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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I continue to pursue something with her even though I'm skeptical of her cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl I have been hanging out with has had a boyfriend for the past few months. She has been hanging out with many guys, only which she slept with one, and she was heavily intoxicated and doesn't remember much. We've gotten to know each other pretty well and she says she ... (189 words)

Unique appearance vs. Attracting women

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

14 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Unique appearance vs. Attracting women. Is this why I can't get a girlfriend? Hi. Most of you by now will have seen my avatar. I have an afro. I like my hair. I feel like it adds more to my character. Unfortunately, I don't feel attractive anymore. Before I had a girlfrie... (247 words)

Feeling broken... but I'm only 14.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am only 14, but I just got out of a "thing/relationship" that lasted nine months (that's a long time for a middle school relationship) on and off, and was very complicated. We got involved back in the summer (2007), and during the summer break, I found out from my parents ... (413 words)

35 and single, what do I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 35 and not married. I feel like Bridget Jones. I'm tall, slim, attractive with blond hair and intelligent - have an amazing job, well paid and lots of friends. I have no idea what the secret to finding a man and having a long lasting relationship is...I date lots of men, ... (205 words)

Are boys more mature in their 20's and are they commited or are they just like boys of 17 and 18?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I find myself attracted to men in their 20's mainly 21 and 22 year olds, I'm 18... do I stand a chance. I feel they are more mature than boys my age, boys my age are just interested in shagging the fittest girl in the year, are they more mature in their 20's and are they ... (76 words)

Mixed signals from a man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I recently met this guy, a model/actor at a party. At the time I was seeing someone else so didn't really pay much attention to him. He started texting me and I thought he was a bit of a jerk. Then something happened, I'm not sure, but I started to like him and one night he... (457 words)

She wants to have a break but I don't know how to play this...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (M) - Hey guy's... I've been with my partner for 10 months and after a hard morning texting her we decided to meet after work and talk about things as the past 4 or 5 weeks have been tough, we've argued quite a lot, she's been changing her job as she's been temping etc etc etc... ... (308 words)

Is it possible for a man to fall in love with the woman he loses his virginity to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can men fall in love with the woman they lose their vigrinity to? I've seen it happen with women at a young age, my boyfriend was a virgin and after we started having sex he completely changed and started saying i love you and buying me things. He's attached to my hip and gets ... (67 words)

Is a younger man taboo?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age - I met my son-in-laws brother a year ago, he is 16 years younger than me, he is the most intelligent, loving, amazing man I have ever met, he said age is nothing but a number, and just because my daughter and his brother are married does not make he and I related. We truly love ... (96 words)

I found out about their relationship checking my boyfriends emails and I was devastated! Can I still trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 19 years old and I have been in a relationship with my first boyfriend for 15 months. My boyfriend and I broke up during the summer and at this time he started talking to one of their family friends and they set plans together for the future but their relationship didn't ... (668 words)

I feel like I'm going to be a virgin forever and if I do have sex, he'll just laugh at me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 a female, i feel im going to be a virgin for ages, i dont want to get to 20 and still be a virgin, although i do value being a virgin but im just frightened i will be one for a long time and when i finally do have sex the bloke will laugh at me!... (58 words)

What are the signs for me to know she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm friends with this girl I met her through a friend. I really like her we talk and have a laugh... But I don't know if she feels the same way so I don't want to ask her out and lose him as a friend.... she 1 year younger than me... Please help me... I really fancy her are ... (71 words)

I am still in love with them but I can never say it cos I don't want us to fall out completely and because it all started as a secret relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a secret relationship (for various reasons) with my best friend for about 6 months solidly, then on and off for another year or so. This was 5 years ago now. We've fallen out (as friends) because of it but we have never talked about it after it all ended. We are still ... (164 words)

We're sleeping together but he won't kiss me!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hey everyone. I am seeing this guy and although we are having a sexual relationship he will not kiss me! I don't have bad breath he just says it does nothing for him which I think is a little selfish as I love it! this bothers me. Is there anyone out there who doesn't like to ... (68 words)

Need help, what should I do????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I need advise about my boyfriend again. Well if you answered my other question you would of known. I finshed my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago, then got back with him again a week ago. When we first went out we didnt go farer than a kiss,I would never do sex at my age but anyw... (128 words)

Tips on how to tell if boys and girls are flirting with you.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6125 days ago

14 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, quite camp to be honest. I'm bi-sexual, but only a few of my mates know that. Im having some trouble getting into relationships with people! i really would like to know whether its me, or am i just not finding the right people! people say things to me, but im guessing i ... (140 words)

A Will, or Marriage--or BOTH?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age - I am living with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. We are in our forties; both divorced, no little ones to deal with... footloose and fancy free. I would like commitment; however, he's got cold feet. I feel at our age and no worries of having kids and knowing that one... (159 words)

Sexual orientated texts from a married woman

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

14 March 2008 (M)

- Would you consider it appropriate for a married woman to send text messages that have a sexual theme to a single man? There's a woman at my workplace who I foolishly gave my number to so she could send me, at the time, an innocent media message. Now she sends me jokes on a ... (102 words)

Was it a miscarriage or just because of the mini-pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of months ago I missed a period for two months, then the middle of the second I started bleeding, lightly at first and then after that like a proper period. I'm on Cerazette (a Mini-Pill) and am using condoms but they broke quite a few times. I kinda felt like I was ... (98 words)

My boyfriend's best friend is female and we don't get along.. help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, and we've lived together for 2. We met in college, and his best friend whom he spent almost every day in college with is a female. I was actually sort of friends with her at first, but as soon as him and I got together, she ... (234 words)

I really like this guy but don't know if he feels the same way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm friends with my friend's brother... We both play in the school orchestra/jazz band. I really like him we talk and have a laugh... But I don't know if he feels the same way so I don't want to ask him out and lose him as a friend.... He's 1 year older than me... Please help ... (62 words)

How can I marry someone and have the thought that my wife has slept with someone else and I haven't?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

14 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I dated a girl for about 4 months. We fell in love quickly. We always saw each other before our relationship. She's my best friend's sister and is a year and a half older than me. We took each others virginity. We broke up because of some fighting that had taken place ... (265 words)

I feel I'm being persecuted by him and I haven't done anything wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend about six months, sometimes his behaviour has been erratic and we split up just before christmas when he told me I was crowding him. He later apologised for this and said it wasn't true, he was just feeling under pressure at the time and stru... (398 words)

What is "dirty sex" and what do you have to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend suggested on the phone this morning that we should have dirty sex as it's fun, I said why, trying to find answers about what it is, WHAT IS DIRTY SEX AND WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO DO?... (40 words)

He says he loves me but would never marry me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, we have 4 kids together and he has been married before and engaged before. The other day I was talking to him and he said that he would never marry me. So I got very angry I am not talking to him and asked him to leave. I did ... (146 words)

How do I get past negative feelings to bring those butterflies back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (M) age 41-50 - My ex (24) broke it off with me (27) after 3 1/2 years together, mostly because we got stuck in a rut, and somewhere along the line I stopped doing things that made her get those butterflies and feel special (as can happen in any long relationship). I gave her her space, b... (226 words)

I need some advice about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend who I still love and well am still in love with, I can't stop thinking bout him. He recently was with this girl who he claimed HE was in love with but yet he was still sleeping with me at this time. I think we slept together almost every day they were together. ... (157 words)

Any suggestions what I can get my boyfriend for his birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's birthday is coming up. Can anyone give any good and different suggestions? He doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, going out for like a meal or nights away is hard we both work nights and hardly have time together. Can any one give any good suggestions?... (54 words)

Sometimes I feel he was on the rebound for me as my last relationship failed badly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy 9 months back. I didn't like him that time but slowly started liking him. He always said he loved me, did beautiful things for me which no one ever did. Dunno when I started liking him. Now he behaves differently. He doesn't care for me as much as he did before. ... (148 words)

My girls mate, looks after her more than I do! Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This isnt a real big problem but i would like to kno other peoples advice on it. ok well my girlfriend has this guy friend they have known eachother for years. no problem there right. well i found out that he has had the biggest crush on her all the years they been friends and ... (291 words)

Is she telling the truth, I don't know what to think!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend has been cheating on me with a coworker. the coworker emailed me about it and told me so. i asked her and she denied it saying that she and the coworker didnt get along so the email was the coworkers way of fucking with her life. i emailed the coworker back and he ... (143 words)

How can I still go away with him, but not have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, iam back with another small prob. me and my boyfriend have only been going out for 3 monhs now and we mess around and all that. he wants me to come to his friends house in the country, its a pretty big house and there having some sort of wedding party for another friend. ... (178 words)

First he want's me to move in, then he changes his mind.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Im 43 and I have been dating a guy of 40 for the last 4 moths. We have both been through painful divorces and we got close very quickly. He said he thought I was an amazing person and he was happy with me. He said in the near future he would like me to move in with him and I ... (228 words)

I cant stop thinking of him! Am I going crazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i spent the night over my friends house for 2 weekends straight.a lot of dudes came over one was cute, but i ended up having sex with one of them we only did it 5 times together,he was the best sex i have ever had! he really likes me but i think about him every second and even ... (97 words)

Obligation to disclose your relationship status?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am in a bit of a dilemma. I moved to a new town a couple of months. It's a beautiful old romantic town. I came here to start working at this company. I moved across an ocean to get here. I didn't have any intention of dating anyone at work, at least at first. ... (493 words)

I feel as though I am virgin again, having a new partner. Any advice? Anyone ever felt this way before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F) - I've only have had one sex partner and we're not togather anymore. I'm in a relationship now and it's becoming sexual but i'm nervous to have sex with him. He says it's always the first time with someone new. I feel like i'm starting out as a virgin again but i'm not. I'm not ... (74 words)

Any tips on how to overcome my shyness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

- My ex bf broke up with me because his friends didnt like me. They thought I was weird because I am quiet/shy and dont drink. Whenever I would go out with him and his mates and I wouldnt say much, as soon as they would leave he would start yelling and abusing me. I am goin... (217 words)

Why am I nervous about having sex with an older guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F) - Have you ever been scared to have sex with someone who is alot older then you? Especially ten year diff. I cant figure out why im nervous to and im not a virgin but iv never had sex with someone who was older then me. Im 22. ... (47 words)

He looks at porn - does this mean he doesn't love me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my partner has a addiction to looking at porn magazines and acts on them masterbates over them i was just wondering how much of a percentage of partners do this is it that theyre not happy with there sex life and partner i dont know how to think he tells me he loves me but ... (63 words)

Is he just being friendly or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - there is a man in a shop i go in he is georgous and we have started talking . and he always smiles and says hello and when we talk he looks me straight in the eyes does he fancy me or do you think he is just being friendly... (51 words)

Can men fall in love with the woman they lose their virginity to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can men fall in love with the woman they lose their vigrinity to? I've seen it happen with women at a young age, my boyfriend was a virgin and after we started having sex he completely changed and dropped the i love you's two months later. ... (46 words)

He says he needs time to think if we are compatible, how much time am I to wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend (of a little more than a year) and I recently had a small spat, but it seems to be a culmination of little unhappinesses lately. He says he needs time to think about whether we are compatible. I'm giving him that time, but at the same time I'm worried about what he ... (104 words)

Is it selfish to expect this from a close friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's the scenario: Before my friend Vicky's birthday, she went clubbing with my ex and one of my ex's friends. My ex and I had a really bad break up and she knew that he hurt me pretty bad by cheating on me. Anyways, she invited him thinking that he would say no, knowing that ... (105 words)

I am very "turned on" by my wife with another man, is this crazy?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

14 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a little embarrassing, but have been wanting to ask someone about this for some time, but have never had the guts to ask any of my friends. My wife and I have a good friend (David). We've been friends with him for about 4 years. The 3 of us hang out a lot and he's ... (320 words)

Stressed about raising money to organise the wedding...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and half, I have been living in the States and working illegally as I am Canadian, we have talked to a lawyer re. getting married, but have to raise $10,000 dollars for all to be legal. We don't have that kind of money right now, and I ... (124 words)

Can you fall pregnant by intercourse while on your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can you fall pregnant when you have intercourse while you have your periods?... (13 words)

How much weight could I lose between now and Easter?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Similar question was asked earlier, but... I'm around 5' 5" and weigh 116. I really would like to lose weight by Easter, because I'm fat. I'm restricting my food again because I lost a lot of weight when I did this last summer and fall. Unfortunately, I gained most of i... (80 words)

Very attracted to my cousin, should I act on it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

14 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i really like my cousin she and i are both 15 and i think she really likes me also. i desperately wanna kiss her make out and all that stuff because shes got nice boobs nice posterior hot body unbelievable attractive face. what should i do, i just really like her! ... (52 words)

I know for a fact he wasn't cheating so where did this girl come from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this guy were together over a year and we had a great relationship, everyone thought that we were going to get married and well i thought that we were too. The only problem is that he dropped out of highschool and he didn't have a drivers license (he's almost 21) I ... (244 words)

Is he too perfect for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I love him, he's too perfect for me, but I can and will exist without him. I met him two years ago, he knocked me off my feet then left to go overseas. After a month of intoxicating deep emails, i visited him overseas. When we were face to face, he said he loved... (197 words)

Please tell me how can I get through this heartache?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm quite young, actually, and I do think I'm too young to experience actual love. But, I've been suffering through unrequited love for 3 years. It seemed great to have a friend who I had this feeling about. But I guess I was too late, and something changed. He hardly talks ... (124 words)

Ex made video on youtube saying I have emotional problems! Now he's saying he still loves me, what does all this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F) - My stupid ex had a youtube video made about us about 6 months ago and for the comments he put things like how i had emotional problems and that's why we're not together. Truthfully, though, I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive. Anyway, I have changed my ... (157 words)

Caught my ex cheating with the same girlfriend and now he won't talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and i have been broken up now for about 6 months, he now has a girlfriend...i caught him cheating with this same girlfriend...he treated my disrespectfully and not a way a woman should be treated, but somehow i still think about him all the time.i also have moments where ... (106 words)

After 24 years of marriage, my husband says he still loves his ex and has filed for divorce!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married 24 years and my husband just told me a month ago that he is still in love with his old girlfriend before me. He told me that he has never stopped loving her and that he doesn't love me the same way, never has. We have 2 grown daughters. He asked me for a ... (88 words)

Each time I shower, I shave my legs and "down there" but it still feels prickly! Need some suggestions!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a bit of a problem. Each time I shower, I shave my legs and "down there" with warm water, shaving cream, all the things you are supposed to do. My legs are always silky smooth, but it seems no matter how much I try, it still feels "prickly" in my pubic area. I have ... (133 words)

I feel like a slave but he doesn't hit me too hard so maybe he will be better after we have children...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband comes from a family where the men are always in charge. He was very nice to me when we were dating and after we got married he changed like he thinks he is my master. I feel like a slave sometimes and if I don't do what I am supposed to he yells and curses at me and ... (100 words)

How do I stay strong when I feel like he messed up my life and no one knows the real him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

14 March 2008 (F) - I was keeping the message in my inbox on myspace from my ex in case i would ever need to report him for stalking, and today i noticed he changed his profile picture to one with 2 girls kissing him. So, stupidly I checked out his page and in almost all the pictures girls ar... (273 words)

I feel like my dad doesn't approve of anything in my life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im sixteen and i need some advice. I want to be an architect but my dad keeps saying that job doesnt pay well for women and idk what to do. Thats something i really want to do, i just feel like my dad doesnt approve of any part of my life, he doesnt like my boyfriend,ANY of ... (73 words)

My husband is having extra-marital affairs with younger women and I am pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - We have been married for seven years and my husband is having an extra-marital affairs for six years with another young women with two illegitimate children. With me, we have 3 children and i am pregnant now. What should i do ?... (42 words)

I'm confused with what he wants with me....should I tell him I missed him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6127 days ago

14 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, So this kid who i had a thing with for a little while, we ended things like last month and we ended off really bad. He said he doesnt want to be my freind or anything. Starting two weeks ago i guess he decided to be mature and talk to me (being my freind) it was v... (253 words)