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writes:My boyfriend ran into an old friend not to long ago and I asked his friend about her, apparently they had dated and he was obsessed with her. He's been acting weird and giving her things, fighting over her with his friend jokingly (Who had dated her too)"I told her this first" "She likes me more" type of stuff. Doing things like waiting for her, things he's never done with me. He talks about her with me 24/7 and tells me shes jealous of me. I talked to him about this "Obsession" and he admitted to it but he said he loves me and not to worry because "She said she wouldn't date him" last time he asked her to come back. I'm wondering if I should worry about this, I don't want to be hurt. Is there a chance he will actually cheat?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): I don't know if there is a chance he will cheat. I'd probably be more worried of him flat out leaving me for her than I would of cheating. It sounds like he definitely still has a crush on this girl. Its up to you if you want to worry about it or not. I'll tell you that for me, if I had a boyfriend who talked about another girl that he was obsessed with 24/7, jokingly "fought" over her with his friend RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU, just that alone (not to mention all the other things) would be enough for me never to answer another one of his calls again. You deserve WAY better. What he is doing is unacceptable and completely callous. But like I said its up to you if you want to tolerate it or not. I wouldn't tolerate it for a second.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Hi HunnyHe would be stupid, Has he gone all smiley and giggly since she came back? Its because both him and his mate had a crush on her..He told you she was jealous of you, If she didnt wish to go out with him then why would she be jealous of you hunny..He may wish she were jealous of you! But I think she maybe acting like she is jealous of you as she knows how much of a crush he had on her, And even though she wasnt interested in going out with him any longer, She had his full attention and they dated for awhile, she wasnt in to him, just maybe into the high interest he payed her and if he was obsessed then coming back and bumping into him again well she is lapping it up I suppose...I wouldnt worry he said he loves you, You can only carry on as normal and hopefully he will pop your mind at rest..not just say she wouldnt go out with him last time he asked, That is not really putting your mind at rest...If you are really worried and this none stop talking about her carrys on just ask him to explain as if this were you going on about an old b/f and acting all gooey Im sure he wouldnt like it abit love...PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOU IF YOU NEED A CHAT IM HERE MESSAGE ME TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE N SQUISHY HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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