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He doesn't like me to go out, but he goes out with his friends all the time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend gets mad at me alot because i always like go out with the girls and have a blast .. i never invite him because its like the girls niqht lol ladyz u understand wen i say girlsss Night!=].. but now ive stoped going almost completeing just for him.. but now he goes ... (80 words

We had sex but she says she loves her husband too much!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - I'm in love with a married woman. She has 7 months of marriage. We had sex one night. She loves me but says she will not leave her husband because she does not want to make him hurt. I can't really let go. What should i do ?... (52 words

Married, but in love with my best friend, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am a 24 year old married man, who has a terible conundrum before him. I have been married to my wife for about a year and a half know (known her for about 5 years), and things are kind of going downhill. We're really starting to find the things that annoy one another, wha... (686 words

My ex found out she is HIV positive. If I am infected, how do I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - A few days ago, I got a series of rather disturbing test messages on my cell phone from a number I didn't recognize. After a little searching around, I found out that it was an ex-girlfriend whom I was on bad terms with. Long story short, the messages said that she found out ... (322 words

I'm in a big fight with my friends, what do I do?

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3 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm going through a rough spot with my friends right now, we keep arguing about stuff and one of my friends is in her period I'm in it too, what should I do????????... (33 words

Is Sex in a relationship important?

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3 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I was wondering this because recently my girlfriend said she wanted to wait until marriage (which is fine by me I guess) I just didn't know if that included all types of sex or sexual contact.... (36 words

Everything under the sun!

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3 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 5 months and ever since we have been going out I have had nothing but grief from her. I started to be that she was texting her ex who cheated on her, then cheating on me with another guy over the internet, to hiding messages ... (187 words

If somebody come across as a flirtatious person, would she be considered a slag in an office environment even though she always dresses appropriately?

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3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Office related question. If somebody come across as a flirtatious person, would she be considered a slag in an office environment even though she always dresses appropriately? The scenario is something like this...there is this man I really like in my office and i think he... (232 words

Am I thinking too much into things?

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3 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am 23 and have been dating a man who is 27 divorced and has two children for 10 months now. I love him and his children very much and the Ex factor really isnt a factor. Things have been great for the first 8 months, I moved in with him and for a while we were moving forward ... (307 words

My fiancee got another woman pregnant. Help!

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3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I left my fiancee 4 months ago (very hard to do). We were together for 6 yrs. I found out he cheated and she is now pregnant. He never told me all this, I found out on my own. He kept lying behind my back. First he said he was just friends with her and wasnt intimate...then he ... (315 words

Leaving marriage for affair partner is that a good thing??

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3 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - I'm pretty much down to my last option. I'm a 37 year old married man, with two children. Have been married for 8 years, have been together for 15. I am in the middle of an affair. Not real proud of it, it is with a co-worker and it just happened. There was a spark, a connecti... (1134 words

What does celeste mean?

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3 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - Simply, what does celeste mean? I feel stupid but I have absolutely no idea lol.... (15 words

I dunno what to think, am I being used? Am I right not to give up on him?

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi Well, for about 3 years I've been talking to a guy on msn. We got on so well, and he told me he liked me but I was wrapped up with other boys and I overlooked him. But we started talking again, and we got to the point where both of us told each other we liked the other... (178 words

My mother thinks I'm a lesbian after reading my diary. What now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Help!!!!!!! I think that my mom read my diary. I'm 13 years old and I wrote about an 8th grade girl who just graduated. I think she was in love with me and so by that I felt in love with her too. The only problem is is that I'm also a girl. I sort of do have a crush on her ... (131 words

I'm really not sure if it's really my fault, or if it's just as much hers as mine, that we broke up. How to deal with the confused feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend of just under 3 years broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. She said she just doesn't have "them" feelings for me anymore, she said that she still loves me and cares about me, we were eachothers first loves. We went through something similar about 8 months ago, ... (1115 words

How can I accept my pregnancy and the idea of adoption? Is there any other option?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i'm celeste...i'm 13 going on 14 and i'm 7 months pregnant. i found out way too late. me and my boyfriend used a condom but it must have split without us realising. the first thing i said was i wanted an abortion. but they wouldn't give me one...they said it was too late... (188 words

He said he had too much respect for me to accept oral, while I don't find this form of sex insulting, only his comment!

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3 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I started to give my bf a blowjob and he stopped me before i'd barely touched him. Later i confronted him on it and he said that he had too much respect for me to have me do it. I told him i was genuinly willing to do it for him and that i wouldn't have offered do it unless i ... (195 words

Can you get rid of stretch marks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - can you get rid of stretch marks? i've recently got a few around my hips and thighs, and i've started to cut-down and excersise, but can you actually get rid of them??? [Added] this is a bit of a wierd question, but i was just wondering today... can you get stretch marks on... (72 words

Is it normal that my (third) period is delayed?

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i got my frist period on dec 6 2007 and my second on feb 22 and i havent gotten my third yet and it is now march 3 why didn't i get 1 in jan is this normal?... (38 words

We broke up due to small lies that shoke her trust in me. Will she get over my past and see beyond our problems? (still love each other)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi I am writing here for some advice on what to do about my past relationship. First we started dating and talking alot when I was in another state and she said she fell in love with my personality. But I had a bad past of sleeping with all types of women and I didn't... (317 words

Can you recommend how to calm my nerves about presentations? I get stomachaches by only thinking of this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - this may sound petty, but i am soo worried. i have to present a book i have been reading to my class, and i am so nervous. recently when i read aloud in english, i get really nervous and i sound nervous and i have to take deep gasping breaths between each scentence. it never ... (94 words

My boyfriend is never in the mood. Is he bored of me?

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, my boyfirend is almost 17 and im 15. we've been together for almost 2 years now and have always moved slowly on the whole sexual front. We still havent had sex but we do pretty much everything else. But latley we have been getting on perfectly fine in everyay life but he is ... (128 words

I have a very high libido, would having sex with my boss be a good idea? Do my desires make me... easy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - Omg I really need help I broke up with my bf about a month ago...thats another story. basically i have a really REALLY high sex drive and i need sex!!!! no amount of "self pleaseing" is working!! and theres this guy at work and me and him are absoloutly gagging f... (230 words

Is "my" intellectual musician reserved or unfriendly? How to determine him to open up so we can build an emotionally close relationship?

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3 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 23 years old, and am a bit confused right now... I've liked a friend of mine for awhile now (a year or two-ish? we met in school), and we've hung out casually and talked casually, but not consistently - we used to volunteer together a little, too. We have kept poor ... (978 words

Why does my boyfriend want a threesome AGAIN? Should I let him have one?

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3 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - this might sound like a stupid question, but why does my boyfriend want a threesome so much? My bf and i have been together for nearly 3 years and we've swapped partners with another couple once before, and while it physically felt great I felt incredibly guilty afterward... (152 words

Can he have really fallen out of love this easily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hope someone can give me some wisdom. I'm sorry if this is long... I have been with a wonderful man for 7 months. I have never been this happy before in a relationship. After 3 months, I found out he'd been living with someone for the first 6 weeks of our relationship. I ... (745 words

Why has sex just become so casual nowadays?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Why has sex just become so casual nowadays. I mean before people did not even think about losing their virginity before marriage. What I don't understand is how people just do 'it' with people they hardly know properly. Sex before marriage does cause a lot of problems as we see ... (61 words

I don't really want to leave either as I love him but I am very scared that I don't know whats going on and i'll lose everything

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband and I have only been married less than a year. I lived in England he lived in America. We met on-line through an on-line gaming community. I had been chatting to him 3 or more years before meeting him in the flesh. Nothing was ever implied or said in those ye... (1104 words

We are too young to have sex, would oral be a responsible choice? Any advice about the technique?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6137 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are getting pretty intimate lately and i was wondering how if any of you could give me some advice on oral sex. I know i'm only 14 but nothing else would happen like intercourse because i know we are definatley too young for that.... (48 words

I feel like I have messed up my life...how do I get it back on track??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I feel horrible. I have messed up my life. I don't talk to girls, i have rubbish hair and clothes. My mates make fun of evryone even themselves but what makes me feel horrible is that when they make fun of me they are just joking and don't mean it they are really nice guys but ... (135 words

Is second love worth the risk??

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3 March 2008 (M age - How do you really know if you are still in love or just used to someone and the regularity of it all? Is changing partners worth the consequences? Does second love make it worth while?... (35 words

How should I react to my sister spitting in my face??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age - What do you do when your sister spits in your face, during a heated argument? She's also done it to her 80 year old dad.... (25 words

I know I HAVE to stop thinking about the regrets that I have and focus on our future together but how can I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm 27 and up until last year I'd never kissed anyone. When I was younger boys were never interested in me and then when I was about 17/18 because I was so embarrassed about my lack of experience if a guy was interested in me I pretended I wasn't interested so that he wouldn't ... (772 words

Does the pill still work if you vomit?

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3 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have started taking the pill and just had a question. i know the pill is not effective if you vomit while taking it but what if you vomit during the 7 pill free days does this have any effect on protection.Do i just wait until the 7 days are over and start my new pack.? it ... (68 words

Is it possible to have been in one relationship with one person and just stay with that person?

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3 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Is it possible to have been in one relationship with one person and just stay with that person? Or is it better to get'experienced' and then settle down? I am a lil confused, I have been with my gf for 1year and 2months, shes my first gf and im 21 which is ... (231 words

What do women seek out of a threesome or foursome in general?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age - What do women seek out of a threesome or foursome in general? I think most men would go for it without much resistance.... (23 words

If I have my period when I'm due, does this mean I'm not pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

3 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - If I have my period when I'm due, does this mean I'm not pregnant? What happened is the condom split during sex, and I took the morning after pill, but then it split again the next day - but he says he didnt ejactulate so I didnt worry too much. I'm due my period very soon, so... (68 words

How do you get your wife to forget the past when it comes to strip clubs / porn?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age - How do you get your wife to forget the past when it comes to strip clubs / porn? Even if you cut way back she still keeps bringing it up and using that for a excuse to not have sex. ... (41 words

Went to the doctor and I still have a brown discharge, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay well, I went to the doctors to sort out my discharge because it smelled and was brownish. I had swabs and when I went back for the results, my doctor told me that I had no infection and that it was a normal thing that happens. He gave me antibiotics and I've taken them and ... (89 words

Should I end it with the girl I'm dating now for her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I am having a hard time with a girl i like. We were good friends before, and ever since i asked her out, she and i have barely been able to talk to one another. On top of this, this girl i like's friend also likes me, and im starting to become attracted to her because the girl ... (156 words

My partner likes to contact gay men by text email or various websites. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age - My partner likes to contact gay men by text email or various websites. He says its harmless fun, I have told him I cannot deal with this and he promises never to do it again, he has broken this promise now on 6 occasions, saying he is not doing anything wrong as he is not ... (114 words

She read my old emails from an ex and now we have split up. Help!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi I am writing here for some advice on what to do about my past relationship. First we started dating and talking alot when I was in another state and she said she fell in love with my personality. But I had a bad past of sleeping with all types of women and I didn't tell he... (309 words

When I ejaculate, It's see through. Does this mean I'm firing blanks???

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3 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok, I'm 17 and whenever I come i ejaculate and everything but it's clear.....as in see through. Does this mean I'm 'shooting blanks'? I'm REALLY worried... (26 words

Is he just being friendly or does he really like me?

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Right i thought this lad liked me, we are friends but haven't known each other long. I used to look at me a lot but then again he does at anyone, not becasue he likes them he is just able to look them in the eye when talking etc but he seems to actually look into my eyes a lot ... (285 words

How do I make this work after we have had a huge row and split?

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3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My bf and i were engaged for 9 months, but had a huge fight and he has taken the ring back. I feel he is addicted to computer games and he has called me an alcoholic. I love him dearly but cant take his stubborn ways anymore. He use to be so caring and comforting, now it feels ... (75 words

Even though she has a boyfriend, was her telling her cousin she likes me a way to see what I think of her?

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3 March 2008 (M - Hi, Ive been single for a little while now after being in a very long relationship. Right problem is ive recently met someone who ive instantly taken a liking to. Havent really talked to each other more than hello's and how are you's, and i only really see her when im out ... (317 words

Is this guy serious about wanting to marry and have children?

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3 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - dear cupid,I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years this month and we get on well when we dont argue. he is 8 years older than me but the age difference doesnt affect us generally as I have other friends and a brother his age. however recently he has asked ... (251 words

2 Is company, 3 Is a crowd? Did we go too far inviting my friend for threesomes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Well i am engaged and my fiance asked if we could do a 3 some before we got married, since he never had one, and i agreed. The person we did it with is a mutual friend. i have done 3 somes before and they are fun so it doesn't just usually happen once but she has gotten ... (241 words

My best friend has replaced me with another friend. It makes me angry. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - hey guys my close friend and i have been together since 5th grade but when i introduced her to a new friend of mine, and they totally bonded and right now i'm feeling replaced so everytime i see them feel anger growing inside me what should i do?... (48 words

Is it possible for someone to change if they meet the right person?

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17 and I was in a long term relationship that lasted just under 3 years and it finished because I became pregnant and wanted to keep the baby. I had a missed miscarriage and am grateful that this made me realise how wrong my ex was for me. He'd kick me and punch me, but it ... (785 words

I'm so shy, but I love her. Could she like me too?

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3 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - hi every one i am happy for this helping ahead. i love one girl nearly two years, but i never shy to talk to her because i am from unrich family and i never have girlfriend or sleep with girl before. i told myself from the childhood when i say the word of love to any girl i ... (263 words

It was too complicated but now he's all I can think about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Im 19 and last year i met a guy who was 8yrs older, he had recently broken up with his girlfriend of 8 years (her little sister used to be a good friend of mine). we met up a couple of times but only ever to go out for drinks and my friends were always with us, but in that time ... (205 words

How can I get a break to stop me being so fed up with it all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - How shall I open my topic? Uh … let me think … my kids are sucking the life out of me! Nice opening gambit huh? It’s true! They’re doing my head in! Now, don’t get me wrong they can be little angels when they want to be but then some kind of fog comes over them and it’s like I ... (275 words

Has anyone ever felt the magic?

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3 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Has anyone ever met someone who has given you a "magical" feeling, like it was "meant to be". This would be someone who just pretty much takes your breath away and does not seem like just a "normal", everyday person. Maybe this is a soulmate feeling. I think a feeling like ... (74 words

Do I love him enough?

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3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, i went back to my marriage after my husband had previously walked out on me (i never thought marriage was such hard work but we are working hard at it). We are both from Europe but two different countries, I am now living in Spain to be with him. We are making another go ... (263 words

Is she pregnant or trapping him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a problem, I split from my 10 year relationship back in September as I was really unhappy, I was pregnant last year and had a miscarriage I was a emotional wrack and decided to end things with my boyfriend as I did not know what I wanted… A few weeks ago myself and my B... (352 words

He's with another girl now, but I think I love him... could he feel the same?

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I like a guy from work, but recently he was in a car accident with his girlfriend, she drove off the end of a cliff, and he was really hurt. Despite my efforts to get over to the hospital to see him i couldn't manage it before he got discharged, but then he went back to his ... (184 words

She Says "I JUST DON'T FEEL YOUR PENIS"!! omg...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm Pretty sure you guys get a lot of penis questions but I wonder if you can answer this. I've been with a lovely girl who after 3 years we decided to get together. We've been together since early 2007. Now I can make her orgasm in a variety of ways especially with my mouth, ... (390 words

I love her, but she thinks I'd damage her image!

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3 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi guys,i'm in a big big problem... I love a girl and she's my friend... but when i told her about my feelings she said keh though i really really like you but not this, but as a friend...but i'm not even one of her normal friends...i'm not allowed to call her...we can't meet ... (118 words

Why don't I enjoy sex with my bf?

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i don't really know how to start this question but hear goes, basically i am 16 and i have recently just lost my virginity i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and i don't really enjoy sex with him, i enjoy the build up the touching, his hands wondering etc but i don't ac... (97 words

It hurts like hell that he doesn't care about me and acting cool doesn't seem to be working!

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3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I have been on this site before and got some good advice and it helped me loads. Please can someone give me some advice on my current situation? Well it's been 2 months since my partner walked out on me and my 6 month old son. At first I did all the dergrading stuff... (317 words

Is it over? What is up with him? I don't understand!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend of over 2 years decided over a month ago out of the blue that he wanted space. I gave that to him. I was devastated so headed back to my home country for a month to recover. During that time he would text and email and call frequently. I arrived back in the UK l... (293 words

"God" told him to stop and pick me up...!!!!

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3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I got to know how you have been helping people sort out their problems and I believe by Gods Grace you will have a word for me on this case. I was on my way to an unknown destination and a man saw me an stopped and asked me where I was going to, I told him never mind. He said ... (369 words

Please help me win my husband back!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi my husband has left me due to how I was treating him. Over the years I took him for granted and I would lower him and call him names whenever I was upset with him or even with other issues. It got really bad. The problem is that I never meant to or realised just how bad it ... (187 words

Is this relationship a healthy one?

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3 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Dear Cupid. I met my boyfriend October 2006 and I moved in with him January 2007. When we met he told me he was self employed and a few months into this relationship I noticed he was struggling financially. At times he asks me borrow him money to pay rent and he has never pa... (141 words

I need your help women (PMS issue)

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3 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - I am planning to go back home this month for 4 days only, but unfortunately my wife will have her pms during that time, so will it be safe to have sex during that period? Have you guys tried it? What shall I expect? Is it true that women are more horny during that time? I... (82 words

Was I too fast in sleeping with him? What did I do wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I met this guy at a party, we danced and later exchanged contacts, three days later I called him just to say hi coz I was interested, we later started texting each other. He asked me out for a date and went over to his place, I spent the night, no sex but cuddled. We went out ... (191 words

I don't want her new friend to ruin our relationship or anything but at this point I truly feel like he is in the way.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

3 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I was very attracted to a girl I was working with for a while. She had just gotten out of a relationship and we began hanging out and hitting it off amazingly well. After a few weeks of spending a lot of time together I told her how I felt about her and it was reciprocated. We ... (349 words

Have you dealt with a probable alcoholic taking anti-depressants?

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3 March 2008 (F age - Would you consider 6-7 pints of Guinness a day a sign of alcoholism (sometimes more, sometimes less)? In Europe, is that normal, or is a sign of a heavy drinker no matter where you go? Also, this person is taking anti-depressants. I'm wondering if anyone else has experience ... (134 words

How do I get closure from a relationship if the person has disappeared?

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3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do I get closure from a relationship if the person has just disappeared? I don't really want to call him, text him, or email him ... I just want answers but don't know how to get them. I know I will never get the answers I want to hear. I wouldn't believe him anyway. He has ... (230 words

Is it possible to approach a girl without teasing and flirting with? That is not my style.

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3 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - hi there, i kinda need your urgent help; i think i am on the way to like this girl, but there is one big thing making us peoples of different world. i am a 22 years old virgin having no girl friend in my life, never kissed or been kissed; it is not because(not to brag) i am no... (405 words

I like her but not sure how she feels.

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3 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I work with this girl that i am absolutley in love with. We are really good friends and it started to look as if she really liked me. I tried to feel her out and i was sure she did like me. I told her how i felt about her and at first she was shocked but flattered. Then... (184 words

How can I break up with her knowing she would be devastated?

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3 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I told my girlfriend that we needed a "break" for now, and only for a week and she cryed alot. How will i be able to tell her that i want to break up with her if my feelings dont change during that time? She will be 100 times more upset than she will during this "break". ... (79 words

I'm worried I'd scare her away with my size? She mentioned this aspect was important to her.

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3 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm am 17 years old and i have been dating this girl 4 1 year now and I'm afraid that my penis wont cut it. i have a 6.5 in penis fully erected but its 4.5 in flaccid she has never touched my penis but she keeps trying and I'm afraid that if she feels it she will think its ... (93 words

He wants to break up and invokes having changed his sexual orientation. What can I do?

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3 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for 9 months now, our sex life we perfect (well at least to me) until Feb 29th he told me he doesn't want to have sex with me anymore and that he was more into girls when at the beginning he said he was into guys so right now I don't know what to ... (110 words

I get attached very easily and only based on looks! Any suggestions?

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3 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone- I don't know why but when I am extremely attracted to someone, I kind of confuse lust with love. I start getting attached, can't stop thinking about them, etc. etc, and the worst part is, I don't even know them! (They're usually a friend). I get attached very ... (72 words

How do I move on knowing that I was used, played, and lied to just for sex? I'm 15, will I trust again?

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - First of all, let me apologize about his being so long. (it could be longer...) About six months ago, I met "Mike". From the beginning, I had a crush on him. We came to be good friends and one of our mutual friends told Mike that I liked him. Turns out he liked me back. O... (860 words

He no longer French kisses me, although for years we had done that, why??

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3 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend will go down on me and do all things sexual like he has done for several years but he will NO LONGER french kiss me. What do you think happened? He will only give me a little "peck" anytime - including during sex. I think this is just weird. What do you think? ... (68 words

He says he has commitment issues. He does not move on however, why?

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - alright, so I have this guy and we have been on and off for a year so far, right now we are off and I dont know when we will ever be on again. See the thing is though we still hang out like good friends and everything...it goes more then friends, sometimes we even do other ... (177 words

She treats me differently, does she like me?

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3 March 2008 (M age 26-29 - there is a girl in my class and i really like her. I want to know how much she likes me.She frequently stares a tme, and flirts wiht me a lot. she treats me differently than other boys.she plays mean with me, and everytime i pass her she says "i hate you" or something ... (71 words

Am I selfish not to agree to wait?

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My bf and I have been dating for over a year now. We've never had sex before. But we have gone passed 3rd base. I've been wanting to have sex but he's against it. Wanting to save it until after marriage. I can see why he wants to wait but sometimes my body doesn't want to stop. ... (97 words

My ex ran off with another girl, but he still loves me, what should I do?

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3 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I was in a relationship with someone for 3 years. Things didn't work out and I didn't think I loved him. When we broke up, about 2 months later, I started feeling really bad. I love this person. I was told that he was cheating on me while we together. I have asked him and he ... (238 words

I'm pregnant and he's cheating! Do I just wait for him to come back or what? Advice?

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3 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - What should I do I'm nearly 6 months pregnant and there's going to be 2 kids involved. my daughter and unborn son. now the situation is that I was told the first time he cheated by him now this is the second time and he didn't tell me I caught him but don't know how to go about ... (304 words

We used to have sex, multiple times a day. Now it's nothing!

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. We have lived together for about 6 months. About 4 months ago i found out that he was regularly looking at porn on my laptop. I confronted him then and he said he would stop. A month or so later same thing over ... (136 words

Why are we not in real relationship? We seem to be soulmates but nothing is happening.

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3 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - he i sspending all his time with me. we are talking for hours daily. we are attracted on each other but we are not in a love relationship because he ia having the one already. he is seeing her maybe twice a month or less and he is never talking about her. he knows I do not want ... (473 words

How do I make my bf...beg for more?

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3 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - How can i drive my boyfriend nuts! I want him to beg for more. ... (14 words

I get too over excited..so how do I make sex last longer?

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3 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - me and my gf have slowed down on the having sex thing to alot less then we did before and i dont mind that and neither does she, but cus of that now when we do have sex its a lot shorter, my fault of course lol not hers. has anyone got any good ideas to help make it a bit lo... (97 words

How can I make this horrible non relationship either become something or end, without losing my best friend in the process?

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3 March 2008 (F - Ok, very simple common problem I know, but that doesn't really make it any easier... In my first year of uni I went out with a guy who lived in my block. We weren't together for very long but I really fell for him and now, a year and a half later, he's my best friend and my ... (239 words

He was emotional abusive, but now he won't leave me alone, what is it with this guy?

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3 March 2008 (F - I broke up with my ex fiance 5 months ago because he was emotionally abusive. Anyway, I told him to not contact me numerous times and he didn't listen, so I finally changed my number. Then, he messaged me on myspace two weeks ago saying how he misses me and said that he is ... (250 words

He snubbed me but said something was weighing on his mind, should I try and help him?

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3 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey aunts, this is a bit long and confusing but please stick with me here :) There is this guy I met a few weeks back... we had sarcastic and flirty conversations, and he saw me every day for 4 days (he was really persistant), one of which was spent lying on the beach at nig... (435 words

We are interested in a foursome, what are the best options?

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3 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a question about foursomes... I am interested in doing one with my boyfriend of 4 years but we're not sure about the best way. Is it better to approach a couple that you know and are friends with or to go to a swingers club or put out an ad? We are worried that doing it ... (95 words

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