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*shan05
writes:ok i broke up with this guy 6months ago, we later started talking, and he would joke with me at work place about how he touched me, he would jokingly tell me how he worked hard to get me pregnant. he would always be the first to notice my facial expression, my dressing, or my steps. at times i go crazy like . its over between us, but he still talks that close to me. but he never called me on phone, but would joke about our past life and all that. what does he want?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Why dont you ask him hunny, He maybe trying to get a reaction out of you, He may still care for you and this may be his way of telling you but he is ok with you at work but he cant phone as he wouldnt be able to see your face and reaction on the phone so he may feel not able to talk that way, He also may not be able to just ask if you want to get back together as he may be scared of rejection so hunny the best way to sort this one out is ask what he wants. It all depends on what you want as well sweetheart TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 Sounds to me that he has not forgotten the time you were together and when you start to remember the good times it is normally a sign that they are remembered with affection.
Perhaps he wants a second chance, I'm not sure, if it is driving you insane then you should ask him outright.
Do you want to be with this guy again or do you want to move forward?
If you don't want to be with him then you need to tell him that yes when you were together it was good but you are no longer together and you can't keep on remembering the past. You both need to move forward, he may not like this being said but at the end of the day if it bugs you then you need to say something to him.
Only you can decide whether you want to be with this guy or not. If he was hopeless in contacting you and he wants to get back together tell him you don't want to be left hanging like last time, he either rings you when he says he will or text you or it won't work out between you. You are not a pushover and don't expect to be treated that way.
Only you know whether you want to be with him or not?
Perhaps he is reading different signals you are giving off I'm not sure.
Take care and best of luck.
BFN
Country Woman
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