female friend whom he is real... (233 words)

I have fallen for this guy HARD!!!! but the thing is he knows and doesn't feel the same, I really want to get over him but don't know how...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have fallen for this guy HARD!!!! but the thing is he knows and doesn't feel the same, I really want to get over him but don't know how, can anyone help please? thanks. ... (35 words)

What is BAD sex to you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What, to you, constitutes "lackluster" sex?... (6 words)

Fat, skinny or just right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'd like to ask a question about weight. Please be truthful and please don't leave harsh comments. I am 13 years old, about 5 ft 2/3 inches tall and I weigh 7 stone and 3 pounds. Am I over weight, under weight or just right?... (48 words)

I'm confused as to what he wants, is it just sex and loneliness or does he want me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex broke up just a month ago, after having a 8 month relationship. We were happily living together, until I became depressed over the January period. My ex struggled with this, he felt I was a different person, and not the one he fell in love with. Despite me talking ... (247 words)

Does anyone else agree with me talking about another man's wife's boobs should be off limits?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 and just started seeing a new guy. He is 30 and all of his friends are married. We went to a social gathering at a married friend's house. They were nice people and had great kids. I thought it was going great until the wife of the host started breast feeding. This did ... (134 words)

It's the chance of a lifetime for him, should I agree to let him go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend has been asked with work to go to Australia for 3 months to work. I am worried that is too long to be apart and our relationship won't withstand it.. He has said he won't go if I say I don't want him to. Do I have the right to stop him doing this or will we be ... (95 words)

Letting go is hard! Help!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex-boyfrieny broke up with me two and a half years back but I still miss him at times. I still couldn't let go after such a long time. I thought that I saw him twice after that. So many memories poured into my mind. How can I let go of him entirely? I know he has already ... (76 words)

Crazy love...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like him but I don't know if he would reciprocate the same feelings as I do and I am really hot although I may sound like I am a boasting bitch but that's the truth. I AM really hot and all the guys in my college die to talk 2 him but I have rejected so many just to ... (235 words)

If you really cared about a girl, would you understand if the sex is not alway mind blowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, this is going to sound silly to some. I have been with my boyfriend about 6 months. Due to issues in my past, it is taking me a long time to be able to be myself during sex. He is being patient with me. Anyway, we didn't have sex for about a week due to busy life. We ... (130 words)

How can I stop them bullying me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - At school I used to get along great with everyone until seventh grade. My cousin and another girl were new students and they seemed nice, but when they started hanging out together they started being mean to me and a couple other people. I couldn't handle all of the bullying ... (168 words)

Please help! I don't want to lose him.

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had sex with my ex-boyfriend but not intercourse. Sometimes in his room sometimes in mines. We have done it at least 21 times. Once he tried to f*** me but due to pain I was not able to do it. We seperated after 3 years of long relationship as I felt he was not resp... (115 words)

How can I work on my trust problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was dating a girl for about 2 years, I'm 19 she is 17, we broke up recently because she going to to school for 2 years about 5 hours from where I live and I have huge trust problems but she has never given me a reason not to trust her. Any ideas how I can work on my trust ... (71 words)

Save me from the clutches of the widow!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married and have three children and caring wife. Due to some financial trouble I came across to my relative. She is a young widow and alone, she helped me, but when I had paid the amount I had asked for intrest she said "please satisfy me." I am 50 and she of 45. I enjoye... (93 words)

Please help me to convince my family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for the past two years with a guy I love so much. We intend to marry but my family is against his religion (we are not from the same religion.) So how do I convince my family to say yes to our marriage for I cannot go in for another lover. ... (67 words)

Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I started smoking more, due to a v... (147 words)

Had he moved on anyway? If so, why didn't he have enough respect to tell me the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age - My partner of 16 months asked for space mid January as he was unsure what he wanted with pressure of work, finances etc. He said that he felt the same about me but just needed to sort his life out. He did not know how long he needed to do this. I was not very good at giving him ... (253 words)

She hasn't called me back... am I being over analytical here???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This may get a little long-winded, so bear with me... I tend to frequent a bar in my area that features rather attractive waitresses. This was my bar of choice in college and as I'm still in the area after I've graduated, I've continued to visit the establishment. A... (636 words)

I have just recently moved in with my partner who has started hitting me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 years old and have a three month old son. I have just recently moved in with my partner who has started hitting me. He says it's my fault for pushing him too far which I do do that but I just can't take it anymore. The other night I had my son in my arms and he hit me! ... (83 words)

When is it first all right to say "I love you"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my new girlfriend have liked each other a lot for the past 4 years but because of certain issues, which led to dating other people we never dated until now. I know this is a new relationship but I feel like we've been kinda dating for years! And now that we are toge... (123 words)

Is "I will get back to you" a promising answer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I am just trying to read a girls mind, I know very difficult at times!!! I have this work collegue, we don't work in same place just for same company, I have recently got to know this girl and have been texting a bit and talking. She has 2 children aged 11 and 9, troubl... (123 words)

Why are his family so dependent on him???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age - Tell me please a way that a woman can live with a man that is an enabler to his adult children that are married and who is a people pleaser and a co-dependant man. He does not stand up to his kids for anything, he always does everything that they ask him to do, even if it ... (278 words)

Why is my male manager teasing me all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - One of my male managers at work has lately been teasing me a lot. It's pretty immature stuff (i.e, silly nicknames, tapping at my desk, picking on me, etc.). He also brags frequently in front of me (as well as other co-workers) about his sex life, his girlfriend, his ... (140 words)

Constant bleeding four months after Labor and Delivery. Please Advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just had my daughter about four months ago and I got my depo provera birth control shot 6 weeks after havign her. Have been bleeding off and on since then. Not a lot just a little, but it is almost every day and I'm worried. Any ideas if something is wrong with me and what ... (97 words)

I just want to know is he being honest or is he using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just don't get it. I went out with a guy for 9 months. We split as he realised that he doesn't want a relationship and wants to see other women, so therefore doesn't want to be worrying about me in the background. I left him to it, he kept calling me and telling me h... (288 words)

Does it sound as if my boyfriend's going off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, not sure how stupid it sounds or I'm being, but I'm really scared my new boyfriend is going off me, since yesterday everything was going fine, going round his house all the time until sometimes 2.00 in the morning, anyway yesterday after seeing him down the pub he did not ... (224 words)

Family misunderstandings, how can I solve them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i deal with an uncle that gets onto my boyfriend from just talking to me through a window? I was sitting in my room with my cousin when my boyfriend came by to talk to me, well my other cousin and my brother called my aunt and told her that i was making out with "so... (193 words)

Girlfriend Cheating On Me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 7 months cheated on me one week after losing our virginity to each other. We were at a party and I hardly got to speak to her because she was with her girl friends, however I said goodbye to her then went home with my own friends. She later went back to this ... (520 words)

Should I confess to my wife of my affair, and then move away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

age - I'm 45, married with 2 kids. A couple of years ago I had an affair with a married woman who is one of a couple who were our friends. We planned to tell our partners, but a year ago, she ended the relationship suddenly, and completely, just after it had become physical. She ... (360 words)

How do you tell if the condom has split?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 March 2008 (M)

- Hi all, I've read a lot of horror stories about condoms splitting and stuff. Its the only contraception me and my gf use (she has a history of cancer in her family and doesn't wanna risk increasing her chances with the pill, patch etc) Anyway, just wondering, how d... (85 words)

Is this bleeding ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Help i lost my virginity a week ago today with no much blood at all, the next day again after doing it very little blood, then thursdy done had sex again and this time i bleed a lot a lot after we had finished,more like a period but for a few seconds, anyway saturday doing it ... (157 words)

My friend thinks my boyfriend only wants sex. What do you think?

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10 March 2008 (F)

- Me and my bf are both 19 and we have been going out for 1 month and 1 week. One of my friends met him last night and she thinks hes a bit of a player. She thinks this because he has asked me if I wanted to sleep with him so early on...I said no. I am wondering what your vie... (271 words)

How can I stop my boyfriend from dumping me before my birthday?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Im 14 in 7 days =] my boyfriend dumped me 2 day b4 valentines day and we got back together on valentinesday i think its coz he ddnt want to get me anything. but now im worried he will do the same for my birthday. we are really close but im worreid just in case he d... (122 words)

How can I bring my dad round to accepting my boyfriend?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am dating a 21 year old i am 15, we have been dating for 4 months, we really like each other and we have a special connection. He has not tryed to get me into bed he respects my choices my mum didn't like us dating a first, but now all of my mum's side of the family respect ... (142 words)

When we're together I'm his priority, when we're apart he seems uninterested, why?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17. My boyfriends 16. He's my first boyfriend, we've been together 10 months. We see each other every day. When we're together he's great, he's loving and always puts me first. But when we're apart he seems really uninterested in me. Is this just him that does this or is ... (55 words)

Everything has been OK until I found out he was cheating. I forgave him but he acts distant now, how can we solve this?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 6 months.He is divorced with one kid.His job requires him to travel a lot within and outside the country. Everything has been going on okay until i found out he was cheating. He went away for a seminar and apprantly hooked up with one lady who... (284 words)

Could I be pregnant and how do I tell my mother if this is the case?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend had sex a couple of times with a condom and once without it but it wasnt proper he stuck his penis in like half way twice, lately i have been feeling sick and we both think i might be pregnant. how am i supposed to tell my mother if i am?... (55 words)

How can I help him stop?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do if you tell your boyfriend not to smoke weed, but he goes and does it but still tells you? How can i help him stop smoking, if he stops he will go mental, he needs something to calm him down, he has problems. What do i do? ... (51 words)

If I leave him I won't cope on my own financially and I'm also afraid he would committ suicide. What should I do?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupids I'm having problems in my relationship. I don't know if i love the guy i'm going out with. We are togeher for almost a year, but we keep on fighting, i don't even want to have sex with him anymore. I'm afraid if i leave him he will committ suicide. Because... (105 words)

I'm trapped by my love for him.

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so bored at home, my boyfriend doesn't want me going out places without him, he doesn't let me out of the house, he doesn't let me talk to any guys, we fight over the littlest things. Then after he has a smoke he thinks it's all okay and i give into him. I love him so much, ... (68 words)

We're fighting a lot about my freedom, what should I do?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My life is so confusing, i'm dating a muslim and im obviously auzzie and he has so many rules no talking to guys at ALL!! i have to wear what he says i'm not allowed out of the house unless its with him. we're always fighting over the tiniest things. i dont no what to do please ... (59 words)

My best friend wants me to choose between her and her brother, who I recently started dating.

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm dating my bestfriends brother. me and him tried to ignore our feelings for eachother but it was to hard we are now dating, but my bestfriend wants me too choose. i love my boyfriend, they both mean the world to me!!... (42 words)

Crush error!!!please please help

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey as u guys know i told u abt my crush..but the solutions i got confused me further..just cause i called him a nerd u guys thought he is ugly..let me correct the fact he is the hottest guy in college and all the girls run after him but he doesn't care about anyone as far as i ... (106 words)

21 year old female having no sex drive/fear of sex. How can I overcome it?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a healthy 21 year old female, and I have been with my boyfriend, whom I love dearly, for four years. He is so wonderful, caring and I trust him more than anyone in the world. He is also very patient - he's several years older than I am, and quite a bit more experienced in ... (403 words)

Since moving in together we just fight about little things and it's getting me down. Please help!

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10 March 2008 (F)

- I moved in with my boyfirend about 6 months ago and we keep having these stupid rows over little things. I can't take it anymore I feel like screaming at him, he's cracking me up... I love him to bits but I just wish he didn't nit pick on everything... Any Ideas on how to deal ... (79 words)

We had a long distance "promise," which she broke to be with somebody, nearer. I will soon move to her area, what should I do then?

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10 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl before I moved away a few years back and we've been best friends over the net for about 3 - 4 years now. We've been interested in one another for a long time. I've been in College for a year and am moving back to her area in September. This last December she ... (162 words)

Since last year, she refuses to have sex with me because "it does not feel right and she cannot force it." How can this happen??

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10 March 2008 (M) age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years, on and off, and for the last year, she has refused to have sex with me. We will "fool around" and everything, but when the time for the act of sex arrives, she just backs off and tells me that she doesn't feel ... (164 words)

Have I lost my virginity yet?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i had physical contact with my boyfriend, he inserted half of his penis inside my vagina and i had a drop of blood come out off.he sometimes puts his finger inside my vagina and after that hes inserts a little of his penis and i am now confused because i need an advice from ... (77 words)

My husband's semen is very thick. Any ways to thin it out?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love to give my husband oral, but his pre-cum and semen choke me. Is there any thing he can eat or do to thin it out? i would really like to give him oral WITHOUT chokeing, and i'm sure he wouldn't mind either. THANKS!! XxAngelDust13xX... (52 words)

We met at a wedding as our parents are friends. How do I ask her out?

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10 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently attended a wedding at the request of my mother who wanted me to meet the sister of the bride. I didn't know the family real well. I only knew that they were good friends with my parents. During the reception I was introduced to her and found her to be extremely ... (233 words)

Should I tell my parents about the stress and that I have a BF already who supports me?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well... im 12 and my boyfriend is 16. ive been through hell at this age and he's the only one who's there for me. i'm not sure if i should tell my parents or what. please help me. and if you think i'm too young, my mind is much more adapted then you think. thanks. [Added] should... (108 words)

I want to have sex at 15 but I'm terrified about the legendary pain!...

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and want to have sex with my boyfriend, but his penis is rather large and I'm terrified it will be a painful bad experience and thats not how i want my first time to be... any advice?... (39 words)

I like offering oral but it is not my ideal way to spend an evening!? What can I do?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend loves it when i give him head, I don't think its horrible but it's not my ideal way to spend an evening ... is there anything i can do to make it more pleasent for both of us?... (40 words)

Is it normal that my girlfriend only orgasms once during our sexual encounters?

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10 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - help! I have no problem getting my girl friend to orgasm once, but after I do she doesn't want any more? Is that ok or am I doing something wrong? And is it ok that it only takes a min or so to do it?... (46 words)

Can holding onto gifts from an ex be a hindrance to future relationships?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this promise ring and necklace that my ex boyfriend gave me and I was wondering if me not giving it back to him had something to do with why I'm not with a certain guy?? I know this sounds silly but can holding onto something like this from an ex be a hinderance from any ... (62 words)

I'm afraid to drive and my new BF urges me to learn so I can also visit him, is this unreasonable?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 24 years old and just moved back home about seven months ago after being in a 5 year abusive relationship. I've been in a new relationship for about 3 months now. I thought we hit it off. I told him a little about my situation. But recently he has been making me feel bad ... (210 words)

My choice...His choice...Where do I go from here?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is in the Air Force. He might have the opportunity to go to the base in DE. But, Hes being so stubborn and keeps repeating himself "I wont go without you." I keep telling him, If he doesn't take it than he will be stuck here for the rest of his five years and i ... (131 words)

Three men in my life, I only want to be with one but how will he be able to forgive my infidelity?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me..i have a very very confused life...i am having a steady relation with guy..whom i realised that i don't love much.meanwhile i was attracted to two ppl.both my office mates.i was just attracted to one, we had a physical relation but nothing was serious.in the ... (151 words)

Will he call again?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were together for over a year, during that year he was on my families cell phone plan with me, and whenever we would get into a fight he would start crying and tell me how much he loved me and didn't want to lose me. He wasn't very ambitious (20 yrs old and ... (308 words)

Help! I want a baby soon and my husband wants one way later...

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years and we have a wonderful son who is going to turn 2 in april. When my son turned one I started getting this feeling that it was time to have another baby. This feeling grew stronger over time and eventually I shared this ... (417 words)

My gf won't admit she cheated on me, but proof is on it's way. What now?

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10 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so I have been dating this girl for a while. (9 months). I love her very much. I worked away from home last summer and I returned to find a letter from a guy that said that my gf had cheated on me with him and that he thought I should know. He said she had told him that she ... (426 words)

How much information is too much? (When) should I tell him about my past?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I wouldn't say I slept around in the past but I did have two one night stands. Now I have met a guy I really like but he has had a more conservative/ sheltered life. I feel like I should tell him some about my past but I don't want him to judge me for it, or break up with me ... (75 words)

Will my boyfriend ever meet my family?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for four months now and he will not meet my family. I have asked him a few times to meet them by inviting him to events and what not and he still will not. I come from a big, tight-knit, Italian family. My family is not initimidating, they are ... (185 words)

I cannot spend much time with my BF and his old-fashioned mother would oppose to us living together! I'm worried there'll be no improvement in the long run!

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My head is a mess right now, I really need to share with somebody my feelings… Last year I moved home to the country after spending nearly a decade in the city. I was 31, single and bought a house close to my parents. I was not long back home when I met my boyfriend, Colin... (580 words)

My ex opinionated clubs and drinking are students' fun places and activities, thus refused to join me and my friends, what do you think?

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10 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i recently split with my girlfriend and she wants to talk about our problems tomorrow. one was that i want her to come out with me and my friends to the pub/clubs so she can get to know me and them better but she wouldn't. she graduated from uni almost 2 years ago, when we ... (133 words)

I'm shy but I really like him. Help!!

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always been shy when it comes to guys... I have a real lack of confidence and I always seem to be the one falling for then but never the other way around. But recently I met this guy and I really like him and people say that he likes me too. Anyway, he asked me if I'd like ... (129 words)

I need to move on with my life, because I see no future with her. Please help me!

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10 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't get my ex out of my head. She split up with me almost a year and 4 months ago, and I still think about her every day. I worry I'll never find and love another one like her. What can I do to stop dwelling over my break up for good?? Anything I've tried so far (going out ... (93 words)

Where should I take her out on a date?

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10 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 14 year old boy I have never been in a proper relationship with a girl and not too sure how to attract girls? I met this girl and really like her. What signs would she show if she likes me?? If I was to go out on a date with her where should I take her? Should we go ... (91 words)

Do you think we'll ever get it together?

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10 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy after splitting with a long term ex we had fun but I didn't want a relationship. Anyway we stayed friends time went on and I was ready for a relationship, trouble was he had met someone by this time. We stayed friends and then began sleeping with each other ... (138 words)