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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy recently and after talking for ages my friend invited him back with me. I was a bit nervous and did explain before we left that nothing was to be expected. We dropped my friend home and him and I sat till light talking and kissing. Well we did end up having sex that night and in the morning but now Im so annoyed with myself cause he took my number but I havnt heard from him and its been four days. I feel liked Ive totally messed things up and Im a bit depressed as I would have really liked to see him again.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 Hi,
I always say to girls in these situations to count yourself lucky. Would you want a relationship with a man who has such antiquated views of women?
Sadly for a lot of men if you have sex with them on the first date then they think you are easy. But that's their problem not yours, put it down to experience and in future if you really like someone don't sleep with them until a friendship develops.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): So you had sex with the guy it's not like your in love with him. Don't be upset or depressed.Do not call him ethier let him think it did not bother you.Don't let him think he used you let him think you used him.It is possible that he could call you after a couple more days but after a week I would say oh just forget it. Look on the bright side you got a little action but maybe next time you should not surrender yourself so easy if your going to be this upset about it. Have men work for it honey your worth it.Move on to the next and stay confident.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Lesson: Never sleep with a guy who you are not dating. "my friend invited him back with me" sounds a bit like you want to evade responsibility for having this guy over in the first place. Don't fret about it though. Just learn and move on.
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