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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Smitten with the Bartender...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Last night, Sunday, I went on a bruiser of a first date and ended up hitting it off with the bartender much more so than my date. The joint was almost empty so we were all able to make good conversation about music, movies, books, school, the works. Needless to say,we even ... (155 words)

I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here goes, I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?... (35 words)

My ex is taking my children on holiday at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My children are about to go on hoildays with their father and his new wife. They live on the other side of the country and at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number. There is no formal custody orders in place. The children have ... (92 words)

Newlywed's husband addicted to porn!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have only been married a few months now and have recently discovered that my husband is, what I call, addicted to porn. I didn't really bother me at first and he didn't know that I knew what he was doing. But as time has passed it seems he is A LOT more interested in the ... (175 words)

Still in love and can't understand why...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have not been in a relationship for over a year now, however, I am still in love and I don't see this changing. I've tried everything--seeing new people, being friends with my love, completely avoiding him, envolving myself in my passions--and it is to no avail. I do not ... (246 words)

I love being with him but not with the kids anymore? How can I make him see how his really bad parenting is affecting everyone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf and I have been together 3 years - he has two daughters who are 10 and 12 - I have kids that are a bit older - His girls are just totally obnoxious! He has asked me to help all along with them and they love me and I have tried to teach them manners and tried to instill ... (205 words)

I need love so bad and can't get any hardly ever from my wife...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age - I need love so bad and can't get any hardly ever. I don't look bad 210 and 5 11, a small gut but oh well. What is a man to do to get some sex back in his life? I have tried a lot of things with my wife, but nothing really changes, everything is just boring. Why do some wome... (78 words)

How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes already over it and that i have ... (185 words)

I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying. He just left her one day and never spoke to her until yesterday. She never knew why he left her but now she knows it was because he's sick. He has a heart ... (413 words)

Why won't he reply to my texts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I like and he likes me too. A couple days ago we exchanged phone numbers. Now he wont even text me. The first day I texted him and he replied. The next day I texted him and he never replied.... But I don't get why he has not called or even texted me.... (58 words)

What should I do? Just be his friend with no benefits, leave him alone...? What?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been hooking up with this guy for the past 7 years on and off. Last year I found out he had a kid. I did the math that sas in one of our 'on' moments. I still love him but it hurts still after all this time. Help! What should I do? Just be his friend with no benefits, ... (65 words)

If I break up with my girlfriend I'm afraid I will have no one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend that I love. We have our good and bad times. We go to school and do everything together but now I think I should see other people because I'm not sure if she makes me happy as much as I make her happy. If I break up with her I'm afraid I will have no one... (107 words)

Can you be depressed at 14?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I havn't really had it easy when i was younger, but not exactly hard, the thing is, i always seem to be down, i barely eat or sleep[not purposly], i don't have any best friends, as we've all have our ups and downs, so we've all drifted apart, i have no look what so ever when it ... (228 words)

Has anybody had lazer hair removal or epil-pro hair removal and if so, is it any good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, Has anybody had lazer hair removal or epil-pro hair removal and if so, is it any good? Can you notice the difference?... How long do you have to wait to see any difference and any side effects? :) lots of questions.. please help xxx krissie... (52 words)

Am I really in love with someone else, or am I just looking for someone to fill the void within my present realtionship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with two great men. I am amazed to see the amount of people who are in a similar situation. I feel a little silly posting my issue like some personal ad but I really have no where else to turn. I have been in a relationship with my present boyfriend for about 4 ... (337 words)

My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. Questioning her why she left him for another guy? We have been engaged for about a month now and I am expecting his baby in May. Should I stay with him or leave before he hurts me more?... (48 words)

Why isn't he texting me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this lad have been texting each other loads lately, almost everyday and sometimes even until the early hours of the morning! We've flirted loads and told each other private things. We've even talked about sex and things but he hasn't text me now for almost a week and ... (80 words)

Genuine teacher/student problem - urgent advice needed!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, genuinely want advice here guys! Ok, Im 16 and doing my 'A' levels at my school sixth form. There is this one teacher I get along very well with, and im not sure what's happening with us. He is married with children He is genuinely, i believe, emotionally confused at... (926 words)

I hate his ex and myself.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Here it goes. My SO and I have been together for just over a year now. We get along great except for a few details. He never tells me that I'm beautiful, but he has told me about how beautiful his ex-wife is and about how much of a freak she was and how great in bed she was. At ... (446 words)

Opinions on my boyfriend and I's age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and he's 27. When we are together, age is not an issue. We have a heck of a lot in common, and we are each very dedicated to making our relationship work. I will be telling my Mum about us soon, but before I do, I'd really appreciate your opinions on the age differe... (77 words)

He texts her and says it's to make me mad. Do you think this is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend for over 4 years have been texting a female from our kid's daycare. I know her she was one of my kid's teachers. A while ago I read his text message to her saying I want to be your man and I wish that baby inside was mines because at the time she was pregnant... (135 words)

I'm scared of telling him how I feel, which is strange as I'm always so open and honest. Can anyone suggest how I should handle it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

- Hi, I dated this boy, for a year about a year ago. I ended rather unfairly; and hurt him quite badly. we were both 17 at the time. A year on, I've grown up a lot and am far more mature than I was then, I have suddenly realised that I may have made a mistake in ending it. ... (245 words)

He wants to marry me but I want to wait... Opinions please, what would YOU do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

- Me and my boyfriend just got back together because I was missing him, we been together for two years. I know he loves me but when he drinks (which is like once a month) he don't know how to handle his self so I have to make him leave my house because he'll be wanting to fight ... (129 words)

Is she just scared to leave her boyfriend because they live together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have really liked this girl since she started a year ago but problem is she has a boyfriend of 5 years! Everyone knows that she is not happy and recently at a work function we somehow got together, this was great and she said that she felt the same way about me too. However I ... (76 words)

If I didn't have this scar, I'd be a different person! What can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a very big problem. I have a boyfriend who loves me infact more than I love him. We've been together a long time infact I'm presently living with him but the problem is that I have a scar on my left leg. Hot water poured on me when I was about 3yrs and it has been ... (166 words)

Had my period twice in 2 weeks...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had my period on Sunday and ended on Wednesday which is normal for me the the following week i started my period on Sunday and it still going on and its Monday now but this means i am having my period twice in two weeks what does that mean? the day before Sunday when i ... (75 words)

Should I ask my boyfriend of 4 months to marry me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really love my boyfriend so much, we've been together for 4 months and i want to marry him, i dont know what to do about it, shall i ask him to marry me or shall i wait for him to ask me, or has it not been long enough for me to ask him yet?... (56 words)

A question about medical school, can anyone help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I finished my 12th this year and I am planning on entering the medical school.. but I am confused between mbbs(doctor)or bds(dentist).. so please tell me the pros and cons thank you!!!... (32 words)

Should I be her friend? She broke my heart...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So I recently split up with my girlfriend. Ths split was mutual..i guess.? We had been going out for over a year and a half and the realtionship was a long distance one. We were great together, everything was perfect. We would see each other every 2-3 weeks, a month away at the ... (781 words)

My best friend (who is 14) has started smoking????? help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well...... my friend smokes. Not a pack a day but every time she is depressed or she is in trouble she heads for the ciggarette. I don't know what to do. She doesn't understand that the only reason I'm nagging her is because I loe her as a friend and I don't want to see her ... (175 words)

I don't know how to trust him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 6 months now, we're best mates and in love and can't imagine life without each other. However I can't trust him, I'm suspicious he might go off with someone else all the time so I read his messages and check where he is and I... (129 words)

I am single I'm finding it really hard to be in a relationship with someone close to home, I can't seem to get used to it as I was so used to all the space I got in the previous relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently finished with a boy I had been seeing for a year, we had been in a long distance relationship and we had been getting through it okay. But now that I am single I'm finding it really hard to be in a relationship with someone close to home, I can't seem to get used to ... (82 words)

I fancy my friend, but my best friend is in love with him.

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I fancy my friend, but my best friend is in love with him. What do I do. I can't just go after him and do that to her. If she only fancied him I wouldn't have minded but she is really in love with him. What do I do - leave it or go after him?... (57 words)

How can I get talking to him again without seeming too flirty and desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I met this real charming guy, he seems like a nice guy and I want to know him better, when he tries talking to me I kinda avoid him, I don't know why I do that.. now he has stopped trying, how can I get talking to this guy again without seeming too flirty and ... (57 words)

How can I remove this unwanted body hair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is embarrassing but I need some tips! well I suffer with excess body hair, which I think makes me ugly, and I hate it so much! The excess I really really really want to remove is on the back of my legs and my bum - what is the best way to do this? Shaving takes ... (93 words)

Is age REALLY a problem???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is 15 and I'm 23, is this perfectly okay (although we have said no 2 sex until she is old enough) we are both very much in love she means the world to me. ... (36 words)

Is he hiding something from me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

- Hello all... I will try to keep this short... :) I have been seeing this man from NZ for over a year now, and things have been great, we spent 9 days together and everything was amazing.. Anyways I recently got an invitation to a website called "tagged" and I joined bec... (384 words)

How can I flirt, I know about smiling but nothing else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I flirt, I know about smiling but nothing else. I am in a wheelchair so I can't stand up and lie on guys or sit on their knee. I am very shy so this can help a guy know I like them, cause I am too shy 2 say it. How else can I flirt?... (63 words)

When he says he loves me I just think he wants sex with me. I just don't believe in love anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've married my husband for 22 years and he treats me like dirt in the recent years and says he never loved me. I was hurt then divorced him. I met this man 18 years my senior who treats me very nice and always says he loves me. I can't believe it is real cuz I've been ... (95 words)

I'd like to know if there's any other way of pleasuring myself without using toys.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. I need help. I masterbate quite a lot, but I'm getting bored of using my fingers. I recently rubbed myself against a teddy and it felt really good but I'd like to know if there's any other way of pleasuring myself without using toys. thanks.... (51 words)

Is telling someone the only way to go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have very deep feelings of affection for a teacher of mine and it's slowly killing me inside - I've already posted a question on this and everyone said to tell someone, but I tried to today and got too scared and couldn't speak. Is there any other way I can forget about him? ... (71 words)

Over the past few months I've been feeling as if there's nothing there anymore. As if we've just settled into a routine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship that's just hit the 3 year mark, even though I'm only 17. We also live together with my dad and older brother. However over the past few months I've been feeling as if there's nothing there anymore. As if we've just settled into a routine. I like to ... (174 words)

Does he love me or just not good with expressing his feeling...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My name is Joy11 and I'm 26 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. He seldom tells me he loves me and I'm currently expecting his child and we're both very happy. Does he love me or just not good with expressing his feeling sometimes it rea... (64 words)

Do you think I am right in saying that I refuse to leave his house just because of his daughter having to entertain her aunt and uncle at my boyfriend's house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend's sister and husband are coming into town on the way back home. They want to see my boyfriend's daughter's new twins recently born. She lives in a very small cluttered house and she wants to entertain them at my boyfriend's home. I happen to live with him and ... (285 words)

I am female and I have really hairy arms and have 3 tatoos... specifically male opinions please.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Hey all, I would like to know the opinions of the males out there if I could please? My question is on the appearance side of things. I have really hairy arms (black hair), what do you guys think of this? I have just waxed them because I am sooo embarrassed about them and I ... (204 words)

Friend and boyfriend problems... help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ok so my problems quite a big one and its got lots of different things in one, so please carry on reading thanks! I'll start with me and my boyfriend. He means the world to me I love him to bits. The thing is I know I'm too young so please don't just keep remindin... (484 words)

I'm torn between two guys and I don't know what to do, it's getting so messy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my problem is that I'm torn between two guys and I don't know what to do, it's getting so messy. One is my ex (we broke up a year ago) and another is a guy from the same place as us. We are all living in the same small town and they know each other well: they play soccer ... (274 words)

I'm in love with my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this gorgeous boyfriend who loves me and adores me and would do anything for me the only problem is I'm still in love with my ex (who now got back with his ex) I don't want to hurt my boyfriend because he is such a sweet guy... but for the last 6 months I still haven't ... (131 words)

Is there more going on with his work colleague than meets the eye?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently, I have snooped through my husband's cellphone (since I have been suspicious of his odd behaviour which leads us to fighting) and noticed a few text messages that he kept in his trash box but forgot to delete from his female co-worker. One of the texts said from her ... (249 words)

My ex and I are about to go to court over his access to our son.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I are about to go to court over his access to our son. He has previously had weekday and weekend contact including stay overs but our relationship has deteriorated to such an extent that I don't want to see him anymore. This is obviously going to cause problems f... (127 words)

Should I sleep with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so my problem is with my mate, who is a boy. We've known each other for around 18 months and we really do get on well. Recently we've been flirting, texting each other loads, now we've got on to discussing sex. He wants us sleep together even though we're not in a ... (158 words)

He's been so good to me since my boyfriend died and I've fallen head over heels for him, should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend died last August when I was 3 months pregnant and since I was 5 months pregnant I have been living with his best friend. He has been doing everything that my boyfriend should have been doing like coming to scans with me, decorating the nursery, night feeds and ... (128 words)

Opinions wanted on dating... Do you let him pay or go dutch?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Opinions wanted on dating. If you meet someone and they want to go out evenings for instance, do you let them pay, do you go dutch and take it in turns to buy the drinks, do you go halves on the dinner? If you have a night in and they want a take away, do you pay half? What abo... (98 words)

I'd move in his city in order for him to preserve his job but he is not ready for marriage yet, should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am been in a 7 year relationship,separated by distance for 3years up to now, Our careers are both doing very well in each city, He has recently been interviewed for a position in my city but this job is a junior role compared to the position that he has also been intervie... (101 words)

Perhaps losing contact with my EX would be a bad thing after all, after I already demanded it and had it realised? Any perspectives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I asked this question recently, but I received only one answer, when I'd hoped for more: Contact with my ex appears to be cut, as I wanted... But now I'm having doubts that I'm doing the right thing. What do you think? If you don't know of mine and my ex's history, he... (379 words)

I feel trapped by holding on to what could have been / might be in my troubled marriage, should I let go of it or give my hubby a fresh start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 35 and have been married nearly 15 years. I realise now that I married too young as my relationship was immature and I had not had time to develop my own interests and friends. Our marriage didn't start well (sexually) and was often awkward. My husand didn't show much... (545 words)

I'm worried I may be pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 years old and have been on the pill for a number of years. Recently i came off the pill and had the implant inserted. I'm really worried because i havent had a period for a number of months. Could i be pregnant?... (45 words)

How to be able to keep the conversations interesting so that the other person remains with a good impression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i need some advice on topics to talk about with someone special?to keep the conversation alive and keep the other person interested and to leave a impression that would make the other person coming back for more..please help... (38 words)

I offered him oral on our third date, after that he did not utter a word to me! Your opinions about his change in behaviour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi...I've met a guy..we've been out three times... I gave him oral(my first)...and after he came he was all weird. he didn't say a word to me. He just took me home without kissing me godbye. This happened three days ago and I haven't heard from him since then. He f_____ m... (60 words)

Why do I always fall in love with someone I can't have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i would like to knom....why do i always fall inlove with someone that i can't be with???i would also like to know why do i fall inlove with anothers guys' girl???i tell myself that i'm not gonna text or call this person or get too attached but always end up doing it!!!!!and to ... (71 words)

For 3 weeks he stopped pressuring me abut sex... then he suddenly broke up with me. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

- I need some reassurance that the breakup of my relationship with my bf was a good thing because I feel so sad about it. I really did like him a lot and generally he treated me very well, was like such a gentleman- he would always open doors for me, pull my chair out, was a... (353 words)

I'm scared that history will repeat itself (my previous partner has cheated with my best friend!) What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody. About 8 years ago i split up with my long term partner after finding out he was seeing my best mate. Over the following years I have found I cannot trust men. I have been with my current partner for 6 months and I love this man so much and he loves me to. ... (184 words)

Worried about contraceptive pills' effectiveness after the recommended break!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been on the pill now for about a year and i did start taking it again for about 3 weeks after my break, i am experiencing breast tenderness, a bit of nausea and period like cramps, what could this mean, help?... (43 words)

I am marginalised in my class, addressed nasty comments and I don't know how to handle it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi right i've got a problem with people on my course. We all used to get on great especially me and the ones i'd only just met on that course-theres some there from school too. But suddenly like a few months ago they started just generally being nasty to me and making me feel ... (413 words)

In love with 2 girls, one is committed and the other has a child, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm in a situation!i'm inlove with two girls and i don't know what to do.the one girl is in a relationship with someone but she tells me she loves me and i must be patient.the other girl is single!she has a child but that doesn't bother me.she also tells me she loves me.my best ... (91 words)

I met an older man after my divorce, one year later the excitement has gone though and I'd rather be alone. Why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been living a separate life with my husband for 4 years. We've got two flats and we only see each other mostly at weekends. In the end I was fed up that he was refusing to live with me so I divorced him. I am craving for love and company. Right after my divorce I met ... (113 words)

My whole life was clouded by his behaviour. 20 years later, his apologies would be nice or should I make him literally pay for the damage done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

- Years ago when I was in my early twenties I had a relationship with a man which became emotionally disturbing. He worked abroad in quite extreme war-type situations. He was a charmer and extremely unfaithful. I used to get calls from girls, one of whom said her friend w... (464 words)

I mistakenly touched my private area after playing with his penis, what are the risks in this case?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend were together last night,, that is only kising, hugging and sort of things, i was playing with his penis and he was almost cumming on my hands, i mistakely placed my hand in my private part, is there any possiblity for me to get pregnant through this??? ... (73 words)

How can I avoid being so eager towards him, so ready to "fall in love" and experience all that goes with it?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts, I've got guy troubles again. It's nothing too serious, but I find I'm getting a little down about it. I've been sort of seeing this guy for about 2 months now. We go places together, hang out, and sometimes make out. Nothing is official and I don't really know... (179 words)

Although the relationship was very troublesome, I still feel like I love and want her, help!

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, my girlfriend of 3 and a half years broke up with me 5 weeks ago. We had our fair share of problems. She lied to me quite a bit, once about talking to her ex for a few hours, and then about little, meaningless things throughout the relationship. I lost trust in what she ... (362 words)

I have been told I look like a player because of the way I danced in the club!! Why such comment?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone i have what may seem like a silly question but feel really paranoid. i'm 33 married and have children. i'm always told that i look attractive and have a good figure which although is true i'm not a very confident person and wanted some advice. while i was in a club ... (99 words)

I cannot let this relationship go, but travelling to see him implies lying to my family that does not approve of it! Please advise.

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a mess. My family were very harsh to me about my boyfriend as they were against the relationship (I was separated from my husband) and they wanted me to go back and make the marriage work - made my life hell about it. My boyfriend has moved thousands of miles away now ... (256 words)

Getting pregnant through clothing material?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible to get pregnant through clothing material?... (9 words)

I constantly think that other people are better than me.

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31 March 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I have a problem, I think. I can't see myself as special. I only see myself as normal. I know I have a lot of good things about me. I do well at school, I have some artistic talent (in music, writing and drawing/painting), I enjoy good health, and even though I'm not stunning... (238 words)

I have a personal hygiene problem, can you help please?

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Asides washing what's another good way of getting rid of smegma (on a penis's head) Not to mention, how do you notice you still have smegma on your penis's? Is it always obvious to see or can it sometimes disguise itself as the penis head's skin?... (50 words)

How can I get over this bad feeling and enjoy the good moments with him?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The man i am dating works a lot of hours and he usually has little free time. Sometimes when he calls me i am stressed and i talk to him with a little indiference. Although i don't want this and i try to be warm, i think that it influences me that we don't spend a lot of time... (77 words)

My wife's sexual past....it's not the 'normal' jealous story!

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Have been married 7 years....happily. Wife mentioned in conversation 3 months ago about a threesome she had once. ( 20 years ago). I explained I don't want to know thing like that as it would do my head in. She mentioned it again. I went into great depth how it hurt. ( great... (263 words)

I had to kick my boyfriend out, he's still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me!

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you get over a bad breakup? Tonight I had to kick my boyfriend out after I found out he is still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me, see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-enough-to-love-someone-even-though.html But I'm in shock now. He made me fee... (150 words)

She keeps cheating on me, how can ever trust her?

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Community, I need advice. I have been dating my g/f for 9 months now. Through out the relationship a lot has happened. I am no longer able to conduct my thoughts in a proper manner. I constantly think she is seeing someone now. It all began in the beginning of the rel... (430 words)

Am I in her league, or just stuck in the "friend zone"...and how can I get this girl?

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, my question is about this girl who is absoluteley amazing in my mind, and I don't know if I'm in her league, or if I'm stuck in the "friend zone". I don't know if I'm in her league because she is beautiful, smart and funny, I think I might be in the friend zone beca... (123 words)

Why can’t I just let her go? WHY?!?!

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Why can’t I just let her go? That’s what I need to know. WHY?!? I enlisted in the army so I could have a good job, so her mother and father knew I had a good job. We had dated for four years, and on my 20th birthday she leaves me, before I was even out of training. I was... (385 words)

Is she using me as a rebound - in case her relationship with her current boyfriend doesn't work out?

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am an 18 year old male who was asked to a prom by a girl who does not go to my school. There was a period where we were quite interested in each other and talked often. However she stopped speaking with me and ignored my phone calls when she got back together with... (185 words)

What are the tell tale signs?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you tell if your soon to be husband is lying to you?... (14 words)

My ex is blowing hot and cold. I'm well confused!!

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, some male behaviour to decode here! My ex fiance and I cohabited for 2 years until we split, we fell out badly and didn't speak. We are now reconciled after 4 years of N/C. He did get in contact two years ago but it was brief, strained and we were still mad. ... (550 words)

My boyfriend is a work-a-holic, and I'm missing his attention!

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for almost three years. The first year and a half was great. The last year and a half has been some what of a struggle. My boyfriend is a work-a-holic. I miss him tremendously and miss the way that we used to be. I am also very lonely. Rece... (200 words)

4 years of performing 'wifely' duties, yet he's still not ready for marriage, what shall I do?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 10 years now. During the first stages of our relationship it was on again and off again. We had our problems but after a while decided to get serious and move in together. We have been living together for about 4 years now and I pe... (149 words)

I'm young and in love, and want it all!! Is that wrong?

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31 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm young and in love! It's wonderful, and I KNOW I love him .... But I've had realtionships in the past where boys have hurt me (not pysically but emotionally). He says "I love you" everyday, and he always makes me feel special and loved. He's really special to me. My firs... (327 words)

I'm dating a girl that is a tom boy!!

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dating a girl that is a tom boy. We have so much in common we seem like twins and soul mates. Everything is perfect but i just cant stay sexually attracted to her. She never wants to put on make-up or fix her hair or even dress like a girl. I tried talking to her about it but ... (146 words)

He's mad at me for checking his e-mails, but he's the one in the wrong!

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31 March 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I just got mad at him because he signed up for a dating site, looking for girls where he is at. I confronted him and he said that he was just curious and wanted to find out the price of it. Then, he turned the fight ... (227 words)

Could I have been that bad in bed, that he didn't want sex with me again?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple weeks ago, me and a guy friend slept together. We met through a mutual friend but we've only known eachother a few months, it's not like we're really close or know eachother realy well. Well i was attracted to him, and he seemed into me, after a while we ended u... (204 words)

Is he just being polite with me or does he care a little?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not saying like if romantic, but what would you think if you meet a guy then keep emailing (of course you're the one interested) and he replies right back at you, even though you met shortly, he send you pictures of him, if you tell him you're sick he worries and ... (168 words)

He has a son to someone else and I don't know if I can handle it...

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and at the beginning we didn't really take the relationship seriously, I cheated on him and so did he on me. Now we want to be committed and really do love one another.. but there is only one problem, he had sex with a girl and now she ... (179 words)

I just don't know how to tell her how I really feel without being awkward about it or even worse, making our friendship awkward.

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm stuck in a pretty complicated situation right now. I've been very close friends with this girl for over 3 years now, we hook up somewhat frequently and we're just extremely close friends in general. However, we haven't officially dated since we first met. Recently, she ... (161 words)

Birthday ideas for my boyfriend please.

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend's fifteenth birthday is coming up (it's in a little over a month), and I am absolutely CLUELESS as to what to give him. I want it to be something special, but at the same time, not too totally over-the-top, as we will have only been dating for a lit... (127 words)

Do you think she still has feelings for me or am I flying out there to get hurt?

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years which ended last July. She lived in Europe and I lived in the states. I broke up with her because I was scared of moving to Spain. The strange thing is I had a ring and I was going to propose to her but instead I broke up ... (263 words)

Can you be a virgin and have anal sex and get pregnant?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here goes I'm a virgin and had anal sex for the first time, now I'm having pregnancy syptoms like stomach pain, back ache, dizzness and nauseousness and I wonder am I pregnant? help me... (41 words)

I think he likes my friend more than me but I'm in love with him!

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I made a friend in 6th grade. He's a guy. I'm a girl. We were friends, but didn't hang out much. Then, in the summer I went to the beach. He was there. We hung out that day. I realized I liked him a lot. I told no one. My friend found out. She tried to get me ... (203 words)

Be honest please, I'm trippin', can she be pregnant?????

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, say I came on my hands the night before and washed them, went to bed then at around 4 o'clock the next day started playing with a girl out side her pants! So without comtact can she get pregnant? Note that there was a small hole around the area you were touching but ... (59 words)

My parents DON'T understand!

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm always crying at home and it's because my parents always say something to make me feel like I'm not good enough. I love talking to my friends on the computer, I must admit, I stay on the computer all day and my parents complain that I stay in my room too much and I never ... (270 words)

How do I get him to show me that he loves me? How do I get him back?

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31 March 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend said to me the reason we broke up was because it wasn't working, I wasn't changing and we were always gonna fight and that he doesn't love me and hasn't for the past 2 weeks. (This is wat he said when we broke up) Now he's telling everyone that he's depres... (184 words)

Working Couple with Child Emergency

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - In 2006 towards the end of the year my partner, whilst we were both living together at University, became accidentally pregnant. At first I was overjoyed but she wanted an abortion. After time I persuaded her that we should keep the baby and in January 2007 we got married. In ... (656 words)

Best friend - deleted from life...

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Me and my best friend had sex on many occasions and then we decided to stop and he even told me to I could join this forum he's a memeber of, which I did since I was into the same music as him, then all of a sudden about 3 weeks ago he says some really hurtful things a... (254 words)

I'm nervous to be seen naked by my boyfriend.

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am kinda nervous being naked around him! I've tried to like get over it but it just wont go away! I really like my boyfriend and he would never force me to do anything I didnt like! I am dying to have sex with him. Why am I ... (64 words)

I have a terrible issue with her past as she has slept with around 30 guys to my 6 women.

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - First of all I am in a long distance relationship with a girl (33) who I have been seeing for the past year. She moved back to another European country 6 months ago. We fell very much in love, but like many guys I have a terrible issue with her past, as she has slept with aro... (375 words)

If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that cheating?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that considered cheating?... (26 words)

I'm scared to have a boyfriend because I think I'm a bad kisser.

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys! I'm scared to have a boyfriend because I think I'm a bad kisser. Is there any way I can kinda teach myself how to do it? And I take it when you're in a relationship it doesn't matter, but I don't want to me embarrassed. Any help would be great! Techniques or sk... (61 words)

How can I let go without feeling like I am putting his kids on the street?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - 30 years old and have been divorced for 2 years now. I have 3 children 12,10,6. I met this guy who is 44 years old and has 4 children 16 year old twin boys, 13 year old boy. He and his 3 children live with me and my children and he treats me like a child and does not make his ... (204 words)

My husband had an affair and says he's fallen out of love with me! Am I doing damage to my kids staying with him?

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband hasn't given me affection for over 10 years now. Our relationship is diminishing with him not wanting to deal with our problems or even discussing them. I very lonely and feel like I am loosing my mind. He won't talk about love at all - wants not to talk about it ... (162 words)

I told her I can't stop thinking bout her... She said she feels the same but is scared coz of past relationships.

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31 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I told my crush I still like her after our first date on which we kissed. I told her I can't stop thinking bout her and going insane. She said she feels the same but is scared coz of past relationships. She knows me I'm the kind of guy who would never hurt a girl! I asked if we ... (108 words)

MY boyfriend wishes for me to give him oral.... I'm a virgin and I don't know how to do it...

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31 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - MY boyfriend wants me to give him oral.... I'm a virgin and I don't know how to do it.... I'm kinda nervous about it... do I swallow or spit..? What exactly do I do? Can you get STD's? Do you use a condom? I don't know. Please help if you can ! thanks in advance ... (61 words)

I love him so much. I'm always craving sex form him.... is that normal....

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31 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have a SEXY sexy sexy boyfriend. I love him so much. I'm always craving sex form him.... is that normal.... like he'll send me a text saying "Mmm baby I want you" and I automatically get horny .Is that normal to get that way over nothing ? I'm always thinking of sex with ... (96 words)

I need ways to tell my boyfriend I love him.

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31 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I need ways to tell my boyfriend I love him. Telling him I LOVE YOU isn't good enough! I want other ways to tell him... either in person... text(preferable) or on the phone. IF you can help me then please do . thanks in advance !!! :) ... (48 words)

I understand that he wants his space but I think he might be cheating!

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31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not sure whether I have a problem or it is my boyfriend. I will tell you both sides of the story:- After the honeymoon period of the few relationships that I have had wears off, they have failed. None of them have lasted more than 10 months. The first relationship whi... (772 words)