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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I stayed but we didn't have sex, but haven't heard from him since, is it because I didn't sleep with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im 17. Still A virgin (through choice) i dont have a boyfriend and dont really want one...i go out alot and end up snogging guys and getting their numbers etc... inparticular two guys recently... one guy i knew from school that i met up with about a week ago at a club and... (128 words)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy who I've liked and I think he's liked me aswell (because of certain signals) for about a year now. We are both shy. I asked him out just before some important exams and he said he didn’t know and then 2 days later he said not now but maybe after them. Basically ... (305 words)

I am not sexually attracted to him. Will we grow into that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My first and only serious boyfreind started when i was in year three. He gave me a ring and card on valentimes day, so he was my first valentime. We were together till year six but then split up because we changed schools. Now, 4 years later, he has sudennly giv... (176 words)

Why did he email and call me after our date and then ignored me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met J through a centralized network of online communities. Last Sunday, we had a great date, three hours long talking over drinks. I emailed the next day to say thank you for drinks and that I had a very nice time. He replied that evening thank me for coming out and s... (223 words)

Do I continue dating the new man or get back with the ex - who unpredictably announced he is returning from abroad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf moved to another country and told me he wasn't coming back, we kept in touch by emailing each other. It took me ages to move on but eventually I did and i met this guy who's amazing. We've spent time together and the other day he kissed me. I really like him but in the ... (130 words)

I have been cheated on so many times that I now have trust issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive recently split up with an ex, then found out he cheated on me with a best mate. I've started seeing another boy, (3 mnths later) and really like him:) i love the way he looks at me. But i'm so scared that he will treat me like the rest have, i have been cheated on so many ... (72 words)

This relation bores me to tears but I'm terrified of moving on and being on my own again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for four years now and feel that I'm stuck in huge rut and am finding it difficult to leave him. I've reached the stage that having sex with him is a chore and I don't really want to spend time with him. We are together but we lead seperate live... (175 words)

If you're pregnant, can you still have a late period? Other implications of such exception?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

8 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - If you're pregnant, can you still have a late period? Please, I'm really worried I could be pregnant. So if your period comes, but is late, what does this mean? Is there something wrong with the pregnancy, or are you not pregnant at all? Thank you so so much if you have any... (59 words)

Did I handle the situation well?

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8 March 2008 (F) - My b/f and I of 2 and a half years almost broke up. He became very distant. Didn't touch me, kiss me, talk to me like he used to and he eventually explained he is tired of a lot of our arguments, tired of me giving him a hard time if he wants to go out with friends, and even ... (373 words)

What do you think about this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This is my situation. I have already made up my mind of divorcing my husband right after you see what I am going through. My husband came out the 1st week of January 2008 and told me that he loves me to death as the mother of his kids but not in love or have that spark an... (322 words)

How do I tell him I fancy some mutual masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

8 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well i am not gay but i just really get the urge to masterbate with another guy but i just dont know how to tell him. sometimes i even want to have mutual masterbation with him. how do i tell him... (41 words)

Is discharge normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel abit pathetic because a sex education lesson in school brought this to my attention. A teacher was talking about symptoms of STIs and one was discharge, Now i haven't had sex so i dont think i have a serious disease but i do have discharge I thought this was normal just ... (68 words)

How can I avoid being shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had anyone like me back before, much less have a boyfriend. I try not to be shy but it's difficult for me. I've tried to show interest but was rejected twice. What can I do?... (37 words)

He licks his lips at me - what does he mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 yr old girl. There is this boy in my class(13) who flirts with me alot. Alot of people I know think he likes me. He is actually nice but he has a silly side to him. He says hi to me and calls me nick names. When I was in class one time, he called my name and when I ... (90 words)

My gf watches too much porn, it has not affected our sex life but I do feel somewhat insecure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

8 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This is probably an unusual question but I need help with it so please bear with me I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years, and this has been a problem for about the last 2 and a half, we cannot seem to resolve it. She watches way too much porn. I found out about ... (353 words)

How do I get over the self-induced death of my close friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Today is one year since my friend, Taylor, committed suicide.That day changed my life and affected me in so many ways. I couldnt eat right or sleep right and picturing how she died overplayed in my head for so long. I had nightmares every single night and it really messed me ... (147 words)

If a boy does not answer a text promptly, does it mean he is not very interested in the sender?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question for the guys to naswer. See when you like a girl and she sends you a text message, how long does it take you to answer? Do you answer straight away or do you leave it a day or so? If you leave it a while does that mean you're less keen?... (59 words)

I appear to be the one making all the sacrifices, is this relation worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this 37 years old guy who is single,i am a lady of 26 years and single too,the problem is that the guy appears to be too busy with his work so leaving us little or no time to spend together.The guy is also broke,while i have a good job and i do most of the calling,he says ... (90 words)

Is it wrong to date my ex's best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with a guy for 2 months and during that time he introduced me to his best friend. After we broke up his best friend confessed to having strong feelings for me. So now i'm stuck i dont know what to do. Is it wrong to go out with him because of previously going ou... (72 words)

I can't open up to my bf, how can I explain my barriers to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Ok I have a question..lol. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now. And still havent opened up to him.. We have kinda talked about this and I have tryed to explain to him that it's not easy for me to open up.. I have a wall up I guess I can call... (189 words)

I bled after the "fingerplay," is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm really embarrised about this but i kinda need advice... My boyfriend fingered me and then when i went to the toilet i was bleeding a bit. It wasn't the first time i've been fingered but this has never happened before. Is this normal? Please help :( x... (49 words)

Can one be in love with two people at the same time, as my gf claims? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (M)

age - hi i've been dating my girlfriend for six weeks, we met on the internet, we both got on really well, and love each other, we were talking about honesty and trusting each other being a big thing in an relationship, she told me by text the next day that she was not being ... (144 words)

My live-in partner has cybersex and watches porn. I want to leave but he always convinces me to give him another chance!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dealing with this problem for almost a year now... First of all, I'm 23, and my boyfriend is 42. We met 4 1/2 years ago, when he was still married, and stupid me, I was his "mistress" for a little while until he was busted and got divorced. We've lived together for ... (248 words)

If he missed me that much then why am I bottom of his priority list? Am I being unfair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Hi there, Really need some help. It was finished with me and my boyfriend for two weeks. We met for lunch today and decided that we missed each other and wanted to give it another go. One problem though i asked him did he want to meet up tonight and he said he was going to ... (250 words)

We already have two kids and my partner does not desire a third member, whereas I am against abortions! Should I keep the baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm 26 and I think I'm about 14 or 15 weeks pregnant(I havn't been for a scan yet). I found out a few weeks ago. It wasn't planned and was a bit of a shock. I have been in a relationship with my partner for about 12 years and we already have 2 beautiful boys who are 8 and ... (290 words)

Should I tell my best friend how I feel for him? I'm afraid of the consequences upon our friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi..i'm in love with my best friend.i really want to tell him but i'm afraid it will ruin our 15 years of relationship.I have a friend who experienced this before and he told the girl but she didn't accept him.and now, their freindship is not as good as before.based on this, ... (67 words)

I am not sexually active once or twice a week, which is the cause of tensions between me and my energic girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I been together going on 3 years this month. She is a very active girl in bed. She seems to want activity every night. Me on the other hand I don't get active once or maybe twice a week. We also turn it into arguments. I use to be such active as she is but I ... (91 words)

He struggles to satisfy me in bed as his back pain is getting worse, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've just divorced and started a relationship with this man. I feel good when I am round him. We have sex three or four times a week. A year on he begins to struggle to satisfy me in bed as his back pain is getting worse. He takes painkiller and carry on with frequent sex ... (105 words)

Why do the insensitive say they never meant any harm by their actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

- I have a question which has always troubled me. Why is it that people who are insensitive to the feelings of others...we all know them..the womanisers, cheaters etc always say they never meant any harm to anyone when you call them on it. Are they really that dense about their ... (65 words)

I feel left out because I've never had a boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 15 and i have no confidence at all, i have never had a proper boyfriend and never kissed a boy either, every one i know has and i feel really left out. what can i do?... (38 words)

I'm stuck between my ex and my new boyfriend, feeling like an emotional wreck, help!

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8 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like an emotional wreck right now. I had a relationship for a year. We were like soulmates, a mirror image of each other, we had such a strong bond, we were prefect together - apart form the fact we really lacked passion. And that led to us breaking up, just after C... (318 words)

Is money more important then my happiness? Should I stay tied to this relation for my son's comfort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - PLEASE HELP IM FALLING OUT OF LOVE.. me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years we have a 2 year old son, and about one year ago we bought a house, he is the one who earns the money even though i do work i don't earn much. i have fallen out of love. i look at other men ... (106 words)

How does urinal infections affect erections?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i was having urinal infection and from that time my penis is not erecting. can i satisfy a girl without erected penis?... (25 words)

What would you do in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F) age 36-40 - i recently met a man i have started to like . we have now been dating a few months and he then found out from a close mate of his that he dated me a year ago. now my man may leave me, he is not sure . what would you do in this situation... (57 words)

We don't have much sex, probably due to his stressful job! Not a promising beginning of relationship, what would you do?

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8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 and my boyfriend is slightly older, he is 24 and we have been together for 6 months, we have known eachother nearly a year. this is the issue - we had been together around 2 months and everything was perfect, then he got a new job. he drives trucks 6 nights a week, of... (412 words)

My in-laws are very cold towards me and my husband does nothing about this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - friends i am in a problem and would appreciate your exprienced answers, me and my husband were very happy few days back but now my in-laws are poking their nose between us even they are in india and we are staying in singapore; still they are calling my husband so many times ... (205 words)

He says money is hard earned so he is not squandering it, only such lifestyle to me is boring! Could I change him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this man when my 22 year marriage hit the rock. He helps me to go through the divorce. We've been together for a year now. Im 45 and he is 18 years older than me. This new man is very stingy with money. He has got a house and a car and still working as a self employed ... (151 words)

Does real love still exists in a world full of lies and ambiguity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i don't know why i feel that to trust someone is impossble because nobody deserve to be trusted in a world full of lies and ambiguity...can i find a real love ??... (32 words)

I'm the bridesmaid of honour and need to arrange a hen's night, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this isn't STRICTLY relationships, but I have had some good non-strictly-relationship advice off here before. Basically, my best friend is getting married, I am the bridesmaid of honour and need to arrange a hen night. She's not too big on the clubbing scene...Any ... (56 words)

Some ideas on reaching orgasms, increasing low stamina, etc? We are both virgins.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just got married, and my husband and I are both virgins... I think that its unneccesary to say that neither of us really knows what the hell to do... Lol, I'm asking for any tips you might have on reaching orgasm, increasing his woefully low stamina, and anything else you ... (70 words)

Is it wishful thinking or does my boss like me? Should I declare my love before she switches jobs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, i know this topic has been answered so many times, but i need advice. Im a closet bisexual, in a relationship with a man that has no idea i like women. Thing is im in love with someone else..... My boss!! Im 95% sure she is a lesbian, she lives with another woman, but says ... (145 words)

I've been medically suggested not to wear contact lenses but I need them to impress a friend. Also, what to do about my sickness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

8 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm just gonna apologize in advance for how long this is. My situation doesn't have too much to do with relationships but I didn't know where else to ask. So, to start off, let me give a little bit of information about myself. I just turned 15, and I've been homesch... (1022 words)

Ended our online relationship because it never went farther than Internet, as we are both shy. How could we talk again and... progress?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

8 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hi im Fourteen, and here is my problem. at the start of year 10 i found out this boy liked me. So i was talking to him on msn and he admitted it himself, so i was thrilled and told him i felt the same. Anyway as time went on we were only talking on msn, and that's about... (302 words)

I noticed an itchy, sore and burning sensation around my vaginal area, should I be concerned?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was recently married, and after a few weeks of being sexually active for the first time, I've started noticing an itchy/sore/burning sensation around my vaginal area. Is this normal, or should I be concerned?... (35 words)

I do not want to call her because I think I deserve an explanation, am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (M)

age - i have ( or had -do not know yet ) a gf of over 3 yrs. we do not live together, but live a few blocks away. our schedules do not match so we do no see each other as much as we would want to. due to her past marriage of over 16 yrs with a guy that cheated quite often on her and ... (567 words)

How likely is it that I am pregnant, despite of the precautions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was recently married. My husband and I are not financially ready for children just yet, so we have been using the following methods: condoms with spermicidal lubricant, birth control pills, and withdrawal before ejaculation. However, I have become concerned lately when I ... (126 words)

How do you know if someone loves you back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6133 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if someone loves you back? or if you really want to tell this person how you feel for him but you dont have the courage too. What shall i do?... (34 words)

My boyfriend is not ready to settle down...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Being with someone who's not ready to commit I've brought up this topic several times with my bf. I said I want to get married in around 3 year's time. He said he'll definitely not get married in 3 years, and when I asked further, he said he dunno when he'll be ready to settl... (219 words)

Advice on how to be more confident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - well im really shy around certain people and i go bright red when they speek to me. i dont know why this happens. can anyone give me advise how to be more confident.?... (42 words)

What's the difference between seeing someone and dating? And what's the difference between seeing someone and being a girlfriend to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F) - What's the difference between seeing someone and dating? And what's the difference between seeing someone and being a girlfriend to them? I guess im "seeing" this guy. Im 22 hes 32. Neither one of us want commint or a serious relationship. We been seeing each for 6 months. We ... (212 words)

I missed a pill. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

8 March 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hello, I've been on the Pill for almost 4 months. I take 21 pill packs. I started this months pack last friday. I took every Pill regularly, except on wednesday. That day I forgot it. Sadly, on Thursday I took my pill a few hours later than usual (sitll in the 12 hour... (152 words)

Desperate!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - HI MY NAME IS Alice and i have been with this man who i divorced, then we got back together, but my question is how do i know if he has bisexual tendancies. he always want's to have sex in the butt, he has no intemecy towards me as a woman. He has a great time woth the guys ... (82 words)

Should I give him a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm a sixteen year old girl and I was dating this boy named *james* for about a month in a half...Well the first month of the realtionship was going fine..the only problem is that we had little discusions like every day because of his bestfriend..she would always do things ... (362 words)

Older man ready or not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help! I have fallen for the most amazing guy. He is beautiful, compassionate, caring, smart, funny, emotional, etc... We have been dating for about a month which is so soon. I have already fallen for him. I am 24 and he is 42. I have no worries about the age at all but ... (371 words)

Actual LOVE...what does it mean? PLEASE read this!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... this is just kind of a poll for anyone and everyone. It may be a little odd but it's something I've always been interesting in hearing about... What do YOU think the meaning of love is? How do you define being "in love"? And what are feelings and emotions experie... (115 words)

He told me its over... I need help to get over it.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ex bf of over 2 years decided to break it off with me saying that he still loves but not sure as a gf or a friend (chicken way of telling me its over) and that he would like to be friends with me and that maybe we can be together in the future. I stupidly met up with him ... (289 words)

How can I get my husband to stop looking at porn? Should I take erotic pictures of myself?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I married my husband a little over a year ago. We now have a baby together. While I was pregnant, I discovered for the first time that he had been looking at porn online, with repeated views of one particular girl. We had been living together for years at this point, but I had ... (241 words)

He lied, cheated, stole, and is an alcholic. Why do I want him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in a realtionship with an alcholic for nine months. we lived together right from the start. I knew what he was like, but yet i thought like everyone else i could change him. He cheated, lied, stole money from me, and treated me like crap. He left last week when i ... (76 words)

How to meet a new girl and ask her out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

8 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - It's one thing ive never had the guts to do...go up to a girl ive never met before in my life and ask her out or for her number...My biggest fear is being rejected and/or here saying she has a boyfriend cause then I have to walk away knowing she is either going to be laughing ... (128 words)

My feeling to that is that she has become slightly taken in with this other guy...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

8 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - It look like I am about to split with my wife of 4 years (together for 8 years before that) We are both 28 years old so doing the math means we have been togther since we were 16 years old, childhood sweethearts as the saying goes. Anyway over the last 6-8 weeks things h... (371 words)

How much porn do men watch? Should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is directed at men, but I'd like anybody's input I can get: I don't think there's anything wrong with porn, I watch a bit of it myself on occasion... but I recently moved in with my boyfriend and I'm realizing that he may be addicted to it. I was wondering, how ... (75 words)

I trust him my life, but I just don't know about his poor judgement.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

8 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately my boyfriend and I have been getting into arguments over the most petty stuff. He constantly accuses me off cheating, and he makes me feel like crap when he does it. When he brings it up I tell him I would never do such a thing and I tell him every reason why, I ju... (121 words)

Is there something wrong with me ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

8 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - 23 years old and i recently have had sex with my new girlfriend. My question is I've had an orgasm but there was little semen in the condom, could this be because I masterbate three times a day? and when i say little semen i mean very little like a small drop in the sense that ... (69 words)