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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to be with someone who doesn't treat me horribly, but I love my boyfriend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and eight months now and having arguments has always been our "thing"; anyone who knows us knows this. We never intended for that to happen, though, we just disagree on really one thing: Who's to blame for starting an argument. But ... (217 words)

A girl said she loved my boyfriend, now I am being hysterical. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just told me a girl at work made him a card say "I love you *his name*" and hugged him, andi cant stop crying and idont know why. Why am i sp upset? i know he loves me and wouldnt chest but i still cant sto p crying :(... (51 words)

Another ten with an Am I Pregnant question?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I think I may be pregnant. My last period started on June 22, 2008. I had unprotected sex on July 5th, 2008.it is july 30th and I still have not got my period. A few days after we had sex I had blood spotting but only for a day or 2.now I am having a vaginal ... (111 words)

His parents hate me and control him. What do we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

- My friend i've liked alot we got together and for a week it was good, but i found out his mother hated me, took his phone off him and because he hasnt got a job stopped all his money just so he couldn't see me (he's 18). So i broke up with him and it hurt really bad cos he's ... (119 words)

My husband had an affair and now she's pregnant! Where do we go from here?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age - Let me explain more in detail I am 46 my husband Is 36 we have been together for 12 years. I have 2 kids from a previous relationship. He want children but I can't give him any.He recently had an affair like 5 months ago. now shes pregnant,and of course he wants to do the right ... (99 words)

I think these women are after my husband...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age - Me and my husband have a large group of friends. We all meet up for events in our area and have a good time, but lately i have become suspicious of him. My best friend lives down the road and we get on great and most of the time it is just us and her. We go out for meals, i... (562 words)

My online guy is pressuring my for naughty photos... is this a bad sign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

- Theres this guy who I have been chatting to on msn, from an online dating website. We havent actually met yet cause he lives in a different city, but closer to the end of the year, I already had plans to move to his city for university, so we will meet then. Anyway,... (382 words)

What does a girl do when she's on top?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do when I'm on top!! help! ... (11 words)

Do men find strectch marks a turn off in women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, This is one for the guys: Do you find stretch marks a turn off on a woman?... (24 words)

I'm being pressured to start a family by my older girlfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Am i a freak because i will not have unprotected sex with my girlfriend and try and start a family? I am 15 and she is 19 and wants to start a family with me, but i am only younge and want to get a job and to be able to surport them both. I have never had sex before or eve... (116 words)

My girlfriend's flatmates hate me - how do I change that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have been going out with my girlfriend for a few months...and already there's a problem; her flatmates hate me. We are both 22, and she lives with a group of girls who seriously have it in for me! They constantly jibe at me, tell me she deserves better, ign... (166 words)

Should I leave my abusive relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi I need some advice i have been with my boyfriend for 14years since i was 14. about 5 years ago we went through a rough patch and he used to ge violent and call me nasty names, which i put up with as i was still young , then 3 years ago just as i was thinking of leav... (221 words)

I like my boyfriend's best friend....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I am a 22 year old woman, I am currently with the father of my baby, we have been together for 6 years now. At the beginig of 2008 I found he had been cheating on me with his ex... (complicated right?) Well, in this years he has been really negletive of me... (and it do... (289 words)

Old guy or new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im really confused right now. The guy I wanted to marry wasn't trying hard enough. Our culture is a little diff. The parents didn't approve. we sitill stayed together but he isnt trying...if i ask him to try hes like...yes ill try my best...but now i just think..wats... (305 words)

Has anyone had orthadontic surgery?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not a relationship question but i'd really appreciate some replies. The Orthodontic recommended i have oral surgery to level out my top and bottom jaw (The top is bigger than the bottom) due to this, I have like a gummy smile as the upper lip doesn't stetch out far e... (134 words)

Trying to exercise my PC muscle - any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a guy and I'm trying to strengthen my pc muscle. I can't really find it but think i have. When i squeeze the muscle my penis kind of feels like it lifts slightly Is this right? Are there any other methods to exercise the muscle? Thanks... (62 words)

My ex cheated on me and we broke up, but I still can't stop think about her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently finished with my girlfriend who was cheating on me with another boy. She denied it all and we are still apart because of this. I have met a couple of girls since we have finished but I feel nothing for them and all i can think about is my ex. I know if I got back ... (79 words)

Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers when you're only 13?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers? I am 13 and I have quite a few friends who are teachers, I sometimes have lunch with them, I have some of their e-mail addresses and even get hugs off them. They joke around with me and they tell me I am 1 in a million (... (90 words)

Despite warning about this lad and knowing that he's no good - I can't stay away from him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I know I risk sounding naive in this question, but I need some answers really badly. Ok, my problem mainly involves me, my best friend and a boy (I say boy, but he's 18 nearly 19 so this classes him as a man). Im about to turn 16 and have a boy mate who is almost 19. We've be ... (292 words)

Best not to contact him, stay silent and see if he contacts me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age - I have been a bit too full on with this guy and contacting him too often and I think he is fed up with it-so I feel like giving it one last shot and try the reverse and hold back and be hard to get. Do you think it could be worth a try in the old saying of play hard to get and ... (184 words)

Will the nurse give me a pregnancy test at the appointment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago, my boyfriend and I were cuddling without any clothes on … he pre-came near - but not in - my vagina. The next day, I got the morning-after pill, just in case. I’m on the contraceptive pill, and on my week break, but I’ve not yet had a period. I was also ... (108 words)

My newly religious exhusband told our daughters that I and my new boyfriend are going to hell! How do I unring this bell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was married to a man for about 6 years and we have two daughters together (one 8, one 6). We got divorced a couple of years ago (we weren't getting along, and the divorce was pretty messy). Now, I take care of the kids most of the time, but he has them every other weekend. I... (475 words)

He hasn't said he loves me the last couple times we said goodbye. Is he out of love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I know you may think I'm a stupid school girl, but I'm a stupid school girl that'd rip her heart out if it would mean not letting him get hurt. My problem is I think I'm over re-acting, my boyfriend usually tells me he loves me when he says good bye, but he hasn't done ... (66 words)

My boyfriend won't live with me even though we've been together for ages!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years and in a few months we are both moving to the same city for work (we lived in the same city for 3 years, pretty much next door to one another then have been long distance this last year). Our relationship is great in almost ... (349 words)

He wants to have a baby with another woman, how do I stop from losing my husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age - Ive been with my husband for 12years.I can not have kids.I do have 2 but not his. He really wants kids. so 5 months ago he went out and met this woman now shes pregnant. now he tells me he must leave me because she wont keep the child if he keeps seeing me. so he says he wants ... (93 words)

My ex boyfriend, now married, tells me he has wanted a divorce for a long time. Should I just avoid him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Let me start by telling a bit of the past. Many years ago, approximately 14 yrs ago I had this boyfriend and we were pretty serious and very close. We dated for almost a year and we broke up because my Mother demanded that we do so and would punish me otherwise. Not so long ago... (240 words)

He said he doesn't know what he wants and he distanced himself from me. I don't know why.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, After being single from a guy I really loved for over 6 months I finally met a really nice guy. His names andrew, hes 22 and Im 27. He works as a care worker and I am a teacher, we have lots in common and get on very well. We have met several times, been out ... (124 words)

Why did he push me away so drastically - couldn't he have given me an ultimatum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age - I knew this man for a short time and we never had sex purely because I dont give the goods away too quick. he contacted me a few times by e mail and we met up again for a short while as he was off on a business meeting. In the e mail I told himn I was starting to have... (332 words)

When I talk to a girl I like I get shy and freeze up. I don't understand why.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have some confidnce on pretty girls cute popular i mean they like me but when im gonna try talk to the girl i like i get shy and stop talking.. i just dont get it ... (36 words)

I can't figure out what this man wants from me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently started "seeing" a man I used have feelings for. Now I can't figure out what he wants. He says he is looking for a serious relationship, but I'm afraid he's just spending time with me until he finds what he's looking for. When we are together he is all sweet and ... (78 words)

My online girlfriend won't come and meet me and wants me to go there. Is that normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hey Im 15 I have met this girl on the internet and i really like and she really likes me to. She live 2 houres away from me by train but only 45 minutes by car. I asked is she could get in her car and come and met me but she said no she wants me to go to where she lives.... (163 words)

Shall I respond to ex who doesn't want me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

- My ex g\f finished relationship about 4 months ago. She doesn't want be back but still likes to contact me every few weeks to say hi and how are you. Two weeks ago she wrote but i haven't replied because being in touch hurts me. Shall I just not respond? or respond with a f... (88 words)

I love a man who is still married, but separated for 10 years, his wife will not sign divorce papers, I want to marry him, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am a 24 year old lady that has been dating a special man for over two years. A month ago, I found out that he was still married to his "ex-wife" but they have been separated for ten years. She has moved on to someone else and had another child. He feels that I am ... (161 words)

What do I do about knowing my girl is lying to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, i already asked a question earlier and got some good responses thanks. im going to change my question as i have had time to think. me and my g/f of 9 years have never had it easy as regards to our relationship. she is a very dishonest perosn and i think she lies too much.... (326 words)

We are both young, but we want to get married, please give us your opinion on our situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm 21 years old and my fiance is 20 although alot of ppl think we are still to yong to get married we've thought about it and talked about it and have come to the conclution that we just can live without eachother and we want to get married. we dont want kids right away (we ... (80 words)

I'm 14 and find it hard to converse with my family. Can anyone help me out please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 14 and when i have to talk to my family i really dont no what to say. it ends up to be an awkard scilence whenever im in a room alone. well im going to my auntys for the day tomorrow and im scared that im gonna not know what to say. what shall i do?... (57 words)

I'm 8 months pregnant and he is calling other girls on line the pet names he calls me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think my boyfriend is cheating on me im 8months pregnent and i dont know what to do. he left his myspace screen up and i went in took a look in his messages he's calling these other girls baby and sexy and tells them that their fine and it hurts me to look at them cause he ... (79 words)

How can I deal with knowing I can't see my mother till Christmas (my parents are divorced)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 13 going to be 14 soon, but when I was 3 my parents got a divorce, and now my mom lives 6 hrs away and I only see during holidays and this summer I stayed with her for 3 weeks and i returned a few days ago. but as soon as I said good bye I just ran to my room and just moped ... (92 words)

She sees me more than she sees her boyfriend, the gift and the way she talks about him makes me wonder if she likes me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Posted the first part before, at here, under the title - "I don't want to interfere if he makes her happy, but I don't know how much longer he will keep it up.": http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-want-to-interfere-if-he-makes.html Now. What to do? Should she know ho... (434 words)

I am not sure I ever had an orgasm though we have a very active sex life...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my fiance and i have been together fo 2 1/2 years now and we have a very active sex life, but i'm not sure if i've ever had an orgasem. i dont know what one is he is the first person i ever had sex with so i dont know when i get one iv'e also heard that youre suposed to squirt? ... (82 words)

He left me to get back with his ex, he says he still loves me yet he isn't returning to me, I'm so confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - sorry it's so long im 16 years old an i need some advise. u see, i have just recently come out of a relationship with L, he is 20 we were datin for 3 months an i fell in love with him it all started about a month ago when he said we need a break i coludnt understand w... (282 words)

Does anyone want to quit smoking with me? We can do it!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Goodbye nasty cigarettes, hello brighter future : ) I know I'm not exactly posing a question here but today I decided to kick the habit. I have only been smoking a year, I am in college and for whatever reason I gave into the smoking peer pressure. My parents know, ev... (176 words)

Irregular period question...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for there to not really be any pattern to the times when u get your period? Because I really can't find anything that's close to a pattern and I don't want anything to be wrong with me. I've never done ANYTHING that would cause my period to go all at different ... (68 words)

How can I cope with my partner's daughter?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age - I find it difficult to get on with my partner's daughter - her mom died when she was little and although she's twenty and quite manilupative, she has him wrapped around her little finger. She is at college but refuses to work to help support herself, so we pay her rent, fees ... (147 words)

How can I not be shy around my cousin who is a boy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - How can i not be shy around my cousin who is a boy?... (13 words)

Please explain sex / oral sex to me and give tips...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have recently gotten into a relationship with a man a year younger than me.. we are really happy apart from the fact that he will surely expect me to sleep with him soon, altho he has put no pressure on me so dont get me wrong i really want to. but too b totally honest im ... (101 words)

Did I do something wrong or does she really need more sleep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am kind of confussed about something and need help. You see there is a girl that I worked with and I liked her a lot, now she left the job and we still kept talking. She started a new job and she works most of the week from 3 to 11. Now I asked her out to a movie, now we ... (216 words)

How can I lose weight from my legs but no where else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey. Im a girl, Im almost 16, Im 5' 3" tall and I weigh about 8st 10lbs. Before this starts to sound like a lonely hearts advert (lol), Ill skip to the problem. Ok, so I don't feel fat really and people tell me Im not fat, but I hate the size of my legs. They are short (because ... (118 words)

My Ex wants me to call her, should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I stopped talking to my ex girlfriend/first love because of her drinking, drug abuse, and promiscuity was upsetting. I didn't speak to her four about a month then monday she Instant Messaged me and was all "I know we "Aren't talking, but I just wanted to say hi" I replied and ... (132 words)

I can't get a boyfriend and I don't know why....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15. Living in London, UK. And at this day and age people have all been in a relationship. Everyone at my school started going out with people in year 7. It didn't last, but they had relationships starting from year 7 onwards. Im going into year 11, I'm turning 16 years... (330 words)

His family is getting in the way of us. He won't stand up to his mum!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I was hoping you'd be able to shed some light or give me some advice on some of the things that our relationship has been facing lately. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, I'm 20 and he's 22, we both are at uni, and both share the same dreams for our future ... (443 words)

My boyfriend just announced he is planning to emigrate to Australia. Do I try to carry on our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has just announced to me, two months in to our relationship that he is planning to emigrate to Australia as soon as his visa (which he had already applied for) comes through. I feel very hurt but don't know where I stand. We have fallen in love very quickly and ... (153 words)

My girlfriend dumped my. Should I give up or try to get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So i went out with this girl for 5 months. She was great and we thought we were in love. Then she broke up with me. I still have feelings for her and she doesnt even want to know about me anymore. I cant get her out of my mind. Shold i let her go or try to win her back?... (61 words)

I want to go out with my good friend my age but two grades behind me in school. How can I ask without risking losing his friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there's this guy I've known since I was really little. We're best friends. He even lives just across the street from me! See, my problem is that he's a little less than a year younger than me. But he's 2 grades below me! I think he likes me... ALOT. I think he tries to flirt wi... (144 words)

How do I get my husband's relative to stop flirting with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an issue, one of my relative's husband constantly keeps flirting with me. It's to the the point where it's getting out of control. I've repeatedly asked him to stop. The funny thing is that he never acted this way in the beginning. He started acting this way when he he ... (147 words)

E.D. is destroying me emotionally because I just want to make love and not worry about the sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a male, 28. Since 7 years or so I have had a problem with erectile dysfunction. It has been creeping up and has been getting worse lately. I have had about 10 partners, all of whom I had sexual relations with. The problem is, I cannot really satisfy myself muc... (626 words)

We've been together a lot, not just for sex, but our schedules prevent actual dates. Is he just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy about 6 months ago through work. For the first few months we barely knew each other - but he would chat to me, there was a little bit of flirting and on more than a few occasions I caught him looking at me. A few months later we hung out with some friends aft... (653 words)

Why do I have vivid dreams of cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyrfriend so much and have been with him for over a year. Recently however I've started having reocurring dreams in which I cheat on him. In all the dreams I've never been the one to initiate it, it's always been some other guy (one who btw I happen to know i... (188 words)

How can I get my new guy to tell me if he plans a future with me or if I'm just a fling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Seven months ago I ended a four year relationship. I am not usually the girl to dwel on things, and about a month later I had a fling with his friend. It has been five months and the new guy and I are still together. Our relationship is fine, even though it is long distance, ... (149 words)

How do I ask a friend for a date? I'd like to get involved, but I'm afraid of losing him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really, reallly like this guy, but he's a pretty good friend of mine. i'm worried that if i tell him or ask him out and he doesn't return my feelings, he'll pull away from me. also, his friend told me he liked me, but i have no idea if he was being serious... also, what wou... (69 words)

We decided to have a break, but I can't understand why I'm so upset. The more I think about it, the more confused I become.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5869 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and i decided to have a break from one another 3 days ago. We have been together 18 months, and it has been a long distance relationship (we live 100 miles apart). The sex has not been good for a while now, and the touchy-feely, laughter part of our relationship ... (180 words)

I'm 13 and want a baby... but why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 13 and i want to have a baby but i don't feel unloved my mom and my friends would do anything they could to help me why do i still want a baby so badly?... (36 words)

Is there anything I can do, to prevent C or my ex, B from making up bad lies about me to A?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

- Im 19 and I went to school with this guy (lets call him A) who recently sent me a message over msn. We havent really seen or spoke to each other since school, just the odd 'hi how are you' when we run into each other at places. In school we werent really friends or anyth... (325 words)

We have no sex life. Am I being a selfish bitch?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am with a guy for the last year and a half and we get on very well in general in that we don't really argue but lately i am getting more and more unhappy, problem is we have no sex life. He has made many excuses as to why we don't, depression, stress etc and his latest one is ... (255 words)

Everything is happening at once and I'm stressed and confused. How do I prioritise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

- ok i need help! im in yr 12 and doing my last 10 weeks of schooling before my final exams. i am completely stressed out already because in this final year everything happens!!..the ball, u go out more and experience more, u get ur licence, u get a good job, responsibility w... (399 words)

My man is too depressed to have sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age - I am in a sexless relationship. It's a long, painful story and if I could recount all the reasons why my man is depressed and feeling powerless, you would understand why I'm being so long suffering. He refuses counselling and gets upset if *I* try to instigate things. He's a ... (160 words)

I'm starting to have feelings for my big brother's best friend. I don't know how to go about the situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5958 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so my problem is that I'm starting to have feelings for my big brother's best friend, I'm almost certain he likes me too, but I'm 17 (almost 18) and he's 22! I just don't know how to go about the situation because we hardly ever get to see each other without my brother ... (58 words)

I know my girlfriend is lying to me, but is she cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - ok its so complicated. ive been with my girl for 9 years and we have 2 kids. theres been a lot of crap went down between us in the past. shes been going out a lot latley, and isnt really honest about what goes on. so ive done a stupid thing. i installed one of them k... (349 words)

My girlfriend likes porn a lot. Is this normal?

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30 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - At first, I thought male are more likely get addicted in watching porn. The case now is my gf likes it a lot. She even asked me to watch with her. At first, I thought that is a way she tell me how she likes it. The more she get into porn, the more I don't feel easy. I don... (178 words)

Will he think my love poem is creepy, or cute? Should I show it to him?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I wrote this tonight. It's about a guy that I really like. I am fourteen and he's seventeen. When we met we clicked right away, I am falling for him, and I know that he is too, but he thinks the age difference is a big concern. Should I show this to him, What's your opini... (412 words)

I feel as if I am the only one trying to make our marriage work, after 22 years together. I also suspect she is cheating.

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30 July 2008 (M)

age - My wife and I have been drifting apart after 22 years of marriage. We don't spend much time together as our jobs are in different shifts. She works from 9AM to 3PM and I work from 3PM to 10PM. She never initiate love making with me and I am the one who does. She doesn't hug ... (680 words)

My boyfriend's watching of porn is beginning to annoy me. What can I do?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been with my bf for 2 years nearly now, and from beginning he was watching porn, i didnt mind cos we were just starting, now its annoying and makes me feel he enjoys the pron more than me, iv tried talking to him but he just says im not getting rid of it, it puts down my ... (89 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend. I can't stand the thought of him moving on with another woman. How do I get over it?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex boyfriend and i seemingly broke off 2days ago and it has been wrecking for me. the issue is, that he seems to be gettin on fairly well he has even moved in with his female friends/flatmates who will definately be having girls come over for sleep over and parties and maybe ... (269 words)

How can I get over this mindset and realise relationships can be enjoyed more than being a source of anxiety?

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30 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Why are relationships so hard? I find myself thinking about relationships and getting all these weird feelings. Now I'm in a relationship and have been dealing with so much insecurity and anxiety from my part. I also see other troubled couples all the time, and I wonder, is... (191 words)

He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before he was gonna ask me out. ... (140 words)

It bothers me that our time together is so limited, what can I do to show him this?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - he says he loves me and i believe he does but we hardly spend time together doing the relationship thing. he lives in another state but works in my hometown. when he is here is tired and when he goes back home we hardly talk. i know he is busy and tired after working over 12 ... (100 words)

My boyfriend (28) says he does not have a sex drive and does not think about sex anymore?!!!

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 36yr old woman and have been with my 28yr old man for 2yrs. I can count on 1 hand how many times we have had sex. I dont understand I've done all I can to get us there but nothing seems to work. So I just keep asking him why wont you make love to me in 20 diff. ways. And... (161 words)

It hurts when I masturbate for more than two minutes. Is this normal?

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30 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - how long do u masterbate for i do it for like 2 mins then it strts hurtn so cnt do it anymore is thisc normal ??... (26 words)

I'm 14, should I suggest to my girlfriend that we have sex?

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30 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 14 and i really feel the need of having sex with my girlfriend (she's 15), though i'm not sure she would want to (they say boys want it more than girls do)...but i really do. i really really love her and its been about a year since we started dating. should i ask her for ... (57 words)

What else I can do to please him besides blowjobs?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend but i dont really know how to please him. all i ever do is give him blowjobs. he doesn't complain but i know he feels something about the situation. i want to know what else i can do to please him besides blowjobs. ... (49 words)

Is it wrong to have a physical relationship with this guy?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy-friend. We used to be close but dated briefly and are just now renewing our friendship. Last time I spent time with him, we were joking around and ended up making out. Today, when I saw him again, he kissed me good-bye. I still have emotional feelings for him but, ... (200 words)

I can't always maintain an erection-help!

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30 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - There is a funny situation that makes me feel sometimes worried but last few months sometimes when i have intercourse at the begining my penis is hard but while i start doin it in a minute it becomes softer and i need like to get it out and again make it hard(my girlfriend) and ... (110 words)

I'm 14, catholic, & want to have a baby!

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i'm 14 and reallllly want to have a baby. i want to be married and, 5 months pregnant right now. i have babysat a lil a baby before but so i know its not a walk in the park. and i know they refuse to sleep and cry and stuff and im catholic so its out of the question. but i ... (175 words)

How do I take the chance to be with my dream man at last?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple of years ago I met the man of my dreams. Things didn't pan out for us last year as there were a lot of personal things I needed to take care of that were stunting the growth of our relationship, not to mention long distance. After "remaining friends" for a while and ... (259 words)

Should I get with him regardless of his flirty ways?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy and i can tell he like me to but hes a big flirt...but i like him alot...but i scared that if i get with him he might hurt me ...because when he had his exgirlfriend he kissed me multiple times...how do i know he won't do the same to me?? Should i get with him... (66 words)

How do we take the resentment he has towards me out of the relationship?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Where do I start. My boyfriend and I have been dating officially 7 months and unofficially almost a year. During the beginning of our attraction i was seeing someone else and he was flaunting girls in front of me to get my attention. However I did not know that from the moment ... (613 words)

How do I tell him I have lost the desire to do things with him?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - it has been a few years since me and my boyfriend got together...things havent been going all to well here lately. and when i try to talk to him, all he wants to do is touch me, and so on. how do i tell him i have lost the desire to do things with him? i just know it is going ... (83 words)

He doesn't quite treat me as this new fella does, what should I do?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so i met this guy...he is amazing.he treats me like a princess...and i am seriously falling for him.but there is a problem:i am currently in a relationship.and have been for three years now.my boyfriend is great.good christian guy,understands me..but treats me crappy here ... (79 words)

I can't break it off with this MM myself should I call his wife instead to break the tie?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a married coworker since March of 2008. We've been together just about every day since. He is so unhappy at home but he won't leave his wife. He is 52 and I'm 26. I'm considering calling his wife so that all ties will be broken between he and I. I don't have ... (78 words)

Do men in relationships want to have sex with other women? How much and how often?

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30 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - How much do guys in a relationship want to have sex with other females? I'm curious. I don't ever get the urge to have sex with some other guy. I wonder if it's the same for men? Today I was telling my boyfriend how weird it'd be for me if he was bi (nothing against bi/gay p... (229 words)

My ex got another girl pregnant and we are still sleeping together! What do I do?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend broke up on thanksgiving of last year. But we remained friends he told me he doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone but im still in love with him and I know he loves me. But lately he's been giving me mixed signals I still have a key to his house ... (125 words)

Am I wrong for giving him an ultimatum to not be in his child's life?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I wrong for asking him to not be in the child's life cause honestly I dont think I can handle it if he is, because that means he will have to be in this OW's life as well for the child's sake. He has no business with them. I dont think I'm wrong for asking him this, he said ... (145 words)

Is it wrong to be attracted to my third cousin?

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30 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i have a problem that might sound weird.. I like my third cousin, and she likes me. I've never known her until we met a few months ago, our families don't even really know each other its only that my mother is a family genealogy expert :S I don't know what to do, i... (110 words)

I'm full of anger since I got married! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! i am 21 years old and i got marry a year ago. i am having a bad time with my husban, he is a good man, but i don't feel like we are connected. he never say anything mean to me, but when we are with his friends he kind of ingnore me. everytime we go out they come with us. he ... (210 words)

How can I make more friends and have a fun social life?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I know I might sound immature saying this, but I'm just frustrated and I wanted to see if anyone had any suggestions. My regular friends never seem to have time for me anymore and I really wnat to amke new ones(not to replace the old ones, but just to ahve more people to ... (268 words)

How do I ask out the girl I never see?

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30 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Cupid: I like lady-like women, the kind that are morally absolute and would make a good mother, wife and professionals. This being said, I met this girl in a group situation (several sessions) who was very intelligent and attractive and seemed to be just what I've been l... (194 words)

My best friend is trying to break me and my boyfriend up!

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this one probleme my best friend is trying to break me and my boyfriend up, and it really huts to know she is doing that what should i do?... (31 words)

He'd rather spend time with his books than in bed with me!!

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30 July 2008 (M)

- So I have a shower, smell delightful, my hair in a nice messy sort of way and jump into bed with my bf on his side of the bed with no pjs on and put my hand down his side. I thought that was nice. It wasn't. He wanted to read. Seems to be the story of our lives these days. For ... (209 words)

Out of the blue, my boyfriend needs to think!

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a new relationship (2 months) with a guy and like a fool, I fell in love with him. The funny thing is that my boyfriend fell just as quick. We were happy and enjoyed each others company. We're still getting to know each other and spend 1-2 days a week together. I have ... (267 words)

My husband is being very strnage and 2 faced about our divorce....

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband of 25 yrs and i seperated 3months ago, we have three children together, 23, 21 and 8 yrs old, a divorce has been filed, today was supose to be our final hearing, but a continunace was filed for october. hes been living with another woman, but he tells me and his ... (351 words)

Should we have underage sex? I'm not sure...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

30 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my girl friend told me the other day that she wonted sex but i dont no if we should because of are age im 14 and she is 13 but i dont wont to say no because i dont wont it to effected are relationship wot do i do?... (49 words)

Where can I get a free laptop?

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30 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't particularly a love question, but my family is having money problems and our computer recently broke down. With me being a sophmore taking advanced classes a computer may be a HUGE advantage. now my mother works nights so i was wondering if anyone knows the ... (67 words)

My older girlfriend is pressuring me for sex!

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30 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months know and we love each other i am 15 and she is 18, and she is ready to lose her virginity but i do no think that i am. I have told her this and she said to me that she will 'go somewhere else' if i do not 'man' up, I ... (112 words)