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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can give her the best oral of her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my girlfriend and I want her to tremble when she see me and not just wink. How can give her the best oral of her life?... (31 words)

I'm in a gay/lesbian relationship and want to start my own family.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Do you think that if your in a gay/lesbian relationship and want to start you own family, is this good? I see a lot of criticism on that. What is your opinion? ... (35 words)

I need some relationship advice please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i like this girl and i thinks she likes me but I'm getting mixed messages. She on msn and sent stuff like love you and sends me kisses then suddnley she stoped emailing me?? and now I think she has got a boyfriend??? I am very lost. I really like her. I also am a bit sh... (80 words)

Is there any way I can stop this happening again??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex last night with my boyfriend ..im not looking to be reprimanded for that so please none of those comments. But the thing is after we did it..we were laying there kissing and i queefed..like a little one but i know he heard it..i just acted like it didnt happen but ... (123 words)

How can I talk to my bf about sex??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and i'm a virgin and my boyfriend is 15. I have, for a while now, been thinking about sex with him. I would feel embarrased talking to him about it. I know that when we've been kissing before on my bed he had an erection and was embarrased to say anything. I don... (73 words)

My life is so boring and my husband won't let me go anywhere.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married and have 3 kids. My life is so boring!! My kids are not bad kids ... they have their moments.. my daughter 14 is a pain in the a.. My son is 16 and is great and so is my 9 year olsd son. My husband over the last couple of years is so controlling and wont let me ... (202 words)

Is it normal for my foreskin not to pull down??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im 16 now n my foreskin donsnt pull down over my end! Is this normal?... (16 words)

I have a feeling in my gut that something isn't right...am I just being paranoid??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with a couple of guys in my life and not the right ones. People that know me assume that I am a slut because I hang out with guys and a few of them I hooked up with. I dated this guy for almost 3 and a half years but it wasn't going anywhere. He cheated on me and i... (285 words)

How can we spice up our relationship a little bit without sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay please help[: I am happy with my boyfriend, we hug each other and kiss and that stuff but i feel i need something more. I don't want to have sex with him, but can you tell me something to spice a little bit my relationship? thank you... (53 words)

We act like we are together despite the long distance - is this bad for our... partners?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a great boyfriend i love him a lot! but for a long time bfroe i was seeing him and right now. i have had this huge crush one of my best friends but he lives miles away. about a 6 hour car journey - so pretty far away. we talk online all the time and he even cal... (166 words)

I have sexual fantasies with a girl friend, am I bi and should I act upon my feelings, given that I am committed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I Think I'm Bi, Theres This Girl, And We Are Quite Close Friends [Not Best Friends] But We Have Laughs And Spend Alot Of Time Together. Well I Think I Really Like Her, I've Had This Feeling For Nearly A Year Now, I Find My Self Having Sexual Fantasies About Her, And ... (202 words)

My BF always hugs his girl friends and this makes me utterly jealous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I Love My Boyfriend Sooo Much. But It Just Kills Me When He Hugs All His Other friends!! We are soooo close, we were always best friends before we went out. Everyone Thought he was Gay before we started going out, and all his other friends are girls! When ever they see ea... (166 words)

Which is the best way to tell my mother of this age gap between me and my date and when would it be the right time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i got asked out by this guy only thing is though that he 22 and am 16, i don't see the problem with age though i know my mum does as my ex was 21 though it was long distance which also didn't help but this guy only lives in my next town and she openly addmitted that she ... (231 words)

Why did he go to the toilet and why did he stop if he's getting excited?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 an me an my boyfriend of a year haven't slept together yet cos we both don't want me to get pregnant so we are going to wait. I don't know much about boys and erections and stuff so please can you explain: we were kissing on the bed the other day. He suddenly... (132 words)

When he is around me he always cuddles me and starts kissing me he tells me I need to get over him but how can I when he's doing this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my ex boyfriend and I split up about a month and a half ago we have stayed close friends and still see each other a lot. When he is around me he always cuddles me and starts kissing me he tells me I need to get over him but how can I when he's doing this to me? Does he ... (73 words)

We both cheated and now we're on a break. Should I leave altogether?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What do i do? Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months and she cheated early in the relationship. A few weeks ago i cheated. We are currently taking a break for a month so do i stick it out or do i move on?... (47 words)

I'm dating but kissed another guy and now I feel terrible about it. Should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

- Hello, I have been going out with my boyfriend for about three weeks now. We go to the same university and as it is the Easter holidays he went home a few days ago. I’ve not gone home yet and last night I went out with one of my friends because she was really upset and needed ... (206 words)

I really like him and the thought of losing contact with him really upsets me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I have dated a guy for 3 weeks which ended over a month ago, but i still can't get over him. the sex was amazing and we communicate really well. we still talk and sleep together but he says i'm not what he is looking for in a girl friend and that there is no spark there, ... (138 words)

Does she love to hate me or does she really care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all. Just needed a little advice about my ex. We were together a year and had some right ups and downs mainly because of her moods, which in turn made me moody. It wasn't very conventional as she is very independent and a little selfish, as am i. We are very similar, yet ... (422 words)

There's a 12 year age difference but he's perfect!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15, and go to church with a 27 year old. he is just everything ive ever wanted. a great christian man, beautiful, funny, caring. just everything. my feelings have grew really strong. his mom and i pray that it will be in gods plan for us to be together. i am always ... (138 words)

Should I tell her I have a crush on her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 15 and im bi and had a crush on my best friend for over a year and know that this feeling wont go away. shes straight and i told her i was bi three months ago and shes cool wit it, but before i got to tell how i feel her boyfriend just broke up with her a few days ago ... (75 words)

What can I do about my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi every1 i need help im really feeling down about my life i have 3 children 2 with an ex that hasnt bothered to see his children in 9yrs that was not nice for me or my children found that hard to cope with. he was violent to me but never wanted him to stop seeing his children ... (202 words)

A question regarding breast feeding.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Once a woman stops breast feeding, can she start again at any time?... (13 words)

I'm 12 and PREGANANT!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - it all happened 1 week ago i was round my bfs freinds house and there were no adults so everyone started having sex and so me and my bf did to but he forgot to use a condom and now im pregnant should i get an abortion or not???... (49 words)

My mum won't be there for my baby's birth. Am I over reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a scheduled c-section next FRI. because the baby is breech. My mom is not going to go. She said that she will just come by after work, she works in the same area as where the hospital is. But I am having the surgery at 10 a.m. and she won't be at the hospital until ... (1030 words)

We're not in love with each other and we've been seeing one another over a year, is this a problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I'm 17, been with my boyfriend for about a year an 3 months now. The other day we talked about how we felt about each other. We both said we really care about each other. We both said we hate the thought of each other being really sad and really want each other to be ... (96 words)

When my bf goes away I cry and worry for a few days...any advice how I can cope??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

- I just need some advice really. I have been with my bf almost 2 years We love each other loads He is in the army and travels a lot. The travelling has become more and more over the last 6 months The time he is away can vary from 2 months to 2 weeks. When he first leaves i g... (97 words)

14, How do I attract girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I attract girls? I'm 14 and do not have a lot of experience with relationships with gitls?? how can i tell if A girl likes me?? help!!... ... (38 words)

The right girl seems so far away. After my ex I worry I won't love anyone like her again. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Why does the right girl, or any girl for that matter seem like she's far away from me? I've not had a relationship for a while now. My most recent one was in no way as good as my first relationship which lasted almost 2 years, and right now I feel like I'm not going to have ... (139 words)

Diet question

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

- Ive become pretty obsessed with a diet. Im eating fruit and cereal. have been doing since monday but today i had 4 rich tea buiscuits (25%lower fat) at 36 calories each 0.9g fat for one. and i had an apple bake go ahead bar 2.5g fat. I just tried to make myself sick because i ... (85 words)

All my crush does is stare at me...but I don't want to approach him first.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am an 18 year old girl and this is my first crush.. I have this humungous crush on a guy studying in the same college as me but we dont have classes together..i have seen him staring at me a couple of times but when i look at him he turns away..we have never spoken o... (132 words)

How do I know if my man loves me for sure??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do i know for sure that my man loves me enough for me to stick with him,i need answers,pls help... (21 words)

Can anybody help with dress suggestions for my semi-formal??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in 8th grade and in June after graduation my school has a semi-formal and i cant wait but i am rlly worried about finding a dress and i am already looking but i am no very thin and i am picky can. Can anyone please send me the website of dressess... thanxs ... (56 words)

I have lost my sex drive after pregancy and now I feel like I am pushing my man away.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Before I had my first child who is almost 2 now my sex life was fabulous. I was great in bed and pleased my man. I thought to myself I was going to make a man very happy when I settled down. During my pregnancy we barely ever had sex, I was sick a lot. After my pregnanc... (237 words)

My secret bf is being posted to Afghanistan...is it worth trying to make this work??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So..I need help. Please don't judge me either. I'm 16 and i'm a "secret relationship" with someone 19. He's in the army and i've been reading up about how to stay together with him because i know i'm young and a lot of people would say that I shouldn't settle early but I like ... (215 words)

How can I get over hating men because it is ruining my relationship??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 and i really need some help; the thing is i really hate the way men are! I hate how they check out other girls and some boys just dont have respect for girls, all they want is sex! If theres a half naked girl on the tv or something an my brothers watching the tv i... (177 words)

Does anyone else here agree with me that it was inappropriate for her to slap her brother on the butt?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age - Like a lot of women, my girlfriend really likes a tight butt on a guy. Whenever I'm naked around her, she always either pats me on my butt or softly slaps my butt. This usually happens when she's behind me. Well, recently she told me that when she was at her brother'... (246 words)

I'm sad and angry most of the time in my sexless marriage. Should I leave??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age - My husband and I don't have sex anymore. He's always "too tired". Funny, he's never too tired to stay out to 2am with his drinking buddies or play table tennis on his evenings off. Just too tired for me. We rarely sleep in the same bed together anymore. He doesn't talk to ... (381 words)

He slept with a girl I met in the pub...should I forgive him or move on alone??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met the most wonderful guy on holiday 10 months ago and i fell head over heels for him. He is amazing, and although i am only 18 i want to spend the rest of my life with him. However, last night he hurt me in the worst possible way. He phoned me up to tell me that he had got ... (168 words)

Is it stupid of me to keep my virginity so long??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I am writing to this website again because my mind is in a mess right now and need someone to offer me some enlightenment. Today, my ex-girlfriend messages me online and told me she gave her virginity away to another guy. I don't know why, my heart just ached. I felt m... (247 words)

Is he trying to tell me he doesn't like me or has he just not noticed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this boy in my school, I met him at a party a couple of months ago and since then we talk on msn a lot and I have met up with him a couple of times, but we've always been with friends. The problem is, when I first met him he liked my friend Cara but she wasn't ... (206 words)

"he's only just got back in to the water and is just paddling around for a bit." What does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When speaking to a guy who just got out of a long relationship he said he's only just got back in to the water and is just paddling around for a bit. What does that mean?... (37 words)

I'm 19 and trying for a baby. When is the best time to take a pregnancy test after having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm 19 and I'm trying for a baby. I've been trying for about 2 weeks now. I took a test on Friday, and it said 'Not Pregnant' Is it too soon to be testing? When should I do another test again? I'm due for my period soon too, if I come on, does that mean I can't b... (76 words)

I ended our relationship because he had to move away, thing is, I can't stop thinking about him...

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Almost two years ago I started dating this guy, but he had to move away so I ended our relationship. We now live on the opposite sides of the country and I can't stop thinking about him. I have hooked up with other guys but none of them can make me stop thinking about him. He's ... (92 words)

He doesn't seem to want me any more...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancee recently started a new job and he's been working 7 days a week. He is always (understandably) tired and is too tired for sex. I've tried buying porn, lingerie, and even bought a strip pole to spice things up but we use them once and he never wants it again. This ... (92 words)

I don't want it to end this way, how can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well basically I was with my boyfriend a year and 3 months.. It was great we were very much in love and still are. Just under 2 weeks ago he finished it no reson, he just said this was what he wants, he said he still loves me and all but still no real reason. we are still mates ... (234 words)

I would like to know is their any way of getting rid of excess skin without surgery?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (M) - dear cupid I would like to know is their any way of getting rid of excess skin without surgery? I have excess skin from weight loss and do not know how to get rid of it, and also will the girls get turned of by it? please help... (55 words)

Long distance torture!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now, we live in different countries and have met in another country. We enjoy each others company a lot when we are together - and we are together only once a month or once every 2 months for a short weekend. I feel like I ... (268 words)

How do I attract guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I attract guys? I'm in my teens and I want a boyfriend but I don't know how to get one. ... (23 words)

He always has porn on when he makes love to me...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age - I was sexually abused as a child and as a result I have problems in bed. I have had therapy on and off for years. I think I am doing better, but my partner tells me I am not, he has told me I am boring in bed and if it wasn't for porn he would not get any pleasure from sex with ... (202 words)

I have some major relationship problems.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I have some major relationship problems. There is this guy that I really really like but I'm not sure if he likes me. Whenever we are at parties together we always end up dancing together. But when my friend asked him if he likes me he said no. I like him a lot and I don't wa... (76 words)

Why does he snap at me all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 26 years and have 3 children, he always snaps when we have a conversation, What's wrong with him, has the relationship gotten stale? Or has he falling in love with someone else, thanks :-)... (41 words)

The sexual act never hurt, only the fingering, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

- So I have two questions. I've had two bfs who I have been sexualy active with. With both of them it always hurt if they fingered me, why is this? It never really hurt when having actual sex. Also, do most guys cum faster/earlier when having actual sex as compared to... (64 words)

The thought of commitment scares me, what is it that holds me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - well i'm 19 years old and i'm really scared of being committed to another person i mean the thought of it scares me..i mean i've been with lots of girls during high school but just made out with them or mess around but i never wanted to settle down in a relationship with them, ... (69 words)

What do you think? Would he go through with this if he loved me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a similar situation but my boyfriend is engaged with some other woman abroad! He told my friend about it hoping she wouldn't tell me! Well she did and I'm just waiting for him to come back then I'm going to give back everythnig he gave me and shout and be strong no man ... (197 words)

Why have my periods suddenly stopped?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

9 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i havnt had a period for 4 months and i dont know why, normally i come on around the 3rd. 4th. of every month, but i havnt been on, march will is now the 5th month!! my last one was november which was normal. my boyfriend thought i was pregnant :S but im not!! and i dont know ... (67 words)

No idea where I stand with my (adult!) student and trying not to compromise my job can be hard! Why inviting me if he is already committed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a question and a problem. I teach german to adults and have a student to whom I feel deeply attracted to. He has been divorced for a year and has a girlfriend - had one very quickly after his divorce. we know each other for about 9 months now. the vibe during the ... (522 words)

My BF is not allowed to stay over but my brother's GF is! What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - can anyone help me, am i being stupid or am i right? last night my mum allowed my sisters boyfriend to stay over and SHARE A BED with her!! she is 13 and he is 17! but not a month ago, she wouldnt let my boyfriend stay over because im 15 and he is 18 and she said she didnt w... (171 words)

He is a wonderful man but his preferences in bed confuse me! What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age - Dear Sir/Madam I have been dating a real gentleman for the last three months. Nothing is to much trouble for him and our relationship is growing day by day. He is perfect in almost every way and i have found myself falling in love with him. Now bearing in mind i am a l... (197 words)

Is it gay to join your female friends on a girls' night out and feel excellent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my name is paul and i went out with some woman that i know and it first it was just going to be just them to a girls night out.. One of my best friends asked me to come with them and i said i would and i had a good time. It was me and 5 of them. I was so relaxed and i was ... (120 words)

I am currently having problems with going to the toilet. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (M) - Dear cupid I am currently having problems with going to the toilet. I seem to want to go and poo but everytime I go their nothing comes out. This is going on for nearly one month. been doctors and all they gave me is tablets. also does not going to the toilet give your stomac... (67 words)

Confused about this recent burst of hormones and the talk about marriage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has had a recently very high sex drive out of no where and keeps bringing up talk of mariage. Before he had a moderate passion for sex ranging from 2 to 4 days a week, however now it's twice a day. I'm very confused about this recent burst of hornyness.... (52 words)

Currently in a controlling relationship, I am attracted to another but afraid of rejection and remaining alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im turning 17 years old next month.. and i been in a relationship for about a year now. he sometimes can be very controling and i want to have fun in my life.. and latey the relationthip has been dull. i kind of like this guy who is a few years older than me, but his sister ... (100 words)

I love this man and it might be hard to let go but if he's not worth the trouble, I wouldn't want to be chasing shadows...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for over 8 months now, his office moved him to my city and we hit it off. He travels a lot because of his job. Early this year, he had to travel for an office retreat but recently, i found pictures of him, his friends and a girl on his computer... (302 words)

Is there any evident signs of an STI or should I get tested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i've had sex with two different guys. It was both their first time but is it likely that i could have an STI even though i was their first times? Both times we didn't use a condom but luckily i wasn't pregnant. I keep worrying that i might but i'm too scared to get a test ... (96 words)

I really want to stop thinking about my ex-girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My name is Moses, I really need asistance in this, for a period of 4 year, me and my girlfriend we have been together happily, but I think every one while starting up a relationship there is this question, "Please tell me what really annoys you or wat dont you want to be done ... (347 words)

Should I be worried that his ad on a dating site might be a clue that he is not faithful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i caught my boyfrend who is older then me, (I'm 31 he's 49 ) putting an ad on match.com. I'm not sure what to think of it. i know he does have issues about getting older.( he's ordered wrinkle cream, etc.) I've confronted him about it, and he said that it was just to see what... (172 words)

Will she give herself to me on her birthday which is in 20 days?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i have a question...i knew this girl since freshmen year and we got close and i loved her as a sister and she loved me as a brother... im 16 and my girlfriend is 15, and were both shopmores...we started going out on oct. 07 and we started likeing each other aroun Aug. and ... (645 words)

Can anyone help or is it just a question of time until I am over my ex husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age - My husband and I split 14 months ago, his choice not mine. I still love him so much and even though he has made it quite clear he is happier without me I cannot let him go and still spend my days thinking about him, who he is with and what I can do to get him back. As awful as ... (97 words)

Could I be pregnant although we were both clothed?...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Three days ago...i went to a dance party..and i had been drinking...and i think i got pretty tipsy...and i flirted and dirty danced with a guy...we were pretty much humping and grinding....and i was wearing a dress and very thin underwear..and i did get wet...and i think he got ... (132 words)

What do men think about the different "shapes and sizes" of a woman's genitals?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is probably a dumb question, but how do guys feel about the different "shapes and sizes" of a woman down there? I was curious because I stumbled on a message board where some guys were saying they preferred a woman to have "big lips down there" and some prefer them to ... (68 words)

I always listen to my friends' troubles but when it's their turn to listen they do not seem interested and I keep blaming myself for this!

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid, is anybody can tell me if i am too emotional or negative thinking, maybe it's only myself who has a problem dealing with everything, i have a hard life since i was young and now im 36 and every problem i have is not easy, problems related to family, past rel... (201 words)

What can I do? Am I going about this all wrong?

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9 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am having a really hard time. I'm 22 and in college my girlfriend and I have been dating for over 4 and a half years. In that time we have been best friends and gone through a lot together. But the problem is there is this guy. She told me along time ago she use to like him. ... (708 words)

Will the stretch marks go away by losing weight?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old and my weight has gone up and down almost my whole life. The problem is that I have these horrible stretch marks on my stomach, on each side of my belly button. It makes me so self conscious about wearing a bathing suit (even more than I already am!) and in ... (115 words)

The cramps are starting to scare me, could I be pregnant?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a period at the end of January/early June. Two weeks later, I had another period, only this one was shorter. It's been almost a month since that shorter period and I still haven't gotten another. I've been getting cramps and discharge, I think I might just have a yeast ... (100 words)

Is it normal to be very upset/paranoid when my new GF is out with her friends, drinking?

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9 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it normal to be very upset/paranoid when my new GF is out with her friends drinking? I just started dating this girl, and she has some guy friends and i dont mind at all that she hangs out with them but just the thought of a pretty 19 yr old girl, alcohol, and guys doesn't... (129 words)

Would it be a bad idea to lose my virginity to my best friend considering a relationship is impossible due to the long distance?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This might be a strange question, but I don't know who else to ask. I'm a virgin and it's only that way because I have some trust issues and want to lose it to someone that I actually trust and I know - not just some random guy at a party. I am going on vacation in a few months ... (197 words)

How do I deal with a painful, bitter break up - my first?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've always been a very lonely person. Bullied at high school, I never got a real date until I was 22. This guy appeared and we got along very well. We became a couple and went steady for 3.5 years. But ever since our 5th month I found resistance from my mother: she would ... (463 words)

His libido decreased, whereas I have a tenacious sexual appetite and feel frustrated! What can be done??

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9 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a gay male and have been in a committed relationship with a man for 3.5 years, living together for two of those years. We love each other intensely, but it seems that he hardly wants to be touched by me anymore. We have sex about once a month, whereas it used to be all ... (97 words)

I do not want him to go to jail if we have sex, what should I do?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im a virgin and im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 he's not a virgin. I really love him alot and i want to have sex with him but i'm scared but that's besides the point. I don't want him to go to jail. What should I do? Help please.... (51 words)

I'm pregnant, but torn between two men. Which do I choose?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - (Well first of all I have to mention that I am pregnant with my first child and this makes this issue so much hardier. ) I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and we always have problems and bicker at eachother constantly. When we moved in with eachother I noticed that ... (387 words)

I like my best friend too (I'm bisexual), although I have a BF, what now?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so first off i am bisexual but i would never sleep with any girl but i do like them.My best friend is also bisexual and i just found out she likes me but i have a boyfriend and i like him to but i also like her..so what do i do??..... (52 words)

Shy or a player?

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9 March 2008 (F)

- Hoping someone can help me out here. Sometimes it is hard to understand guys. There is a guy I have noticed around on campus and he has noticed me too. He will come and stand close to me and when I look at him...he takes off. He keeps doing this and I cannot help but wonder if ... (69 words)

Is there a safe suppliment that will enhance his size effectively? How do I talk to him about it?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We love each other and plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We talk about everything, only have never mentioned one thing in particular to him. I have had past physical relationships with other men and he knows that. I had ... (163 words)

Since he confessed he likes me, he drew back, appearing to feel guilty, twice. We are both unhappily married. What to do?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age - Nine months ago I met a man thru our dog club who I was instantly attracted to as he was me too. He is difficult person, not well liked, drinks but brilliant trainer and respected in that way. I not bad trainer either, we similar in so many ways, in and out of dogs. We hit it ... (594 words)

Do you have any advice or insight as to why the one I love so much has changed his mind about me?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am a 26 year old female in a 10 month relationship. I have a job that requires travel about 3 to 4 days/week. Because of this fact after only 2 1/2 months my boyfriend and I decided to move most of my stuff into his house (including my cat)so we could spend as... (385 words)

I know we can only be friends but...

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up for about 8 months now, he's currently with someone (his ex) Who is cheating on him. I'm good friends with him, but he started inviting me over, and told me he almost kissed me, the feelings were coming back, and then went back to her, and at ... (161 words)

We would do things together and the next day he would reject any approach, sexual or of other nature? This has happened repeatedly, why!?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really hate this I have loved someone for years. In a relationship it didnt work out. After it we continued to be on and off but not being together. We would do things together and the next day he wouldnt want anything to do with me sexual wize. Not even a kiss. This confused ... (271 words)

He's younger and less experienced, it causes arguements, should I walk away?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I walk away? I've been dating a guy for 6 weeks. We get along very well, although he's 4 years younger than me - less experienced and less mature (in some ways). He's very dependable and offers me security. But the immaturity and lack of experience seems to be c... (128 words)

What do I do about my ex and I?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this things in my mind that does not let me concentrate sometimes well it was last year i broke up with the father of my son and got with this man who was my brothers friend we were both attracted to each other he was not happy and neither was i he told his girlfri... (676 words)

I found out my 16 year old had (protected) sex, how should I approach her about it?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age - I have a 16 year old daughter. Last night, I picked up the phone wanting to make a phone call unaware my daughter was talking to her best friend. She had said that last Saturday, she had sex with her boyfriend, who is also 16. When she had gone out for her piano lesson today, I ... (110 words)

She's rejected further dates but I know that she likes me. What holds her back and how can I get her to want a relationship?

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9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I dated this girl once and I knew she really liked me. We kissed for ages. Than after we planned to meet again but I was busy on several occasions so was she. She then told me she doesn't want to be in relationship right now. I do I know I can win her over in one kiss but how ... (85 words)

Was he not over his ex? Is that why we split?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I split up a few months ago. We'd been together just short of a year. With hindsight, I was just wondering if the demise of our relationship had something to do with him not being over his ex, and him not knowing it. He was with his ex 4 years. There ... (171 words)

I'm going through a tough time with my girlfriend, who is still living with her ex boyfriend

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9 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 29 and seeing a girl 25. she's everything i want in a woman,but we are going though some tough times. she was seeing a male about six mounths ago until they went on holiday and he beat her up. but just before they went away i kissed this girl and have ended up in a ... (257 words)

Am I being too fussy? Why don't my relationships work?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why can't I fInd someone who's perfect for me? It seems I find these great guys, but they all have one fatal flaw that just means we'll never get anywehere. I feel like I'm going to be alone forever. Am I being too fussy? Why don't my relationships work?... (59 words)

I like my friends ex, how do I tell if she likes me?

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9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl through a friend and we went out for a while my mate was going out with her best fiend she dumped me and my mate and my ex went out with each other but i like my m8s ex she is very pretty and we had a lot in commen and we have only met up 2 times but always tak ... (79 words)

My parents hate my fiance even though they have never met!

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with this guy for over 2yrs and recently got engaged. I love him more than anything but the problem is my parents dont like him even though they've never met. He is 44 and i am 20 and this is probably the reason why they dont like him. How can I get them ... (81 words)

How do I attract girls? I'm young and inexperienced...

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9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 14 year old boy i dont have a lot of experince with girls i also need adviceon how to attract girls? im not sure what to talk about on msn orface to face ?? to be honest im shy and not confident aswell how can i build it up? help! thanks... ... (57 words)

I need help with conversation skills

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9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 14 year old boy, what can i talk to my mates and girl mates about on msn i say the usual "hello" "how you been" and "what have you been up to" but i know my mates are getting bored of it what should i talk about please help thank you... (54 words)

I really like this girl and she is very flirty/friendly, but I'm shy!

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9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl and i like her; we are good mates and we have only met 2 times but always talk to her on msn. i have got a bebo site and she puts stuff like love you and emails me and when i say bye she says love you and she puts kisses How do i know if she likes me?? i relly... (88 words)

I'm stuck between 2 girls, past and present, can't help comparing them!

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9 March 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Hi people! This is my first comment here, I've just signed in because I really need help with this. Also, today's my birthday, so any answers will be appreciated double on this day =) Let's start from the beginning: In 2006 I went to Japan for 2 weeks because I got a scho... (554 words)

I envy my boyfriend because his life has been much more interesting than mine, and I feel lame.

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9 March 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I am 19, and my boyfriend is 22... My parents were always kinda (still are sometimes) quite overprotective of me - that's why I don't even know how to ride a bike. So I've always been mostly home, yes, I did have/do have some very good friends at school and now college, how... (355 words)

I am crazy about this guy, and he is about me too. But he won't commit and I find that hard to deal with

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I don't know where to begin with this one. I'm in love with this guy I've known for years. I know he has strong feelings for me as he admits this much but he has never wanted to go further. We have traveled the world together and been very close. I cut him off fo... (96 words)

Is my foreskin normal?

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9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 16 n my foreskin stil dosnt cum past my foreskin is this normal??... (16 words)

I'm a lonely male single parent, am I past relationships?

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9 March 2008 (M)

age - Dear Agony Aunt, I will be fifty in a few months time, I'm single and spent the last 10 years raising two children on my own, whilst trying to succeed in a career. But men who look after kids have a glass ceiling as well, and relationships last as long as it takes to discove... (158 words)

My marriage is on the rocks, we have so many issues with each other, how can we move forward out of this rut?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i need to know how to keep my marriage ,my husbands says i eat out to much that is why we have no money ,an he hates his jobs .and why he throws everything right or wrong back in my face and what can i do to just keep peace at home with our kids and i .and another thing i love ... (128 words)

We had sex and he's not interested now, what do I do?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya I need help im madly in love with someone, I have been for years but there not interested anymore and im quite certain about it. I cant move on we are really close. These feelings arnt going away. He didnt want anything to do with me after being sexual with me. Which was ... (71 words)

My ex broke up with me 3 months ago, now is really keen to meet up, what's going on?

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I asking for trouble meeting up with my ex? We were together a year, lived together etc. Out of the blue, he broke up with me (though looking back things were strained)...But a week before that he told me he was thinking of proposing. So 3 months on, we're back in contac... (127 words)

I've tried everything I can think of and he still won't go down on me

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9 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. I really love him and I do see myself staying with him. However, we've had one problem that I'm at my wits end about how to deal with. When we first started dating, he said he loved to go down on girls. I do remember him ... (286 words)

My girlfriend wants to watch my brother and I masturbate each other...

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9 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey people i need adive because i told my girlfriend that i sometimes masterbate with my brother, and now she wants to see me and my brother masterbate each other, thats kinda weird to do it in front of her but she said she would give me oral sex if we did it. im confused, what ... (90 words)