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writes:i am 13 and i didnt get my first period yet, but i want to have sex so when my cherry pops will alot of blood come out because i didnt have my first period yet?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): I think no, but maybe a bit for breaking the hymen.
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reader, broken babe +, writes (6 April 2008):
 If your asking this question you are NOT ready for sex. wait awhile longer. If you havent had your period yet your body isnt mature! In the end your gonna get hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Just wait, honey. It's so much easier. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. We're crazy about each other and have no plans of having sex any time soon because we both know we're too young! (we're 17). Sex and love are not synonomous.
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reader, Rolly  +, writes (27 March 2008):
I think your questions have been moreorless answered, but if you think having your hymen broken and your period are related, then you're not ready for sex.
Plus, you live in the UK, so the age of consent is SIXTEEN.
Your sexual partner could get arrested- the age of consent is 16 for a reason!
Wait... Please.
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reader, GeorgiaGirl84 +, writes (27 March 2008):
 From personal experience, I didn't bleed.
Sex is a HUGE responsibility and your virginity is something you can never get back. If you decide to go through with it, use protection and make sure it's with someone you really care about. However I would suggest you wait. It really does make things more complicated. It's your choice. Just remember things worth having are worth waiting for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): There's usually just a little bit of blood, but some girls don't bleed at all.
But can I just add, I don't think you should be thinking about having sex right now, never mind actually having it! So stop worrying honey, don't grow up too fast. Really.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 What does you period have to do with it?
*** Not safe for work although they are medical drawings, not porn... well not for most people anyway.
http://healthystrokes.com/hymengallery.html
Shows you drawings of what a hymen looks like. It is just a flap of skin that gets torn, can easily happen during normal activities.
As for bleeding, depends on how thick the hymen is and how much of it remains. Any from nothing at all to a few drops. Compared to the other liquids involved it will be nothing although offcourse blood does stain more.
Oh and since you think your hymen and period are somehow related, YOU AIN'T READY TO FUCK YET! Get some sex-ed first. You don't want to be one of the other teens who ask what to do about a pregnancy or STD do you?
You do know for instance that you can get pregnant before you have had your first period?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): I agree.
I know you don't want to hear some total stranger preaching to you that you're too young for this. (If I was you, I wouldn't want to hear it either.) But it's the truth.
It won't make any guy respect you more than he would have respected you for not doing it. (Hey, wanting to screw you is not the same thing as having any respect for you otherwise.)
I know there are so many kids doing it at your age that it can seem normal. But that doesn't mean it's a good idea, it just means you'll have a lot of company regretting it later.
I don't stand to gain anything by stopping you from having sex. But I really urge you to just look on this website about losing virginity & sex questions and ages. You will find A WHOLE LOT of people, particularly girls, regretting their decision to have their first times when they were 17 and 19 and even into their 20s, let alone doing it at 14 or 15.
It's not just about whether or not the sex itself was good or bad, it's about the decision to lose virginity. If you regret it (and most girls losing it early seem to regret it eventually), it's not like you can just go back to being a virgin as soon as you've learned your lesson or something. Sexual mistakes never go away.
So much of the positive experience of sex is about the relationship and the emotional ties involved. And you're just not getting those things at 14 or 15 years old. Past that it's mainly a lot of messy bodily fluids & jiggling your legs with someone.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Some girls don't bleed, and some others bleed a little more. But it's nothing to worry about.
I think it would be best for you if you didn't have any sex for the time being. You're too young to really deal with it. It won't do you any good at your tender age.
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