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writes:ok i broke up with my ex 6 months 4 months ago, after few months we began talking because we work in the same area. but after some months, we would find our selves flirting with each other, mixing up old talks about our feelings to our discussion jokingly. he would always pick on me at work, but pretend never to want me. he would compliment me, but will never call me on phone. he even once told me playfully how he tried to get me pregnant during our date and when i gt wounded by someone, he was saying stuff about him being hurt, and says he is gonna get me pregnant. what does this mean and what does he want?help
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): I agree that his statements are about pinning you to him, I would be wary though, sometimes there are truths behind joking comments and you need to make sure you dont put yourself in a position where this could happen. So avoid him on dark nights or when you have been drinking, he is liable to take advantage.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 It is his way of making you his and not in a nice way.
He reasons that if he gets you pregnant that shows the rest of the world he still controls/owns you, in a way branding you like you would a cow.
He is probably rather possesive and can't accept that you have left him. By leaving him you injured his pride, no woman could possibly leave a man such as him.
Although he is no longer intrested in a relationship he still wants every other guy to see that he owned you first or even be turned away by the kid.
It is not the same as when a woman tries to bind a man with a pregnancy, this is something even more sinister. It is NOT about having a kid with you as in a desire to be a parent.
Did he refer to you often as "his woman" or something similar, how is he with other ex'es?
Get away from this guy, because rape would definitly be one way of doing it.
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