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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I got myself in a bit of a tangle. I have got 2-3 boyfriends and a fiance!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - please help, I got myself in a bit of a tangle. I have got 2/3 boyfriends and a fiance, my fiance lives abroad, my first boyfriend I have been with him for 4 years but it has been a rocky relationship on and off and my fiance I don't even know him that much, I just want to ... (138 words)

A guy marrying a lesbian?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have fallen in to a situation here i have too many conflicting issues to know what is right to do. I had met a girl some time ago and we became fast friends and became very, very close and shared a small intimate moment, however she, is gay. She asked me to be her.. ... (179 words)

How can I trust my sister when I tell her stuff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok before I ask my question I better start from the beginning.. My mom has 2 daughters me and my sister... my sister lives with her bilogical dad in a different town while I live with my mom. until she passed away now I live with my step dad who is like my real dad in a di... (218 words)

How do I get over all of this anger I always have towards her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and my sister is 16 and we get into major fights all the time now ever since there was this things with her boyfriend and her and it's not just little fights over something stupid like who's using the bathroom longer but major stuff... and I try talking to my dad about ... (168 words)

Possible new partner is still in a relationship and has a baby!!! What do I do???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi all, right I have a problem I could really do with some advice on. I'm a 21 year old male and Ii met this 22 year old girl around 2 years ago, we got on sooo well and spent a lot of time together, I'd just got out of a long and bad relationship at the time and didn't wanna ... (249 words)

6 year fiance just left me and won't talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have a lot of history and we were very much in love. I started drinking, she did too, and we started fighting, a lot. we had been living together for about 5 years, together all the time, exclusively. she loves me very much and i feel the same towards her. ... (315 words)

When is it best to conceive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if someone can help me? I'm trying to become pregnant and my period ended on 3/4/2008 and I had sex on 3/4/2008 and he came inside me. Would there be a chance now that I can be pregnant? Does anyone have any suggestions as to when would be a better time for ... (76 words)

How long do I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I went out with this girl for a few years. A few months back I decided to break it off and give each other some time. She wanted me back for a long time and we agreed that we would get back together in the new year. we talked all the time and hung out too for about 2 months. ... (263 words)

First should I stay and try to help him get clean or should I leave before the baby comes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I am 22 years old and my boyfriend is 26. I am 16 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend and I moved in together and I found out that he uses prescription drugs and cocaine. He also drinks alcohol. I found out about all this when I was 5 weeks pregnant. I knew he ... (210 words)

Deeply concerned...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so confused, I have been dating this guy for a year now and I don't know his parents or where he lives. When I ask he says he and his parents are not close and he would rather not drag me into his mess, he has met my family, we go out to family outings, but I feel ... (83 words)

Missing my ex boyfriend... how to deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - pls help! missing my ex bf.. how should i deal with this? Question Details: anybody who got hurt in love and can understand my state pls reply this.. this is not joke and im in a very sad mood... i feel like calling my ex bf...im feeling restless and despirately want to hear... (218 words)

What does it mean that he asked if I was seeing anyone? Does that show he's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy about a month ago and during that time I've grown quite fond of him. He is amazing, and I mean that in every possible way. He is gorgeous, funny, very succesful, kind, everything, he is just amazing. When I think about him I just smile and when he hugs me, I ... (393 words)

He's everything I'm looking for in a man except for one thing-he's never told me he loves me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never done this before so here goes.... I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 18 months now. He's everything I'm looking for in a man except for one thing-he's never told me he loves me. He's said it by text a couple of times and I blurted it out to him a few mont... (167 words)

Do you think it's wise to ask her out for a meal or something or should I just move on and forget it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me about 10 days ago, because our relationship just faded and we started arguing and becoming short with each other. The spark was long gone by the end. We tried to get through it for a month, but she said it felt very pressured and in the end, she ... (391 words)

How can I get rid of the hair on my stomach or make it lighter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - After fighting with self-esteem issues for several years, I am finally starting to accept myself but I do have one problem: my stomach. I have dark hair on my stomach and it almost looks like a guy's. I noticed this before but one of my best friends brought it up and now I am ... (77 words)

Abusive, obsessive and I don't know what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex for just over a year. Over the last three months our arguements were getting worse and worse and then finally he snapped and threw me about a little abit. I've been to the police and haven't pressed charges because thats it we will never be together again. The ... (201 words)

Should I prevent my ex that his current gf has a grim past, which includes drugs? Should I express my concerns?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there! I'm thirteen years old and basically, going through possibly (from what I've been told) the toughest time of my life. Anyways, getting to the point. My ex-boyfriend who I broke up with then two weeks later realized I made a horrible mistake is now dating a girl wh... (384 words)

I don't precisely know the cause of death of my close friend, should I rediscuss this with the husband to get closure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age - Today I had a long chat with a girlfriend about the loss of a mutual friend of ours over a year and a half ago. Our friend died unexpectedly at home, almost certainly due to an alcohol-related issue, as she had been struggling with alcoholism for many years, though she never ... (315 words)

Married for 2 years and have not had sex with my husband. What's going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

5 March 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I have been married for 2 years and never had sex till now..My husband loves me unconditionally but when it comes to sex,we just have romance and that's it he stops there and dozes off to sleep..When i visit doctors i feel embarrassed to say them this as most of them ask about ... (164 words)

How long does it take for me to wait until she is ready for a serious relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I met this girl online. This girl moved back to my area after a rocky divorce. We met for lunch on the first date. On the second date we went to the beach and had fun. She told me that she is shy about going further down to a serious relationship and needs to think about it. I ... (85 words)

Do you think I'm gay? I have also liked boys, but have not imagined going further than kissing.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, i have a big problem.. since i was young i've suspected that i may like the same sex, and i've liked a few guys but couldn't possibly imagine goin any further than a kiss. I've liked a few girls over the years but at the moment, i think i cud b in love with someone who is ... (155 words)

Is this a long time to have gone without having sex? I feel... distinct.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm uncertain about something. I've gone without sex for 10 months and I'm starting to feel a LOT of withdrawal. Feels like I'm the only person on the planet that isn't having it. It got me thinking... is 10 months a long time to go without, in comparison to everyb... (151 words)

He used me to forget his ex, we broke up and now he returned to say he doesn't want to lose me. Should I give him a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i've have a big problem from year and half ago i used to know a guy who used to be in a relationship, which ended and he was so hurt, he used me to forget his ex girl friend; i used to know his ex relationship and i tryed to help him because i felt what he felt before anyhow he ... (252 words)

Where should I take her on our date? Should we go alone or bring some friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i like this girl im not to sure how to ask hir out for a date?? if we do go out on a date where should i take her ? should we go alone or with some friends? how can i tell if she likes me? ... (47 words)

I'm finding it very difficult to cope with my long distant relation, as I'm an intimate person and need closeness, help!

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 now and I live in Zimbabwe Just before new years I met a really sweet boy two years older than me online. We talked for ages and became really close and a week ago we finally met. He was the biggest sweetheart ever, bought me flowers and choclate and refused to ... (344 words)

She accepted my invitation to join some friends, but brought along a male friend. This confuses me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - A little over a week ago I was at the bar having a drink with some friends when an old high school friend walked in. I went over and said hi, she seemed pretty happy to see me and asked for my phone number; and I got hers. The following Friday I called her, no answer so I left ... (308 words)

Should I give him an ultimatum about his using drugs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a complete pothead. I've tried getting him off of it but he ends up in such a state I just let him do it cause he gets the shakes and sweating and stomach cramps. The thing is I thought you smoked marajuana in a cigarette type thing but he smokes his on foil. ... (91 words)

I want to give him more signs that I like him to find out if he reciprocates or it's all in my imagination!...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right i'm so sorry for the length of this but in order to get a proper answer i need to say everything and need to start from the beginning. Right i'm one of these girls thats never had a bf and never really been bothered about getting one but when i went up to college i'm in ... (831 words)

Should I spend the rest of my life with someone who won't satisfy me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 12 years old and I've just had sex with my boyfriend. The problem is I think his penis is too small I talked to my friends at school and they said it was definetly too small and I don't think I want to see him again. I know he had sex with alot of the girls in my year and ... (135 words)

She prefers anal sex, completely rejecting vaginal intercourse. It makes me feel dirty but I accept this because I love her. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend only wants anal sex and I really don't feel comfortable with this. I am a strict Christian I do not believe that this kind of sex is either appropriate or godly. I only go along with it because I love her but it makes me feel very dirty what should I do? I am supp... (122 words)

I'm bisexual and attracted to a girl in my college, only we don't meet very often. How can approach her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 17-year-old bisexual female, currently at college in the UK. There's this girl in my year who I think is absolutely gorgeous. We've never spoken (she's not in any of my classes and my college is huge) but I've noticed she looks at me quite a lot and we always make eye ... (100 words)

The conversation online with a friend became a little "dirty," his gf found out and became suspicious! Should I ignore her or take other precautions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was chatting online to a friend and it got a little dirty on a couple of occasions, the friend is a friend of my boyfriend who i have been with a long time. His girlfriend found out and got really annoyed, we said it didnt mean anything but she didnt like it at all. She ... (175 words)

Why do I want my ex boyfriend back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been seperated from my ex for 5 years but i keep thinking of him i tingle when i see him and i feel that i want him however i am in a realationship and i have had a baby to push me away my ex lies about never loving me but we were together for 7 years however he has ... (116 words)

Am I gay or is it just my hormones?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

5 March 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Ok, I'm sorry for the length of my question... I'm really confused and don't know what to do, I sometimes think I'm gay/bi but I just don't know! I've previously liked girls from school and at the moment I like one girl an awful lot! I also know this boy who I'd liked for ages, ... (114 words)

I like giving men blow jobs - am I gay?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have always wanted to know what it was like to give another man a BJ. I answered an ad and got to know this guy. I went over to his house and gave him a BJ. I did enjoy it! Now my problem is, I want to do it again. I like giving the BJ part, but I dont find men th... (116 words)

Can I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

- Hello, Right, about a month ago during Sex with my Boyfriend the condom came off. I was quite worried that I might have got pregnant but two days later I started my period so I though everything was fine. Since that little scare we have been very careful by making sure the ... (125 words)

He gropes me in public and then laughs

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend of two months keeps squeezing my breasts and laughing hysterically. I don't know why he does this I find it rather embarrassing and degrading. He does it infront of his friends and while we're outside. I have tried explaining to him how bad ... (87 words)

I like him but he lives in France

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I'll go straight to the point. Last week i went to a party and i was introduced to a guy that lives in france and came he for holiday, and after talking and flirting we made out and it was perfect! he's back home now and we text everyday, and i think i have som... (99 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend his ex cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently got back with my boyfriend and we are madly in love, but we do have problems dealing with the past, We split for two years and in that time he went with someone else and i got together with a friend of his. I sort of still have feelings for his friend, and my c... (155 words)

Now that I'm pregant he does not want to have sex. How long a man can go without sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 7 months is just completely off sex unless he is making a baby. Now that I'm pregnant, there is no attention or sexual contact of any kind. When I was pregnant before, he was much more attentive so I know it isn't around me being pregnant. He just doesn't seem ... (442 words)

Is 'camel toe' looked down on?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

5 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Is having 'camel toe' looked down on, or worse than being completely tight? Is it an insult?... (17 words)

Torn between two guys, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is the two guys that i like one of them i work with and see all the time he hasnt got a girlfriend and is a little older then me. the other has been seperated since september and has two kids i see him every week and can see myself falling for both of them, please help ... (93 words)

Could we make this relationship work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this boy, who added me on myspace. We've gotton really close and we always talk online and text each other but the trouble is he lives too far away. He says he likes me and everything and is willing to make it work. but i'm confused. ... (48 words)

My wife's lesbian friend is breaking up marriages and my wife doesn't think it's a problem.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age - I'm having issues with my wife's new found friends- 2 are a couple m/f and married and the other is a lesbian and they are next door neighbors. The lesbian broke up the couple marriage but they got back together and now the lesbian is breaking up a friend of mine marriage. ... (89 words)

Why aren't we together yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been Likeing this guy for a very long time now I've told him how I felt And he said the feelings were mutual. We've had Sexual intercourse more than once.And we're still talking He's a very sweet guy Shows me that he cares alot about me even gets jealous When I talk to ... (97 words)

If he doesn't want a baby why is he refusing to wear a condom?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 in 2 weeks. me and my boyfriend have had sex nprotecte so many times . im beginning to think he wants me to have a baby as he wont use a condom. i want a baby but when i mension the thought of having one he turns around and ingores me. if he dont want a baby why is ... (73 words)

I like her but I don't know what to say to her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i like this girl when im round hir i dont now what to say to hir? she is 14 in december im 15 in march do you think i am the wrong age for hir? im not very good at making Conversation and no to sure what to talk about ? im not to sure how to ask hir out as im not very ... (71 words)

I have not heard from him for three weeks

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - thankyou for your answers wveryone. my original post was on 17th jan. titled should i forget him or will he realise what he has lost.. just posted an update . could someone please advise. not heard anything from him for 3 weeks now and i have managed not to contact him which is ... (57 words)

Could it be over before it even began?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am just out of a three year relationship with a guy my age. a week before we split i cheated on him with a 35 yr old. i am now falling very hard for this 35yr old, we;ve spent the gist of these past two weeks together and i can count on one hand the number of times i;ve ... (369 words)

It seems as if I'm payiing all the bills. How do I move forward without resentment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancé just got a job after collecting unemployement for 6 months, he is working for 12/ hr and barley pulling 40 hrs a week. We have 5 kind between us and i feel like I am shouldering everything. He smoked over 2 packs a day and I cant afford to pay for his habits and the ... (107 words)

Suspicious text message. Could he be cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, I am pregnant also. He is besotted with me as I am with him. Last weekend was one of the very few times ever he went out without me, he came home at 1.42am, I know as I looked at the clock. He went out with work mates as it wa... (240 words)

What do you do when your husband says he's lost the spark for you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If your husband calmly tells you that he lost that spark but he hopes he will get it back. What does that mean? At the meantime, you feel unloved, although, well-cared for. What do you do? We are very good friends but I don't remember last time he kissed me like a lover and he ... (70 words)

She is driving me crazier than I ever thought I would go... Help!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused! My boyfriend's sister is a total bitch like half the time she is my friend and half the time she is my enemy! I don't even do anything wrong and she snaps on me!! I do whatever she asks me to, I help her clean her house and watch her kids and everything she ... (108 words)

I don't know what's up with him. What if he calls me this week, what should I say?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of over 2 years decided over a month ago out of the blue that he wanted space. I gave that to him.. I was devastated so headed back to my home country for a month to recover. During that time he would text and email and call frequently. I arrived back in the UK a... (377 words)

How to get back my husband from in-laws?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 year old women and married with a nice guy but he never stands up for me if my in-laws fight with me. Well I tried to make them happy so many times but I can't. I just had 26th week miscarriage but still my in-laws never call or come to see me, my husband knows that ... (97 words)

What signs show love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ive being going out with my gf for about 14 months but on monday the 3rd of march we had a big argument the argument lead me to belive that she doesnt love me any more but how can i tell what signs should i be looking for?????... (48 words)

Love of my life might have to leave.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I really need some advice, I am nearly 19 my girlfriend is 20 we both live in the UK. I am part of the EU but she is here under a student visa from Peru, we have been going out for 5 months now and they have been the best we have ever had and I know deep in my ... (306 words)

He said spending time with me frustrates him because he does actually have feelings for me, yet he just needs some time. How long should I give him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for about two months. We have both just come out of relationships so what was going on between me and his was just a little bit of fun, we saw each other a lot and I would often stay at his house, until recently he said he has got a lot of issue's and ... (113 words)

Part 2 of "Please help me win my husband back!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi thanks to all you answered the question I posted about "Helping me win my husband back" Ok her are some more details. My husband left me 4 weeks ago because of the way I used to treat him, which was lower him down and call him names(But never infront of people)I know, n... (278 words)

I want to ask her to go out for a meal, or a drink, or something. Do you think that's wise or should I just move on and forget it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so heres the story, my girlfriend broke up with me about 10 days ago, because our relationship just faded and we started arguing and becoming short with eachother. The spark was long gone by the end. We tried to get through it for a month, but she said it felt very pressured ... (395 words)

I hate him but I want to be there for him. So confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in colledge and have been dating a guy for a year now, our life was great besides a break in the middle, in which he got cnfused and left me, he says he is a coward and runs away, and suggests that he may be a little scared of commitment or 'geting in too deep'. Our ... (276 words)

Sexually inhibited...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Can some one please help, I am sexually inhibited, my husband is the best lover, he knows me well, but when it comes to talking to him about sex, my wants, desires, fantasies, I clam up and my brain goes into shut down. I do have fantasies in my mind. He has told me his... (180 words)

He used a condom but I'm panicking in case I'm pregnant!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm seventeen, nearly eighteen and my boyfriend and I just started having sex about three weeks ago (it was my first time). I am not on the pill, but he has been using condoms (100% properly). I was worried about pregnancy so on February 29th I took a pregnancy test, ... (211 words)

My so called "friends" are making my life a misery, what can I do to stop this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just under a year ago, me and my best friends of years (all the way through first and middle school) kind of got to the point where we weren't good friends anymore. I would get left out a lot and when I spoke to them about it, it was just a joke to them and they blamed it on me ... (410 words)

He is the one with a declining sex drive. Is this normal? How to address it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a dating/love/life advice question. I am always hearing how men are supposed to have such a raging sex drive, how women are more likely to lose their sex drive in a long-term relationship, how men are more likely to seek sex outside of the relationship and blah blah ... (330 words)

Worried sick about my boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

5 March 2008 (F)

age - Hi need your advice. I have not been talking with my long distance boyfriend now just kind of angry and dissapointed with him cos he's been sick lately and has not been trying to see a doctor. He works his own business and always monitoring his computer. Sometimes neglecti... (445 words)

I would love to be more than just friends with her but does she feel the same way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a friend who I have known now for about 9 months. Gradually over this time, we've become very close. I see her probably 2-3 times a month, mainly at weekends when we go clubbing with all my friends and her friends. Every time we go out, we tend to be together all ... (234 words)

Why would she cheat on me? We had been dating for 7 months at the time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

5 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Earlier today I went on my girlfriend's myspace and started checking her messages because a guy from her past had been talking to her so then I went back to the last time they had talked and I saw her posting shit about me and then out of suspicion I clicked on another ... (130 words)

He's asked me to have "nasal sex!!!" What the hell's that???

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know this is going to sound pretty weird but please help me with my relationship because everything was great until my boyfriend asked if we could have nasal sex. I don't even now what that is or if he's for real but one time he asked for it and since then he won't talk ... (99 words)

Why have I not heard from him since our weekend together?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known my Boyfriend for about 12 years actually he was my first sexual partner, we recently started talking to each other and started dating. He did tell me when he feels like he's getting too close to a person he pulls away because he has been hurt before but he wanted to ... (202 words)

Am I Nuts?

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5 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have a male friend (Mark) who's been very close to us for about 4 years. The 3 of us spend a lot of time together, going to the movies, dinner, weekend trips, etc and my wife and I enjoy his company, respect him and appreciate his friendship. Recently, we had a ... (388 words)

Betrayal - from my boyfriend and my sister!

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay SO! I dated this guy 2 years ago and we had a rocky relationship but we both seemed to care about each other a lot so we worked through it. At one point during our relationship he was really close with my sister, but I trusted him. Finally, I found out through a leaked ... (232 words)

She is highly attracted to muscular guys with six packs!

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5 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My new girlfriend used to be VERY flirty when we liked each other years ago, and after each of us going through relationships we decided to try dating. She said that she has changed, but I'm afraid that when I'm not around she flirts like crazy, she is highly attracted to mus... (99 words)

Why does he bite my arm? What does this mean?

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5 March 2008 (F) - After kissing my boyfriend he occasionally bites my arm. Sometimes it really hurts! What does it mean when he does this?... (21 words)

It really bothers me that he wasn't honest with me...

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5 March 2008 (F) - Last week the guy that I have been talking to asked me to be his girl friend. Before we started dating he mentioned to me that he was not a virgin but that he has only had sex with 2 and they were both his girlfriends. Over some time I have heard different stories from people ... (196 words)

I'm 17 with a 27 year old...

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really good friend that is a guy and he invited me to a party at his place where he rooms with his two cousins. This guy has liked me for a long time and he would give anything to be with me. When I went to this party he had every intention of hooking up with me but I ... (312 words)

He has no money, what else can we do for fun?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Some help please! I'm currently dating someone who is always very low on funds. He's an artist who doesn't have a steady job. I'm completely fine with that, but I just don't know what to do to pass the time. We mostly spend time at my place, but I don't want to bore him. ... (126 words)

Strange clearish discharge when I stand up.

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5 March 2008 (?) age 36-40 - My mother said it happened to her when she was my age but... When I stand up or sit in a certain position, I release a milky-clear fluid from my vagina. I can't really control it...but it's happened before during sex, too. I've heard it is my body's natural way of cleaning ... (89 words)

How do I spot the good ones?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am tired of being alone and would like to meet someone already! I'm not necessarily looking for someone to fall in love with right now, but someone to get to know, spend some time with whos actually a decent human being! I was reading a different post and realized tha... (132 words)

We went on a few dates, and talk regularly...but she just told me she has a boyfriend! Help!

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5 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, There's this girl I like and I think she knows it. We been on a couple of dates and talk regularly. However, she recently told me that she has a boyfriend. I still haven't told her how I feel. What should I do? Thanks for your responses.... (51 words)

Do men like to see pussy lips through a women's shorts?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age - What % of men want to see cameltoe on a woman and why do so many prude women have a problem with it ? Jealousy ? While you judge what looks inapropriate your alright with dresses, tops that display most of your breasts and cleavage and that isn't being a hypocrite ? I think... (113 words)

How do I clarify his feelings towards me?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy and he and i are friends( I think) Well my friend tells him the truth and he doesn't react. Everything seems completely normal between. Let me define normal he stares at me as i walk past and we dont talk at all since meeting last year. he says i love you ... (255 words)

Am I being a good girlfriend or over-controlling when it comes to his marajuana use?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, I am so unbelievably curious if I am a good girlfriend. Okay I have been dating this same guy for 8 months now, and I really do love him. This summer we are both planning to move in together and maybe get married later on. He can be so loving and caring at times, a... (724 words)

How can I get over someone whom I love, but who didn't really appreciate me?

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5 March 2008 (F) age 36-40 - How do I get over him? My first love, my first everything! Of course I didn't want to end it, but I had to. You wouldn't believe the things he told me. He constantly nagged about my past... he knew an ex friend of mine who was abit friendlier... it was a purely sexual th... (313 words)

My new boyfriend leaned against me and put his hand on my shoulder. Why?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl and I just got my first boyfriend. I actually do like him kind of alot(hehe) because he is very sweet to me. He's in my class(13). When I was about to go home(from school)because I didn't feel well, I started to walk towards the door to meet my ... (204 words)

My fiancee and I split up for a while, I then met someone else, but now back with my fiancee, who should I choose?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, the situation is as follows. i have been with my fiance for going on 4 years now, and i truly from the bottom of my heart, not a doubt in my mind, love him. i am totally prepared to spend the rest of my life with him, no questions asked. but theres a problem. we broke up ... (304 words)

I seem to be treated badly wherever I go...What can I do to fit in better?

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5 March 2008 (F)

- im feeling down all the time as where ever i go and what ever sites i go on all i get is abuse with in town i get spat at and abused yelled at me if i try and reach out on the internet all i get is threats some that very scary i try and ask for help from family and all i get it ... (134 words)

He said he really likes me and then turns around and says he has a personal demon...what happened?

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5 March 2008 (F) - I was seeing this guy for a few months and he just broke up with me. We known each another for 3yrs but only been seein each since sept. Now we have always been flirty and he always came on to me. The last time we hangout which was last wed everything was great we ended up goin ... (213 words)

Why do boys/men ejaculate first?

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5 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - how come guys cum first ???... (6 words)

We got back together, and now my friend won't talk to me!

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've got quite a problem on my hands. For one, I recently got back together with my boyfriend and I'm loving every minute of it! But, my one friend doesnt exactly appove of this and stopped speaking to me. I tried many times to try and talk it out with him, but he wont ... (136 words)

Do I sound like I'm in love?

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5 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this girl for around 4 months now and I find myself wanting to see her more and more. I want to be with her so much. My question is this. Does it sound like I am in love with her? It's driving me nuts! Please help!... (49 words)

Does my jealously indicate feelings for my stage director? What should I do?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in between two guys. Joe is 17, and Rob is 19. I've known Joe since October of 2007. We keep flirting on and off, but honestly, there just isn't that spark that i'm looking for. However, i'm giving him a chance, and we're going out this Saturday. I like him, it's just no ... (190 words)

I'm a little neurotic, but he called out another girls name, so I think he may be having an affair, what should I do?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I spent an evening with friends last weekend. We each had a fair amount to drink during the evening. Anyway, my bf was talking to his mate about a trip we were arranging with some of my mates, and my bf called me by another girl’s name. I had had a few ... (588 words)

My workmate and I were sleeping with the same man, only I have found out, should I tell her?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Last year after ending a 20 year marriage i started seeing a guy from work who had been flirting with me for several months, although it had nothing to do with my marriage breakup. He's 20 yrs older and has a partner who he isn't that happy with, and i know i was wrong to rea... (338 words)

My boyfriend and I have been arguing...my guy friend is a great comfort...do I have feelings for him?

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I am in college and my present boyfriend goes to the same school as I do. We have been together for almost two years and we do have a very loving relationship. I know that he would do anything for me. He never fails to tell me that ... (520 words)

Serious After Sex Pain!!!

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5 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I have just had sex with my boyfriend and since then all I want to do is go to the toilet and it hurts when I pee. I'm getting rather worried, I don't want anyone to know I'm not a virgin but I want to find out what's wrong and get rid of the pain. Can any... (68 words)