A
female
age
30-35,
*rvica
writes: Hi, I need some advice. There is this guy I met and I really like him. At first I didn't know I liked him but I think he liked me. I'd see him often and had great time talkinn to him. But I was too shy to make a move.Then he droped out of our school and I haven't seen him for maybe 2 months. I realise just how much I like him and miss him. I wanna make a move, but I dunno what to do. I want to see him because I can't stand not seeing him.I did start being friends wit his best friend. Should I ask him for this guy's number? And then what do I say? What if he thinks Im weird? thanx
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (12 April 2008):
I would ask. Confidence is very attractive. Just tell your friend- I haven't talked to him in awhile, I'd like to get in touch- or a variation of that. When you call the guy you like, just say something like "hi! It' been awhile. I just thought about you the other day when _____ happened (or whatever you can think of that would make you think of him, maybe seeing a mutual friend etc) and was wondering how you were?" Doesnt sound weird, just that you want to keep in touch. If you feel weird calling you can always text. I think you will be fine. As long as you dont call and say you something creepy like that you like him or think about him all the time.. lol. Good luck, let me know how it goes.
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