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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend's criticism has me feeling negative about myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I've been feeling very negative in regards to myself and my relationship lately. I feel dull. I feel like I'm a boring, insecure, obnoxious woman. I've been constantly comparing myself to women in magazines and TV and I obviously come up short, I feel ugly. Then I realize I... (335 words)

Does he want to look at naked women and feels that I'm not allowing him to?

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27 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Does he want to look at naked women and feels that I'm not allowing him to? I've never told him he can't look at naked women, however, he knows I have body image issues and knows it makes me uncomfortable to see how many images of perfection are displayed constantly in th... (447 words)

Sexy texts on my girl's phone have me heartbroken. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i found some sexy texts from a guy in m girlfriends phone, she also replied to it, they even called each other...and i confronted her and she assured me that it was only txts and calls and nothing else and how text dont mean a thing...now i put on a front that im fine but im ... (64 words)

Will I ever hear from the guy I met on holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just come back from holidays 4 days ago and while I was over there I met a really great guy. We didn't get to spent a lot of time together alone because we were both there with friends, but the time we did was amazing. We just talked loads and got to know each other. H... (198 words)

Should I break up with him, or try to wait for him for two years while he travels overseas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for the past 3 1/2 years -since i was 14 and he was 18. He has always been very sweet and loving, just the most perfect guy anyone could ask for. I feel like i'd be lucky to ever find anyone else like him. Yet a part of me feels like i've gotten too ... (293 words)

How can I trust him after he texted an old high school "friend"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for two years now, well just recently he got drunk at the bar and text some "old high school friend" "I just want to hold you" I know he loves me and I love him too, I just can't seem to be forgiving him too easily; I'm still mad I ... (83 words)

I don't love my husband any more. Should I leave him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age - I have been with my husband for 11 yrs and I think I've made a mistake marrying him and did so too young. He is a lovely man - kind, trustworthy, caring, intelligent... The problem is I just don't love him anymore and sometimes find myself almost repulsed by him. Our sex... (188 words)

My friend told a co-worker he had feelings for me, but he never told me he was getting married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

- Pretty strange question but here goes. I've recently heard some shocking news, and i'm confused as to why it has been treated like a secret, i hope that maybe i could get a general consensus or verdict from someone who doesnt know me, or the person involved. It'... (434 words)

Should I cut contact? How to get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Had a girl come after me about 18 months ago, barmaid in my local. She was frustrating from the off with her behviour whilst I was trying to figure out if we were going to get together, a female mutual friend tried to set us up with the old my friend like you routine. In t... (786 words)

We broke up but are still keeping in touch. What do you think we're feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Help seriously me and my ex broke up 8months ago and he still calls me about every 3weeks then after 2 weeks he stops, then starts again after -4weeks this started straight away. i cudn't take it at first i was so cofused but now i jus kind of feel sorry for him. i think i s... (191 words)

I'm frustrated as I hate stingy people and my husband is one of them...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I have a major problem and I need youR advice asap! I think my husband is turning out to be very greedy like my dad .. when i was young my dad used to leave me broke...he didnt give me any money...although my dad is very rich! i was always broke and wore old stuff..I... (275 words)

My friend turns against me when I protect him from the bullies, I'm confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

27 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My friend is being bullied by a girl (just teasing) and told me not to tell. Should I tell anyway or listen to him? Once I stood up for him (he doesn't stand up for himself) and now the bullies thinks his "girlfriend" needs to protect him. He got very mad at me and say your a ... (88 words)

He thinks we should only see each other every other night. Is he trying to break up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i know this sounds perfetic but i was ment to see my bf 2nite weve been out 7 months and only spent 3 nites apart,anyway weve been shouting a lot recently and now 2nite he said we need to spend a few nites apart to see if we moan at each other less, it like one nite seeing ... (162 words)

We've been having a lot of issues so I broke up due to her strangeness; now I want her back and to show that I love her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years now and recently we've been having a lot of issues. She says the root of the problem is that I don't treat her as an equal in the relationship. She has a lot of trouble communicating with me and it's really difficult for me... (424 words)

I can't get my mind off this married guy who kissed me and it's affecting both my work and my relationship!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a grown adult in a comitted long term relationship and I've recently found myself sliding back into the world of the teenage crush! I currently live with my partner of four years, and we are very happy in our relationship. About a year ago I started a new job - the best I... (402 words)

I've fallen for someone new. How can I let my current boyfriend down gently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

- been with my bf for nearli year and i really love him but ive got off with other lads behind his back and the latest lad ive met ive realli fallen for and we wanna be together,im going to tell my boyfriend bout us but hes just taken me on holiday and spent loads of money on me ... (173 words)

How do I deal with my fear of attention from boys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and really confused. i never have boyfriends enymore and it puts me on a all time low. Plus to make it worse i have never properly snogged a boy.All my friends have and they have done other things too. i gt scared when i get attention from boys too what shall i do ?... (57 words)

My husband is schizophrenic, I'm depressed. How can I stop cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem and I need help with this. I have been married for over 8 years and for 7 years, everything was pretty good - no marriage is perfect, but it was good enough that I was not really even thinking about flirting with danger or entertaining the idea of an affair,.... (650 words)

Will bleeding stop and pleasure get better on my third time having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

- My question is probably a bit hard to answer but i'm just basically asking to see other peoples experiences and hopefully try and not worry. The first time i had sex it hurt but i didnt bleed. Then the second time it hurt a little at the strat and i bled. Will i bleed o... (82 words)

I love my wife, but erection problems and lower sex drive are hurting our marriage.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) age - i'm having a serious crisis ,in my mariage,and I don't know where to go from here. I really need some suggestion, as I never been so stuck in my whole life,, I'm in my mid 40 es, and around 3 years ago I developed an erection problem. slowly my sex drive was gone as well. I ... (228 words)

He said he only "liked" me, but would wait for me, and then he cheated. Should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5907 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. There is a guy that I have had a thing with for a while. We decided not to start dating yet and to wait about a month or two. He told me he only liked me and would wait as long as it took, and everything always seemed fine between us. Well I just found out that he had been ... (215 words)

I can't have an orgasm with my partner, although it works OK alone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 and i carnt have a orgasum with my partner but i can through oral sex and mastubation, i dont wont to tell my bf because he thinks i do have one during sex, i get the arousal feeling during sex but i never seem 2b able have one, i dont no what i can do... (57 words)

Does oral sex tickle for women???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't understand...why do some girls feel ticklish during oral sex and others not? I've been with this one girl for about a month and a half on and off and a couple times I got the impression from her body language that she did not want oral sex...A few times when she was ... (143 words)

I can't seem to orgasm

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi this may sound weird but I can't seem to orgasam. I only reached 2 mind blowing orgasams in my life. Tried different positions nothing works.... but I will squirt.... just dont get that tingly feeling kwim? ... (37 words)

When he comes to my place (after work) he falls asleep, this led to disagreements between us and I'm not sure what's going on...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age - I met this guy on a dating site and we seemed to be getting on really well, he said some lovely things to me like i was everything he really wanted in a woman and wanted us to stay together forever ect, i did believe that we had something but now he has done the dissapearing ... (181 words)

What do I do so that I do not hurt anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I can't decide! there's this girl in my school that I really like, but there's this other girl who likes me, I don't wanna hurt anyone.What should I do?... (29 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend. Should I tell him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i cheated on my boyfriend, whom i have been going out with for 2 months. With someone that i kissed about a year ago, it was totally out of the blue and i really regret it now. Should i tell him or not ...?!... (44 words)

Things have got a bit weird since I kissed my best friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok this may take a while ..lol I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on what to do- normally I would be good at this kind of thing but I feel lost on this one. Me and my best friend have been hanging out 5 years now- I feel a big connection with him rece... (213 words)

I need help to get over my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i just broke up with my boy friend today..he sounded all emotional...hate to see him sad but i gave him more than ten chances to correct himself..he doesnt seem to change..he's just taking me for granted.is it worth goin for someone like this when there's no family support from ... (125 words)

My older friend seems to have stopped talking to me since I told him how I felt. I really just want to stay friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello mates!!!!!! im in a kinda tight spot and i really need helpyou see 3-4 years ago meet this incredible guy one problem was that hes 12 years older than me.but we became friends.as the time went by i started to devolp romantic feelings for him.he recently took a flight t... (208 words)

Why is this co worker so interested in me lately?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a co worker that's being a bit much flirty with me lately. We've known each other since a long time ago but never had even a bit of interest for one another. Last weekend we were in an office convention and we all talk about how nice the place was (the convetion was in a... (214 words)

I fooled around with a friend of my ex fiancé who is still my boyfriend. Now I don't know whether to tell him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was out with a friend of mine last night. While we were at the bar I bumped into an acquaintance of my ex-fiancee. We started to talk about my relationship with my ex and why I cheated on him. I cheated on him with one of his co-workers, I moved out of our apartment, and ... (224 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend with a female friend of mine. How do I regain his trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About 2 months ago I cheated on my boyfriend. I recieved oral sex from another female friend of mine. It tore me up to do it, but I was under the influence. Not that that is any excuse. The whole time I was with her it hurt me so bad to hurt him, I stopped her. But I couldn't ... (203 words)

I'm confused about giving oral sex. Are there guys who just don't like it, or haven't I got it quite right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Confused...for the last 10months ive been contemplating whether to give my boyfriend a blowjob or not...i was so unsure just because i was scared i would do it wrong...or incase he didnt like them cuz the subject never came up...and we are doing everything else!! while givin ... (157 words)

I need to boost my self confidence because I feel so ugly - does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

27 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I've got a serious issue with self-confidence and constantly compare myself to other girls and think they're so much better than me - prettier, etc. Recently, a lad who I've known for a year-ish told me he liked me. This was a shock because lads NEVER show an interest in me. He ... (169 words)

My guy thinks I cheated on him. He thinks I don't love him and don't trust him. How can I make him understand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, I donno what to do about my guy… We had an argument for the last few days and so he thinks I’ve cheated him… I donno how to make him understand As we hardly get time to speak to eachother… He’s in 11th and I m in 10th so I have my classes in the morn and he has... (132 words)

Can you get STDs by kissing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Are there any STDs out there that you can get by kissing? I don't really understand what the different kinds of STDs are. I know about HIV since we learned about it in school...... (37 words)

How can I do exercises to make myself tighter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i just have a question i was just wondering how can i do a kegel exercise you know to tighten my vagina muscles and can i become tighter inside my lips in my vagina on the inside you know the vagina part there isa lot of skin sagging i guess you would say can i tighten theat up ... (61 words)

My twin sister is pregnant and the people she lives with are stressing her out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my twin sister is pregnant and should be due any day now, if not day then in a week. The people that she is living with are stressing her out by making her babysit 8 kids at a time everyday. The stress build up is getting to her, could that hurt the baby? She had to go ... (109 words)

My husband says we are too old for sex (58), I think his love has faded, what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age - Hi, My husband has decided not to have sex with me anymore and the only thing he will say about it is he's old (58) and I am 59, and still feel like I would like that part of my life back. he is nice to me but rarely touches me, hugs or kisses. i think he just doesn't love me ... (65 words)

Can I win him in this seemingly impossible situation - or should I cut loose before I get really hurt??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This is nothing new, and I've been over it a million times in my mind, but wouldso great to hear others opinions. I met a wonderful man a few months ago.....who is single.....tho still has issues with a lady who will not, or cannot be with him because she has a partne... (398 words)

My sister-n-law lost her baby at 5 months and won't talk to anyone! How can I help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My sister-in-law just got married in January and she got pregnant in February. She was so excited and 3 weeks ago she lost the baby. She was 5 months along and her water broke and the baby had tumors on his brain. They had to induce her, but the baby didn't survive. Sh... (158 words)

He is in the army and is going on a lads' holiday, I feel I am chasing him for his company...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

- I'm 30 weeks pregnant and im scared my boyfriend has gone off me. He used to be the one who chased me all the time now i seem to be the one chasing him. He is in the army and he gets 3 weeks off in august and is going on a lads holiday, is this wrong? as im coming so close to ... (112 words)

It seems that when we are at home, sex is not as good as when we travel. Or is it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife and i just got married. on the honey moon we had the best sex ever. it seem like when we go somewere else it the best but when we are home its not so good. is it me. i cum to fast and i want to give her a vaginal orgasum wile having sex.can you help... (58 words)

I love him but resent him terribly for emotionally cheating on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is a middle aged old who has a part time job as an entertainer. He is generally quiet and somewhat shy except when he is performing. Back last fall I caught him talking, emailing and texting to a young girl who lived eight hours away. He says this was just a game... (309 words)

Am I gay for having gay sexual fantasies? Am I just confused?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 13 and i know im not Gay. I like women and i want to have sex with a women. When i see 2 gay people kiss i get digusted. There is this kid that's a year older than me, i think he is a slight bit gay. Sometimes when I'm just thinking about stuff, i think sexual thoughts abou... (146 words)

Could he be serious about wanting sex because he finds me "perfect" or is he trying to use me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Im confused about this lads feelings towards me and what he REALLY wants from me. Well, we've been friends for about 2 years now and Ill admit, for most of this time, Ive fancied him. We get on really, really well. He texts me all the time and tells me how much he likes me. He ... (320 words)

He's reserved, even rude to people, but to me he's always been good... until now! What am I to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in relationship for past 2 and half years.My guy is not that attractive or smart.he's been a geek,he's very reserved also rude with people.but with me he has always been sweet n impressive for one year then he started being rude with me,he doesnt like talkin with ... (199 words)

Would it be easier to kiss her at the club, when we are all drunk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - its our results night soon and everyone is goin to this one club. The girl i've liked for many years will be there. I know everyone will be drunk, do you think it would be a good idea just to kiss her there? It would be easier wouldn't it after drinks to kiss her? Thanks ... (55 words)

How do I convince my on line date that he should come to my city first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

- Theres this guy who I have been chatting with online for a while now. I really do like him alot and he likes me alot too. He found me on a dating website, and contacted me first, despite the fact that I live in another city to him. I replied anyways, and we got talking lots... (325 words)

We split up 3 times before; I am scared of letting my defences down in case he pulls the rug from under my feet again!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - In the past two years my partner and I have split up three times, we have been together for 8 years in total. Each time it has been because he feels the grass is greener and then he returns begging forgiveness, crying, promising me he will change, that he has realised. Last ... (541 words)

Could your hymen break from being fingered? Does precum represent a risk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two questions. One is my bf and I were fooling around and I was stroking him and he fingerd me. Could your hymen break from being fingered cause after I had a little blood when I went to the bathroom and wiped myself. Second question is: when I was rubbing my bf's peni... (82 words)

I ignored him when he chased me, now I am chasing him! He says he loves me but is not IN love anymore!??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in confusion. This guy who had been chasing me for 2 years have been very withdrawn for the past 6 months. I do not blame him because during the time when he was chasing me I had been acting like a spoilt brat and get mad at him for little things. However, I have... (356 words)

I worry about him because he's in jail. I haven't had the chance to tell him how I feel.

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never loved a guy.I'm the type of girl who is strong but the first time i let my guard down i got hurt.I think i love him idk wat love is yet but yea.He left for a couple years he is doing some time in jail.When i found out i was so mad but hurt cause he didnt tell me ... (296 words)

Why does my girlfriend keep bleeding after having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have just had sex and for the first time she started to bleed and plus she had pain's but after bout 20 minutes the blood so then me and my girlfriend was both horny so we tought we do it again but now she hasn't stop bleeding and we don't know what is the ... (74 words)

I'll wake up and find out he's secretly looking at porn and masturbating, when earlier he refused to have sex with me, claiming he was tired!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend would rather jack off than have sex with me. We very rarely have sex! seriously it sucks. I will ask him to have sex and he will say hes too "tired", or ill even get on top of him and try to get things going and it wont work! then ill wake up and find out he's ... (163 words)

When we first ket he was an amazing lover but 4 years later our sex life faded away...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. We are both 42. He has had countless partners. I've had six. When we first met, we couldn't keep our hands off each other. He was an amazing lover, adventurous, acrobatic and thoughtful. According too him, I give ... (89 words)

Have I ruined my chances with this married woman?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. 3.5 years ago a woman joined my workplace who I was visually attracted to at the time but we never spoke. I was (and still am) in a long term relationship. She married one year later. In fact the first time I spoke with her was when she returned from honeymoon! During the ... (542 words)

Is it possible to live sexually frustrated or will it just get harder as time goes on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5961 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

- I am in a situation and wondering if others can share their wisdom. I am in my mid 20s and have been in a relationship wiht a man now in his early 40s for almost four years. Things were absolutely perfect to begin with but ever since we've lived together he has backed off s... (373 words)

I am almost obsessed with the idea of getting married and having kids, should I be thinking about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay my bf and i have been together for almost three months and i am 17 and he is 19. Anyway, I am almost obsessed with the idea of getting married and having kids i mean what girl doesnt think about that, i just want to know if im being too obsessive because i have basicly ... (68 words)

I'm ready but a little scared that he might not be "the one", should I give him my virginity or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i was wondering.me and my b/f has been datin 4 7 mths and he dosnt rlly pressure me he has told me he wants to do it..im ready and i want to have sex with my b/f but im a lil scared tht he might not be the one should i give him my virginlatity or not?... (57 words)

The baby turns out NOT to be my boyfriend's but he still supports him, should I meet this other woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been dating this guy for a five years and he had a baby scare with someone right before our relationship got serious. the baby turns out not to be his and he still takes care of the child just to be a good guy by being a good support. my main concern is the childs mother ... (107 words)

Is it wrong to get mad at my boyfriend for checking out another girl (but a famous one?)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

27 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - is it wrong to get mad at your boyfriend for checking out another girl but it was at a concert and it was a famous person(carrie underwood? should you trust your boyfriend when going out with him when there will be girls?... (42 words)

How will he react if I stop having sex with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy who basically just used me for sex. I wanted to date him but he saw our relationship as "friends with benefits" He said he cared about me and I think he kinda did, he just didnt want a relationship. He did boyfriend stuff with me like cuddling, talking a ... (139 words)

Get ex back? Or let him have my other ex's girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex had a great relationship for over three months! We broke up because he said he needed a break... I was heartbroken! I talked him into getting back together the next day! A few days later he still wasnt happy with me and broke up with me again! We went about a week ... (150 words)

I would like to ask her how she feels about him but I could not because it shows I do not trust her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend told me she has a friend. She knows him before we are couple and during she was with her xs. She shares a lot of things with him. Her happiness and sadness. The guy does the same. I know if she loves him, we will not be a couple now. When she told me about hi... (120 words)

Is it possible to make yourself like someone?

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who likes me a lot and have for years. He's very sweet to me and would make a great boyfriend, which is what i really want. The problem is that im not attracted to him at all. I still have very strong feelings for the guy I lost my virginity to. He didnt want ... (123 words)

My Girlfriend was forced to suck someone off before and since then she is not into for me how can I get her to do it?

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27 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my girl was forced to do it once a few years ago but now when i ask or go down on her i get nothing back and its really frustrating i mean i wont break up with her because of it its just sometimes i wish she would just do it is there anything i can do?... (57 words)

My friend has been withdrawing from me...how hsould I handle this?

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - First, let me start by saying I'm not a teenager, instead a woman in her 30's. I have fallen head over heals with a friend of mine, but have NO CLUE what he is thinking!!! We have known each other for almost 10 years. We were more 'friends of a friend' we knew each other,... (282 words)

Is it normal for my boyfriend to have pictures of of celebrity on his cell phone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has pictures of Vida Guerra in his cell phone, it bothers me, but should i worry..... (18 words)

Why is breaking up so hard even when you know it wasn't working out?

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 2.5 years and I just broke up. I've known for awhile that it wasn't working and we wouldn't be compatible long term. Even though I know this it is extremely painful? I don't understand why it shoudl be this painful knowing we weren't right..... (48 words)

Having trouble socially...any advice for me?

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27 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really depressed over the fact that I had never had girlfriend.Several hours ago I was crying and feeling incredible pain,just like always.A bit later my best(and only) friend calls.I was in no mood to talk because of my depression,which he sensed.I called him a couple of ... (346 words)

My boyfriend is telling me my vagina is too wide, what should I do?

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend told me that i have a wide vagina and theres no feeling for him when we have sex. what could be the problem?, and what can i do to fix it?... (33 words)

How do I find someone to practice my English skills with?

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to find someone to practice my oral English .But I don't know how I can find (him or she) to teach me English on the Internet . ... (29 words)

On again off again relationship, any advice?

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27 July 2008 (F) - i was with someone for over 3 years and he was my first serious boyfriend, the first guy i loved, first guy i was with. And he was about 10 years older too. I know he loved me. But i think i was young with some things didn't know how to be in a relationship or when to let t... (1603 words)

My boyfriend and I have broken up several times, I am extremely jealous, to the point of distraction, he is financially irresponible, how do we fix these problems, I am driving him away?

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31 he's 25. We've been together for 7yrs. We've broken up so many times its hard to keep track. The Two major issues are my insecurity and his lack of financial resposibility. My problem with him is that he works but cannot manage his finances and I end up paying for ... (370 words)

He is happier being with his friends than with me, we have intimacy and sexual problems, he seems to be losing interest, please help?

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For some time now I have thought my boyfriend is bored with me, but then I have put it down to my low self esteem as he still makes arrangements to see me. As time has gone on, I have noticed that we never seem to spend time alone anymore. He always seems to need his friends ... (613 words)

My husband is addicted to porn and I'm fed up

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27 July 2008 (F)

age - My husband of 25 years has been using pornograpy off and on since we've been married and has always had problems keeping erections. Doctors have never found any physical problems. We've been to counseling and he says that he loves me but he just can't perform anymore. He's had ... (130 words)

I am a scorpio, she is a capricorn, we care deeply about each other, but I have trust issues and I am very jealous of her, how do I resolve these problems?

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27 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been dating this capricorn girl and she is sooo sweet and nice and trust worthy im a scorpio and i feel we r too open emotionaly together everything is great i feel we were born for each other she tells me that too we cant live without each other but i have this problem ... (119 words)

Have had an eight year crush on this guy, he has no interest in me, please tell me how to get him out of my system?

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - OK I have had this big crush on this guy for about 8 yrs now. Now dont get me wrong - I have not and do not obssess about him or anything like that. I have had relationships in between etc. But as he got older I just grew more and more attracted to him. The thing is he pays me ... (427 words)

She has a boyfriend but opens up to me about everything! How can I show her how much I love her?

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27 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to a girl EVERY DAY for the past 5 months or so. Most of the calls came from her, and we talk for hours. We never went a day without talking. About 2.5 months ago, I admitted to her that I was in love with her (wrote a long letter). Even after that, we s... (370 words)

Do I tell him I love him even though he has a girlfriend?

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i love this guy and he awsome. we txt everyday since the first time we met. my friend asked if he would ever go out wit me and he said mayb but he has a girlfriend. i talk 2 him soo much though. he sent a pic of him 2 me at random. then sometimes hes tryin 2 get me 2 send him 1 ... (160 words)

What can I do about my girlfriend not being ready to have sex? I'm tired of waiting.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

27 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay - So, I've been dating a girl that studies with me (collage) for about 10+ months already, and we haven't had sex yet. We are both virgins - believe it or not! I really like her and I know she really likes me, but I don't know why she doesn't want to have sex... W... (440 words)

Should I pursue this online relationship with this girl? We live 400 miles apart.

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27 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I would really like anyones help on this little situation I'm in. A little while back I met a girl online through an extremely large art website (deviantART for those of you wishing to know) so her and I started talking on there and on Instant Messenger, jump ... (167 words)

I don't want to marry my long distance boyfriend and get a divorce down the line....how do I go about this decision?

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27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, i have been in a long distance relationship for the last 4yrs. it was gr8 at first but then we had some issues and broke up for about 3-4mths. now everything is back to normal (break up was not becoz of cheating or sth like that.some other issues) and now we have dcided ... (197 words)

I mucked my relationship and friendship up. What do I do for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

27 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A few months ago I was caught by my partner sending hot and heavy texts to his bestfriend - who was also my good friend. Nothing happened other than the text messages and my partner and seemed to have gotten over it, but out of no-where tonight he started talking about it ... (191 words)