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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I'm wondering if anybody has any advice regarding my situation. I worked with some one for a year i kind of liked him and i know he liked me. anyway he had a girlfriend who he lived with. Weve kept in touch over the last few months, he broke up with his girlfriend about 4 months ago. He's been a complete mess since....drinking everyday and hardly eating (he's obviosusly not over her) a few weeks ago we both attened the same event and the two of us went out afterwards along with a friend of mine. there was harmless flirting and he came back to our hotel room as it was closer and the people he was sharing with were already in bed. (i had no intentions of taking anything further) He seemed uncomfortable and couldnt decide wether or not to stay. ( we were sharing a double bed, my friend and i offered to share so he could have the single...he didnt want to) then he left after about an hour and a half. I txt to make sure he got to his hotel ok, and he said he couldnt stay because he liked me, i said i liked him to.... we've talked a few times since on msn and i've realised i like him more than i thought i did.Anyway....is it a good idea to start anykind of relationship with him....or would i just be his rebound???? I dont know what to do!!!!Sorry for writing so much.
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reader, michellesays +, writes (26 March 2008):
i think that you should try this as you never know he might turn out to be the ONE and you might sit just wondering what if.
plus he left because he liked you and he is saying that he likes you talk to him about it tell him that you dont just want to be there for him on the rebound im sure if you talk about it then he'll let you know
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