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writes:i feel like such a loser.i had an amazing party for my 18th and invited lots of my friends, so afterwards we planned to have an afterparty at a house thats about 5 minutes away my mum was fine with it because it was after the party, but then the boy couldn't have it. later on in the week a few days before the party a girl who is really pretty and gets so much attention becuase she is pretty decides to have the after party except its not an afterparty she said they all ahve to leave at 10 when the party ends at 12 and she plans to take a few friends from MY party with her, so they were all arranging it and deciding how they were going to get there as she lives an hour away. my mum went mental when she heard saying that she is stealing people from the party and its rude, i agreed with her and even a few people from school agreed with me, but she didnt seem to realise. in the end she didnt have the party becuase her parents decided not to go away. but now she is having another party in her house only i've heard about it through a friend because the girl who is having the party who i invited to mine hasnt invited me. she probably hasn't done it on purpose its just selfish. i dont know maybe im being sensitive.please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, natasia +, writes (26 March 2008):
 You're not a loser at all - what makes you think that? She's just manipulative and not very nice. People at school who are very (physically) attractive can be like that. Don't worry - if she goes on treating people like she's treating you, people will eventually dislike her. Your mum was right - it was mean and sneaky of her to try to take over your party. I'm glad it didn't happen.
Forget about her and her silly party - she's trying to make a point by not inviting you. It is mean, but just ignore it. She's not worth it. And it sounds like you've got lots of good friends. Stick with them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): NO your not the loser she is and she is not really a friend to you so dont worry about her let her have her party and dont give her another thought you have your own friends keep them close to you and forget about her
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 Don't worry about it.
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