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writes:how can i make my friend whom i have been fighting with for 2 weeks now jealous and want me the more? help me i love him. but i want him to beg!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): to be honest, i think you sound really insecure why would you want your guy to beg you to stay with him. if you love him or are in a committed relationship then why would you want to play mind games. if he is not satisfying you, then talk to him, tell him you dnt feel appreciated.
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reader, melmel  +, writes (25 March 2008):
Im in pretty much the same situation as you and well im not sure what to do either.. Me and my friend had a massive fight on thursday and decided we would stop hooking up, and then on saturda night when we were out i just acted like i was having the best night, while paying attenetion to every other guy in the room. This worked for me, for the night, but i may add although i know now he gets jealous over me, it doesnt help the issue of if he will ever be willing to act on it.. just be careful, if you keep fighting u might push him to far, just be yourself have fun and if its meant to be it will be.. good luck :)
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reader, Jolie  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 I beleive in KARMA -- What goes around comes around. Its true ......it happenes to me most of the time. When someone gives you all the attention, you take him forgranted and you won't appreciate him. When someone kick off your bloody ass, you feel like you want him more and more and more. So beg off a little .....ignore him a bit, i know its hard but its healthy. Go out by yourlsef and think a bit, then read a book but in a quiet place. Then let him come for you .....if he really loves you he will come. Let him try to begian a chat about your relation. And talk not arguing !!Good luck
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Annalisa is 100% correct in this. I only want to add that it seems you're trying to regain the upper hand in this relationship and control his feelings. You can't do that without his agreeing to it, and that's why you're frustrated, because he's not playing the game you want him to.
Why don't you just back off for a while and let things cool down? Spending time fighting might be exciting but it's not healthy for a relationship if it continues without resolution. Giving it a rest for a bit might help you clear your head and think clearly about the relationship.
Good luck!
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