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writes:Well for starters im 14 and he is 15 i am an EXTREMELY shy person and we have been together for about 5 months and i dont know what it is but everytime i am around him im speechless! i dont know why so could you give me some advice about How NOT to be so shy when i am around him! PLEASE!!!
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reader, Scarlett.K.  +, writes (25 March 2008):
ahah. oh to be in love as a teenager. I'm guessing he is your FIRST love? This usually happens with the first, or anyone we feel really strongly about. There's no way you can overcome shyness other than keep spending time with him and when you become more comfortable with him the blushes, and stuttering will subside. But don't let the shyness come in between the relationship. Is there anything that makes you nervous in front of him? Are you scared he may think of you weirdly, if you say something? Maybe you're scared you're not up to his caliber so you're scared of saying anything? Think about it. To be comfortable with a person means, we accept them and they accept us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): as a teen i was shy to maybe the same way as you i was going out with this girl and i didnt talk much i found it helpful to be around friends to open up and im sure you will relax after this also just try to start a convo with him it can be anything school a movie you seen etc give it a try and good luck
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