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writes:I'm a 13 year old girl, well I'm almost 14. Recently since I've been on msn, someone added me on their list. I accepted them because I might know the person. I asked them who they were. He said his name and that he was 26. I told him I was 13. Don't worry, he's not a perv. We just started talking only yesterday and he seems really nice. We talk about alot of nice things. But he said he has feelings for me and that he has a crush on me. I'm only 13 and he's 26. Do you think he's gross to like me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): Ummm. You're 13, he is 26 and he is NOT a perv? I am 13 too and BELIVE ME HE ONLY WANTS SEX! BLOCK AND DELETE HIM! BEFORE HE TALKS YOU INTO MEETING UP! DO NOT! PLEASE i BEG U!
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Hes not a perv?
You started talking to him yesterday and he has said he has feelings for you
Your 13 and hes 26!
Im sorrry hes a perv, no doubt. Block and Delete him from MSN
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Sweety, STAY AWAY FROM MSN. You have no business being on it in the first place. Besides, he may talk you into meeting him or asking questions about where you go to school, live, play, etc...DON'T ANSWER. In fact, DON'T EVER REPLY AGAIN.
HE IS IN THE WRONG and you shouldn't play HIS GAMES. He is the adult and you are the child...there are sicko's in this world and he's probably one of many out there.
STAY CLEAR OF MSN. Where are your parents?????????? Gena
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Unless you lied about your age and look REALLY old for your age, sorry but this guy is not just a perv, he is dangerous.
The way you desribe him and how fast he moves, it just sets of alarm bells.
Go to youtube and watch 'to catch a predator'. Tell me if he doesn't sound an awful lot like the people in that program.
Be very cautious and do not meet him or give him any personal info whatsoever. You wouldn't accept a ride home from a stranger would you, well similar rules apply on the net.
If he is no perv then there should be no problem telling an adult about this.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Be sure to tell your parents; they need to know about this guy. He is not your friend, he is faking that so that you'll trust him. Not everyone on MSN is a decent person, you know.
Stick to talking only to people you actually do know, and make sure your profile is private.
Good luck and take care!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 March 2008):
 You just started talking to him YESTERDAY and already he tells you he has feelings for you? Of course he's a pervert!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Block him!! How do you know he isn't a perv? For all you know, he could be 56, never mind 26. This is thing with strangers on msn. You never know them, and you can't just take their word for who they are.
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (25 March 2008):
 NO NO block him!!!!!!! H.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Sorry love, but if the guy knows your 13 and he is 26, he is most definatly a perv. Block him!!!
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reader, kenny +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Personally i would block him and avoid contact with this man at all costs. You say he is not a perv, but how do you know this?. There is something very very wrong when a 26 year old man says that he has got feelings for a 13 year old child. Cut him off and never speak to him again and tell your parents what has happened. It really is not worth the risk keeping up contact with him, for all we know he could very well be dangerous, its just not worth taking that chance. Leap forward to when you are 26 years old, would you tell a 13 year old you have feelings for them?.
My advice would be to stick talking to people of your own age range.
Good luck, & stay safe x
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Personally, I do. If you were older, say, if you were say; 22 and this guy was 35 maybe this would be acceptable, but given that you're only 13 and he's double your age, this guy should be avoided. Be friends with him online by all means, but I urge you not to pursuit anything more than friendship with him, and remain cautious.
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reader, grumpy1359 +, writes (25 March 2008):
 What do you mean he isnt a perv? How do u no? i say block him but it is all up to u
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