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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It's 7 weeks 'til our wedding day, the nearer it gets ~ the more we're arguing. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age - Its 7 weeks to our wedding day, the nearer it gets the more we are arguing, I have never been married before, never lived with anyone and I have brought up two daughters on my own, always worked. My daughters are mothers, but with their partners but they have never worked. They... (231 words)

I'm so scared I may lose her to this man she had an affair with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age - Several months ago my wife told me that she had been having an affair with a man she works with. I am devastated and really want our marriage to work. She tells me that she's been miserable for a long time and fell in love with this other man. She only told me to ensure it ... (174 words)

What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake? I have been with my wife for 7 years (married 6) and for the last year or two I have been insanely unhappy. I'm in no way perfect, so I won't write the laundry list of thin... (158 words)

I keep thinking to myself: SHES MY FRIEND! I don't want to think about her in black lingerie!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Sigh... I'm 22, not a daft wee boy. Sure as hell feel like one. I have a female friend, and sadly I've developed feelings for her, I now have a crush on her :( I thought that perhaps it was just the fact that it a progression due to the emotional connection we have. I am ne... (275 words)

I need some tips on talking dirty!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - As stupid as this sounds, i don't know how to dirty talk. Can anyone give me some things to say because he told me he loves it when i dirty talk but i honestly suck at it :(... (38 words)

In a relationship, but not over my ex. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I apologize if this is too long... I dated a girl, we'll call her Jane, in high school. She was the sweetest person and it was a pretty great relationship. However, due to her dad's work, she had to move away my sophomore year. We kept in touch even after she moved, but ... (682 words)

Even if I don't get her back, I'm worried she may go off the rails!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i was with my ex for close to 14 months and i did have strong feelings for her and loved her a lot. however we ran into trouble when i had a combination of problems at work,at home but i didn't want to tell her anything about it all and kept it to myself.i never cheated ... (1107 words)

I am very concerned about the size and shape of my breasts, I am 15, will my breasts grow more, and will the shape change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

- this is quite a strange question but im concerned about my breasts. im 15. There small but they dont have the 'breast' look. There just like a triangle off my chest. They dont have the 'drop'. not a 'U' shape. more like a V but sideways. Will they get the breast shape when they ... (147 words)

I have absolutely no confidence, please can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i have absolutely no confidence and cannot have a conversation with girls and some boys. I have a bone displacement in my nose which makes me embarassed and when someone tries to talk to me I try to hide it by looking away, even though they would have probably noticed it alre... (82 words)

Are there any tips for using vibrators?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this sounds a little, um, weird to say, but, I cannot orgasm when I use my vibrator. I start getting pleasure, but then it fades away, and I can barely feel anything. On top of that I find it quite painful when I insert it--I can never find the right angle. Are ther... (64 words)

I don't like being touched... is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've noticed for a while now that I feel very uncomfortable when touched by anyone who is not in my immediate family. Whenever I make physical contact with a friend or anyone else, I get an unpleasant shiver and have to fight the instinct to pull away. For example: me and ... (159 words)

Here I am on top of him next thing I know, I get poked.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - So i finally met my Man for first time....wow he's amazing, he brought me into kay jewlers and bought me a gold diamod ring, he did it when i wasnt looking, i love him but he won't tell me how much he spent or how many Ks it is. Anyway, we went out for a few hours he show... (140 words)

I'm bisexual (f) and I'm falling for one of my best friends. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I dont really know why im posting this, i guess it'll just help!!. Im bisexual(f) and i think im falling for, well, no, i am falling for one of my best friends who is straight unfortuantly;) lol. Anyway i dont want her to know because, well that would just make things weir... (104 words)

How can I stop my boyfriend from worrying about him not pleasing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had an orgasm, i've been having sex with this one guy for a few weeks and he is really worried that i don't enjoy it, which just makes it harder for me to relax. I don't know how to stop him worrying??? ... (47 words)

I can't tell my parents I'm pregnant, what am I going to do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years had sex and i think i might be pregnant, and seeing as i come from a Catholic family i cannot tell my parents. What should i do? Love SOS... (38 words)

Why was he so angry when I kissed him, yet he was happy to have sex with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age - I met a man recently and he wanted sex but i didnt because I held back. We met up recently and when we went I kissed him on the lips and he wasnt too keen I dont mean a long lingering one, just a quick one-and he doesnt want to see me anymore, not because of that. I am sure... (133 words)

I want to marry this man. He is phenominal. But I'm not sure he'll ever ask.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my guy for over a year and a half. We've both been married before. Currently no kids. We're both established. And own our own homes. For the entire length of our relationship I've lived about 100 miles away from him and I basically made the trip to spen... (146 words)

I'm 3 months pregnant and my boyfriend is avoiding my calls. I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 18 and just found out a week ago im 3 months pregnant i told my boyfriend but he's just completely avoiding me he doesn't answer my calls and wont text back i know this mite sound stupid but i dont wanna tell my parents as ive not reli actually been goin out with him but ... (90 words)

I smell fishy after masturbating. Is this normal? Should I go to the doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - when i masterbate the next day i smell of fish i really dont want to go to the doctor but my ex boyfriend was teasing me about it because he made me wet and i smelt then is this normal? please help ... (48 words)

I have a wonderful boyfriend,but I don't feel happy or like my emotions have changed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) age 26-29 - OK,this month,I met a boy on the internet.He's 13, really sweet,and has always made me feel special.I asked him out yesterday,and this morning,he said yes.I was excited when he said yes,but it feels like nothing's changed.I don't feel different.I'm usually so happy when I h... (141 words)

I get upset when my BF starts joking with his friends' girlfriends, could you offer your point of view?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I do not know if I am the problem or not but everytime we meet with my boyfriends' friends I get upset that my boyfriend starts joking with their girlfriends. I feel not respected and the problem is that one of them even touches my boyfriend or sits next to him. It makes me s... (96 words)

She reacted so adversely when I asked for more intimacy that I felt like a pervert! Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi everyone, ive posted a few things on here and you all be very helpfull... me and my girlfriend are very intimate at the moment and i came out with totaly the wrong thing the other day when i was intimate with her i asked her if she wanted to be more intimate.. she flew off... (274 words)

I protect my friend when he is being bullied and he gets mad at me! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My best guy friend is being abused by a girl. She used to pick me but it stopped by just ignoring her and not reacting at all. But hes not doing what I did. My other guy friend (most of my friends are guys)are standing by him nonstop. But for some reason he's getting mad at m... (93 words)

My ex had the opportunity to break up from his GF as promised, but he did not do so! Can I trust that he will?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya well i told my ex i still loved him and he told me he did too. but he hasn't dumped his gf yet. but he says he will.then his mate told his gf that she was dumped she asked him and said that it wasn't true. that was his perfect oppurtunity that he could have, but he didnt... (92 words)

I love her and care for her, but I feel like I'm being suffocated; I tried telling her this before, but she burst into tears.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have always sucked at this part and am not sure what to do... I'm 31 and have been dating a girl for about 15 months now. She's also 31, very nice, and we share a great deal in common. There have been some issues since the beginning of our relationship that have caught... (330 words)

I don't know what is happening to me or what I should do about either of these two guys!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, this is really complicated. i'm in love with this lad who i've been good friends with for 2 years, we have talked about seeing each other but he's worried about the age difference, i'm 16 and he's 21, but he still talks to me all the time, even though 2 weeks ago he got... (122 words)

Silly things lead to my boyfriend to distrust me, can I hope that he changes? I have always been truthful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am divorce have an 8 years daughter, after my marriage I stayed single for almost 4 years, then I met my boyfriend online 3 years ago, eventually he moved in with me because I did not want to get married again. The first year was so happy I though he was my soul mate, after ... (889 words)

When should our anniversary be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) age 36-40 - When should our anniversary be? We knew each other online for ages before eventually meeting. We were supposed to just meet as friends as I had a boyfriend at the time, but we ended up getting on so well and ended up kissing and I realised I had to leave my boyfriend (who I had ... (154 words)

I don't know how to react to my friend saying she is bisexual and that she likes me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there....well the other night I was texting my friend Rachel and she told me she was bisexual. Then I asked her if she liked anyone...and she said she likes me. I wasn't creeped out or anything I was just...I don't know what I was thinking! I didn't know how to react and I ... (70 words)

My heart is saying take him back, my head is saying I am a loser for thinking of it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - myself and both this guy i like both broke up with out partners for each other our 6 month relationship was one struggle after the next. I gave him 3 chances in that 6 months we broke up about 3 weeks ago and now he wants me back. while we were broke up he got back with his ex ... (101 words)

How does she keep getting more support?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Does anyone know the child support laws in TX. I have been with my BF for four years and his ex (baby mama) is trying to get back at him for being with me, so she keeps trying to up his child support payments. He already pays for two children and bring home less than 40% a ... (134 words)

Why, if I reat them the same way, does the guy I don't care about want me and the guy I really like not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - heres an intresting thought.... somone ie me, acts the following way with men.... when your with them, you are good, you give them all the space they need, by that i mean that you let them do all the chasing, (you put the effort in still the same) you dn't txt them unt... (403 words)

He cheated and says he is sorry. But is he really?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 3.5 years recently went on a weekend away to Europe with his friends. When he came back I found text messages from a girl he had slept with. He was drinking for 12 hours and he took 3 E tabs that night and remembers nothing at all, only wakening up the ... (106 words)

I have pain when he penetrates very deeply, during intercourse, why does it hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - why does it hurt when he goes really deep, like all the way in? is he hitting my cervix?... (19 words)

Help, I need ideas for a gift for my boyfriend, for our three month anniversary, please give me a few ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey its mine and my boyfriends 3 month anniveersary next week and we've said we would buy presents and make it a special day..as you do. However I'm stuck! I know hes well into music and aftershave...but there just basic things that anyone could get him...I need something d... (63 words)

My three friends and I would like four cute names of party drinks, to be placed on our school jerseys, please help us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So this isnt a love or sex question but its something that i could really use your help on. My school has these jerseys that the junior and senior girls get and you get to put what ever you want on the back of them like it can say what ever you want and it can be more than one ... (168 words)

My husband's male friend is at our home, almost every other weekend, our sexual acts have changed, could my husband be cheating on me with his male friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a best friend that he hangs out with all of the time. He has recently gotten to the point where he goes outside to talk with him. I came home one day on my lunch break and when his friend called he was speaking in codes, and finally made it clear to his friend ... (184 words)

He loves pornography, if I start behaving in bed like a porn star, will he stop watching the pornography?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know my boyfriend loves me, but if I start acting like a porn star in bed and doing all the acts he enjoys watching in porn, will he begin to lose interest in porn and stop watching it altogether? I've lost weight and now I'm thin like the girls he enjoys watching, but should ... (62 words)

We broke up, have had no contact, saw him at a function, he said nothing, just looked at me, and left early, I want to be friends, but cannot bring myself to contact him, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

- Hi there. I am hoping the great agony aunts can help me here. The answers are great and so prompt so thanks in advance. My ex and I had a pretty fiery breakup at the beginning of June. I was upset, he was upset and we have had no contact at all for going on two months now. ... (204 words)

We constantly fight, I am losing interest, he blames me for almost everything, it's getting on my nerves, we are to move in together, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't stop fighting with my boyfriend. We've always fought, at least once every other day, for the entire time we've been together. And I mean that, even before we were boyfriend and girlfriend, we were fighting. So now we've been together for a year and 5 months... (421 words)

My girlfriend never has time for me, it's either her friends, or she is out of town, I am beginning to distance myself, how do I tell her how I feel? he

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, I have an issue with my girlfriend. She's been out of town almost every other week during the summer and when she gets back she wants to of course catch up with her friends and stuff (which I totally understand) but she can never hangout during the day because she has erra... (219 words)

I want to have more of a relationship with him, but not sure he really likes me, he is a bit cool towards me, should I pursue it or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age - I'm a gay Caucasian guy and met a gay Korean guy 3 months ago. At first he would call and return my calls once or twice a week only since he is truly busy everyday working till late and studying. I have more time but don't call more than once a week (not to bother him) to make ... (298 words)

We went through an awful break-up, it's been a couple of months, I want to give it another try, any suggestions, as to how to go about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, My boyfriend and I broke up in May. We were very much in love, but it was a first real relationship for both of us and was long distance. On top of that, both of us are very conflict-avoidant and dated for a year with the assumption we would be together, it was... (393 words)

He broke up with me when he came back from holiday. Should I tell him how much I want him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy, Im a 15 year old girl and i need some help please... My boyfriend broke up with me 2days ago. We had only been together 6 weeks but i liked him so much. he said it was because he doesnt like me as much as he did and he would rather us just be friends even tho he stil... (212 words)

We are more like friends than a couple now. Is it time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and in the past 6 months our sex life has gone completly, even kisses and cuddles have gone. I have tried more or less everything. We are more like friends now as we have nothing in common like we use to and both want different ... (66 words)

I have trust issues. I've fallen for a friend, he's bi. I don't want to ruin everything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know if you are completely over your ex boyfriend? My ex boyfriend dumped me, then a day later him and my best friend (of 19 years) were going out together. It broke my heart as I lost two people at once :( It was an awful time for me- now they have split up a... (217 words)

My vibrator is making me feel uncomfortable when I get close to orgasm.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have not been masturbating for very long. (about two weeks and it is with a rabbit style vibrator) I come very close but I find the vibrating is too intense so I have to stop! I have not had an orgasm before. I would like to but when I get very close to orgasm my clitoris ... (121 words)

21 and still a virgin. What can I expect for my first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm a 21 year old female. I have recently gotten together with my first boyfriend, who is 23. We spent the night together last saturday but decided to stop and not to have sex just yet. I am a virgin, he is not. But i haven't told him so, and to be honest, don't thi... (140 words)

I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year ago I met this wonderful sexy ... (477 words)

I fought with his ex. Will I ever hear from him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a guy who chased me for a year only for me to find out he was still sleeping with someone who was suppose to be his ex. then he supposedly told her it was over but would still stay down her house on the weekend end it drove me crazy. so i went to her house we got into a ... (85 words)

Should I hold back, and only say "I love you" as much as he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Been with my boyfriend 3 months and he recently told me he loves me which was amazing as I felt the same way so I told him back! Now since then he doesn't say it very often, and I've found myself telling him that I love him more than he has told me, which surprised me as ... (217 words)

I have brown discharge before my period. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - is brown discharge normal? i seem to get this usaully before my period is it normal??... (17 words)

The word 'cousin' is keeping him apart from me, I've never felt love like this before!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age - I have fallen totally in love with my 1st cousin and he feels the same but he feels he cant move forward with me because of the word cousin,we have always had a special bond between us and have only just recently meet up at a relatives funeral after 30 years and from there on ... (193 words)

We met online, he just told me he loved me, we're going to meet up soon. But will it work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy on habbo about 2 and half years ago now. We started speaking on msn then too. Now he's the same age as me. And i have developed strong feeling over the past years or so and the other day he was tipsy and he said 'sorry i'm a little tipsy, but i think of it as a ... (124 words)

I feel like my life is going nowhere.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

- im 25 years old and i feel like my life is going nowhere. Ever since I was 18 I have been trying to become a model and have been turned down every time. Unfortunately I am very short and this is my downfall. I am also a singer and have taken part in a few auditions but have ... (207 words)

I just can't seem to get how I feel about him out in words!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If a guy asks you how do you feel about him what do you say. I know how i feel i just cant seem to get it out in words.... (30 words)

My husband doesn't know I've never had an orgasm because I fake it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, well,eva since i started having sex,which is a long time now,i ve never had an orgasm,i mean never.am married with two kids and my husband doesnt know cos i fake it!!!i dont want to hurt his feelings!! i do have feelings though when i put my pillow between my legs and imag... (77 words)

How do you know if you are ready for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - how do you know if your ready for sex???... (9 words)

What is sexual contact, and is it illegal to have any sexual contact with someone under 16?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i just wondering if u could help me what is sexual contact??? is it illgal to have any sexual contact with a person who is younger than 16? ... (33 words)

I don't feel any desire for my husband, it's like he's a family member!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has been working abroad for more than a year. We never had a sex life that you can call "great" to begin with. We love each other and are attracted to one another, but not in the knee-weakening, eyes meeting across the room and every-touch-communicating-sex way! We ... (293 words)

I get a lot of sleep, but I'm always tired, how do I get my mom to take me to the doctor?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this isn't about love or sex or any relationships.. But I still need some help.. I sleep A LOT and I'm not sure whats wrong with me, my mom wont let me go to the doctor or anything to get checked because she just thinks it's the way I sleep, I think I sleep normal, l... (151 words)

He always has to take over at some point during manual or oral stimulation and finish off the job himself - is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Is it normal that I can't make my boyfriend cum by hand or oral? I can get him really really aroused but he always ends up finshing off himself by hand or by sex. I am pretty sure I'm doing it right, going fast etc, but I go for so long I just get completley exhausted and he h... (114 words)

I feel better about my looks and I think I'm ready for a boyfriend - how do I go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey. My problem is pretty simple really, so here it goes :) I used to feel really depressed about the way I looked. I always used to look in the mirror and think "Urgh, Im so ugly". I never used to give eye-contact with people when they were talking to me because I was afraid ... (168 words)

Knowing she has had one night stands makes me wonder if the rumours about her cheating on me are true...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been going out with my g/f for 7 months now. I love her to bits and am thinking of proposing to her. We communicate really well and one day she told me how many one night stands shes had and how many partners she's had. I even know some of them, and they didn't deserve ... (146 words)

After a long term relationship, what's an acceptable "moving on" time period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Just wondering what people's idea's are on an acceptable 'moving on' time period after a long term relationship ends. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years 6 weeks ago as I fell out of love with him and now I'm in another relationship already which is getting quite serious. ... (138 words)

My sister ruins everything for me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - my sister really winds me up, she ruins everything for me and when i say everything i mean EVERYTHING shes such a tart! shes 13, yes only 13! and shes going out with a 17 year old who shes been with for 3 months and is already having sex with him, she sleeps with almost every ... (540 words)

Any good ideas for truth or dare questions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what are some really good truth question? (from the game truth or dare) thx B... (17 words)

Am I justified in saying I can't return to Canada with my wife when my kids are here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm currently married to a Canadian woman who has a 14 year old son from a previous relationship who lives with his father in Canada. I have 3 children from a previous marriage who are 16, 15 and 12 who live with my ex wife. We have been married for nearly 5 years and in all ... (416 words)

Should my mum go back to my dad and who should I live with?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My mom was telling me about when she was young she got married to this man and that man ... is my dad... he would always put her down... and he got her young and still a virgin... he never would tell my mom "honey I love you" or at least a thank you... he took her for gr... (617 words)

I had an affair but want things to work wit my abusive husband so do I tell him?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, So here goes a long story. Ive been married for 9years, about two yrs ago things started to go a bit stale, my husband and i did very little together, it felt like we were living separte lives, anytime i tried to discuss it he would just say i was being stupid and ... (233 words)

He's lied once - does that mean he's cheating?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, it has been good most of the time apart from his female best friend constantly taking advantage of him, we have got over this. Recently, his mother has become ill and he had to move home 5 hours away from me but he has ... (130 words)

Not ready for sex and too scared to tell my boyfriend...

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im not ready to have sex but my boyfriend is and i don't want to tell him what should i do... (21 words)

My doctor stopped my valium. I'm worried about suffering adverse effects.

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it wise for a doctor to suddenly stop valium (2-4mg a day) that I have been taking for about 3 weeks. Before then I was taking 2mg when required. This has increased. My doctor (who was far from sympathetic, and who I don't normally see, new to my practice) said it was such... (140 words)

My brother is hooked on cocaine. Is there anyone in the same situation who can give advice?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Have asked a similar question some time ago, but wondered if there were anymore new mothers in similar situations out there. My 26 yr old brother is hooked on cocaine. Our mum keeps hold of his bank card so that when his benefits go in she can take him shopping, because ... (594 words)

Can one ignore her first and only sexual experience, an unpleasant one, and consider herself a virgin?

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29 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - if losing your virginity is a state of mind is it acceptable for a girl to want to ignor her first intercourse (being unpleasent one) and concider her self still a vigin untill willingly giving her self, (it only being her second time?) [Added from the same user] my girlfrie... (176 words)

Are these signs of becoming pregant?...

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - can i be pregnant??cause bout a week now i been sleepy,lazy..wanna cry for no reason..senitive..feels like i wanna thow up but dont..waking up with deadaches..my tummy is always turning..are these signs of becoming pregant??... (34 words)

Am I wrong for making my boyfriend stop talking to these girls?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright my boyfrien and i have cellphones when i met him he had girls number and so did I have guys numbers.We didn't start caring untill we started to fall in love. I made him clear out his numbers and i cleared out mine but alot of his numbers we're from friends and olf ... (65 words)

What does losing your virginity mean?

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29 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a question about losing your Virginity, when exsactly does a girl lose it i've heard it's upon penetration but can that be penetration with any objest or does it only count if its with a penis? what does losing your Virginity actualy meen?... (56 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant and I don't find her sexually attractive anymore... how do I deal?

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29 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is pregnant. She's about 4 months along, and her stomach is getting bigger. I think it's glorious that she's carrying our child but for the past month or so I haven't found her very sexually attractive. I have started flirting with a woman at work, I can't help ... (122 words)

My girlfriend is refusing to give me oral unless I shave, what do I do?

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29 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf is refusing to give me a blow job unless i start shaving. what should i do? I'm also woried about accidentally cutting myself. Plz help me out.... (29 words)

He's mean to me but I can't leave... what can I do?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend, always plays games instead of talking to me, it makes me sad but he always says "oh its jut this one time" he's mean to me a lot too,(I wont go inot details) but im really in love with him and if i even think of leaving i make myself cry and depressed, but ... (78 words)

Where can you get married at 16 without parental consent?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, well i needs some questions answered if you can help? well i need to know: were can you get married at the age of sixteen without you parents consent?... (30 words)

How can I shave my pubes?

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29 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I shave my pubes? What kind of designs can I make any ideas? Need you advice please help ... (20 words)

Is asking my boyfriend for oral sex unfair?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a virgin, which my boyfriend knows, but we have had anal. There are a lot of reasons I don't want to have sex with him that I won't include here. But one thing is that he's small in that department (I can't imagine that I would honestly feel anything). Anyway, because ... (170 words)

I'm 14, and I want a baby... I really feel ready, but I'm catholic... what do I do?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. well i'm fourteen. and i really want a baby. i had a dream about it the other nite and i was so happy adn i was shopping for stuff liek a baby blanket and a nuk, and i was so happy i just kept holding my stomach. there is a few problems. one is i;m catholic and i cant ... (282 words)

My best friend is in love with a jerk, how can I help her?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i seriously need help... my best friend has pretty much fallen in love with a idiot. he treats her like shit, and they don't even go out. he is so mean to her and her friends. and he even told her that he talks to other girls like that and he's going to go out with one of his ... (239 words)

My wife is talking to an old lover, should I feel jealous?

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29 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife said she loves me but is not IN love with me. She said I didn't pay attention to her just after I found out I have MS. Now shes talking to an old lover, but said they are "Just Friends". how should I feel? I had a bad time for about a year or so finding out about the ... (66 words)

I don't make any noises during sex... should I fake it?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Note: I am a girl. So, I have recently become "sexually active" as they say. What I've realised is, despite thoroughly enjoying myself, I don't ever make any sex noises. Is this a big deal? Is anyone else quiet during sex/oral/fingering? Do guys care a lot about this? What... (98 words)

How do I stop my jealousy?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm soo jealous over my boyfriend,how can I stop?... (9 words)

Why do guys say they love you and then push you away?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why do guys say i love you then do things to push or keep you away?... (16 words)

How do I ask her to shave down there without her getting mad?

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29 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend are both 15,we've had oral sex together, and she doesnt shave and i want to ask her without her getting mad so how do i?... (29 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm not a virgin? Will he still accept me?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How will I tell my boyriend that I am no longer a virgin?will he still accept me as I am? ... (20 words)

How do I squirt?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've tried to squirt a few times now, by myself, I tried using my fingers--which I didn't really feel a terriffic 'G-Spot' (and I am not sure where it is because 1-2 inches into my vagina doesn't feel ULTRA SENSITIVE) And my fingers didn't feel as good as my boyfriends or when ... (187 words)

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant months before we got together. How do I deal?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am kinda in a bind here. My boyfriend got two girls pregnent before we met heres the gist of it. I met this guy online and he started coming down to see me every week. We got real close and eventually moved in together after several months. Before I moved in with him we ... (472 words)

My husband and I had the exact same dream one night... What's happening?

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29 July 2008 (F) age 51-59 - I had a very strange experience. Me and my husband had the same dream one night. And when we woke up at morning and shared it, we couldn't believe it. No ,we didn't have any indication, like watching a movie, or talking about something like this. So I really didn't find any ... (114 words)

Is it normal for the woman to pay for everything in a relationship?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay my boyfriend and i have been together for about three months and i just want to know if its normal for the woman to pay for almost everything. WAIT...i know what ur gonna say "hes a feeloader" "hes not worth it" But i love him with all of my heart he is one of the best men ... (135 words)

He kissed me at a party... does he like me?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a male friend that is sometimes very talkative and shares a lot of his life with me. Other times it's like he hardly knows me. I think he is moody, but I sometimes take it personally. We were at a party not too long ago (for a mutual friend - not as a couple) and he ... (145 words)

Do Guys Really Just Need Time to Grow Up Sometimes, or Is This a Myth?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible for a guy to just need time to mature, to get to the point where he's ready to be in a real relationship? Or is it the case that, if the right girl comes along, he'll be ready? I dated a guy for a long time. Eventually, we broke up. We were just never in th... (518 words)

He was VERY experimental with his last girlfriend... what can I do to really wow him in bed?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd really appreciate some sex tips from anyone that can give them. I've recently started dating a guy who I like A LOT. He's attractive, really sweet, and treats me great. I'd really like to see this relationship last a long time. But I'm a little worried about our sex li... (278 words)

My boyfriend has become abusive and controlling since he found out I wasn't a virgin. Help!

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i need help. there are many people on this site who ask this same question: what should i do my boyfriend is controlling i dont have a life. What should i do? But see, my boyfriend of a year and a half is mentally abusive hes selfish, he goes out behind my back, if he tells me ... (425 words)

I do not know how much longer my husband is going to put up with my trust issues

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I will start off by saying that I am a very jealous person. I am 28 yrs old and have been with my husband going on 12 years. We have been married for almost 6 yrs. My problem is this and I hope someone can give me some advice. My husband is a wonderful man. But everything ... (368 words)

I recently found out that I was pregnant and now he thinks we should get married ?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years and we love each other very much. I recently found out that I was pregnant and now he thinks we should get married but I don't think I'm ready to get married. I don't think I ever want to get married and I can see how ... (68 words)

Any woman in there 30's have trouble orgasm after DIVORCE from a long term relationship?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Any woman in there 30's have trouble orgasm after DIVORCE from a long term relationship??? I always did with my ex but with new partner i have to use vibrators,he is much younger than me, by 10 yrs. any advice or help???? thanx ladies, plz share ur experience with me.... (51 words)

I'm 19, shes 17, we want to date, how can we tell our parents so they will let us

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29 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so there is a girl i like, i am 19 and a sophmore in college, she is 17 and a junior in high school. The trouble is the gap between our school grades is alot larger than our ages, but were afraid that wont matter with her parents. We want to date so badly right now, but we ... (164 words)

My boyfriends birthday is coming and I have no idea what to get him-any suggestions?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfreinds birthday is coming out and i have no idea what to get him.He is a country boy ..I want to get him something special that he can keep and something that means something but i have no idea what that could be...If anyone has got some idea on what i could get him that ... (72 words)

Girl I want claims to only "like the attention" she gets from me, how do I change this?

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29 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so there is a girl I have been talking to for about 2 years now, we have gotten very close to dating several times, but every time we get close, she claims that she "only likes the attention she gets from me." At first, I tried complimenting her alot, and making alot of ... (109 words)

Will I become just a sex object for my boyfriend?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I have been having this relationship with this guy, he is wonderful with me, he does everything to please me, we always have great time together, we have been together for a little bit more than 5 months, so when we had 3 months of relationship we had sex for the first ... (130 words)

What should I do about my relationship with my married boyfriend?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - iam in love with a married turkis man he is great to me and loves me he knows that i dont ave any money and knows that iam a single parent ..and he loves me for who i am hes been the best boyfriend ever ,,he loves me and my daughter to bits ,,iam even going to see him on the ... (121 words)

Why do tears come out during sex? Do men like it?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - During sex i cant help but my tears came out, what is the reason for that? is it because im over whelmed, happy or what? is man happy to see when their partner have a tears when they have sex?? please answerrrrrrrrrr... (42 words)

Should I leave my possessive girlfriend?

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29 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Its not that im scared of a long term relationship, but ive been goin out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and shes always seemed to be a bit posessive of my time. eg. if iw ant to go out ona lads night she would text me every ten minutes. she'd later claim that... (137 words)

Has my long distance boyfriend lost interest, or am I overreacting?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - So this is my 1st relationship at that a long distance relationship, my bf and i have been together for 3 months.... we used to talk all the time, like i said a few questions ago he wants to marry me, but now i feel like he's not atracted to me anymore he hasnt said much to me ... (210 words)

He's sending me mixed signals long distance. What should I do?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known ‘John’ for 10 years. Our dads are best buddies. Unfortunately, we didn't get the chance to meet up often as distance set us apart (we are frm different states). Besides, he's studying Medicine in a American Uni while im still in my home country (in Asia). We g... (654 words)

My boyfriend and I disagree over my use of social network sites. Does he love me?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey people.am seeking your advice on what i should do.i have a boyfriend but he is not that supportive with me when it comes to me joining any social network in the internet. While him hes there in all the social network.i support him and in all those networks am in i do add ... (240 words)

Is age just a number?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been single for an year and a half now after a 5 1/2 year realtionship which i had to run away from because of domestic abuse. Im scared of being hurt again like that and this is why im asking for some advice im 22 this guy likes me and i like him but im worried beacuse hes ... (80 words)

How do I make the move from friendship to relationship?

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29 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure how to ask this. I feel I'm far to old to not already know the answer myself, but ... there you go. Basically, how exactly does one make the transition from friendship to a relationship? The young lady in question and I flirt constantly, are always complimen... (148 words)

He came in the condom and had me continue. What are the chance of being pregnant?

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29 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I have a slight um worry if you will. I have been off my period for 2 days and i had protected sex with my boyfriend. However he came in the condom and had me continue, i think some of the cum might have leaked out... but i am not sure whats the chances of me being pr... (74 words)