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writes:I have a cousin who is in love with me. She suggests that she wants to marry me and says that she loves me, yet, nearly every week, we have a fight on something small and she expects me to say sorry, even thought it is my fault. She says she really loves me but doesn't say it often. I don't believe she is returning the love that i give to her. Should i stop loving her or try to live up to her expectations? plz help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): A lot of times kids your age have crushes on thier cusins but they grow out of them because you relize that it's not right to like your cousin this way. Your horomones are acting up because your young. You should try and find a girl to hang out with that is not blood related. You can't marry your cousin that's incest and you need to stop the flirting before it gets out of hand and you do something that will hurt your family and yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): You're both just a little bit too young to be considering love and marriage, and if she's acting like you say, rather immature as well.I know how you feel though. My cousin and I used to fight like cat and dog when we were younger, but we get along great now. When you've both matured a little you'll start to see things rather more clearly and you'll both know if you're suited to each other. You're too young just yet.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Well you know what they say.
If you can't keep it in your pant, keep it in the family.
Look. i know regular women are a huge pain in our asses and they're petty,whiney and shallow.. ( this doens't reflect the lovely Aunt on here.. heavens forbid..)
But your cousin... you know theres someone who you would get along with even better and love even more and you've knowen her all your life.
She's called your mother.
I mean.. i don't get it. She's your cousin. she's family.
i think you need to realise that what you're doing is pretty damn wrong even if it is legal in your backward country.
lets say it don't work out and neither does marrying her.
and you meet a girl who isn't a blood relation.. hows that gonna feeling telling her.. " so yeah i had sex with my cousin. wanna go out friday"
Leave your cousin alone.
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