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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Did anybody ever have experiences with Psychics?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ever have any successful (or non-successful) experience with psychics? Can you recommend any online psychics for me?... (18 words)

What does "cute little fellow" mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question for the ladies. What exactly does a girl mean when she calls you(a guy) a cute little fellow? I was described as such by a girl and she has refused to explain to me what she meant by that. What does it really mean?... (50 words)

What is important during foreplay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really self conscious sexually. I'm just really scared of embarrassing myself. I need some really basic advice on foreplay. As much detail as possible. What way do you like the penis to be touched during foreplay? What gets a man going? Would like to hear from a man's po... (54 words)

Underage and involved - What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice. This is the shortened story. Last week school got out and something really bad happened. I have a really big crush on this 25 year old hall monitor - Martin and he liked me too. So the last day of school I asked for his number and he said to call him ... (248 words)

We shared a drunken kiss, and now it is out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About 4 months ago a male work mate and I shared a drunken kiss. We were both completely drunk, and as soon as the kiss happened we pulled away. He had a girlfriend. We spoke about it the next morning and both said it would never happen again, it was a drunken mistake and ... (388 words)

I'm being bullied again! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya... I'm Being Bullied... AGAIN! The real bad thing is that they've started on my mate as well. I used to just ignore them, but today I went to sit with my friends and some not so friends and they told me, quite bluntly, to go and sit somewhere else. Being the stubborn cow... (356 words)

Got with my best mate, split up, and now it's just a mess.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well things between me and a guy friend of mine went totally out of hand and our friendship was ruined..he tried talkin to me,calling me but i ignored him and then he stopped calling me thinking that i dont want to be with him anymore and decided to give me my space but ... (132 words)

My marriage has recovered from our affair, his hasn't. How can I help him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a brief affair with the most amazing, funny, sexy, wonderful man who I really felt was my soul mate. We ended it because we are both married and mutually agreed that we would try and work things out with our partners. The problem is I have tried and have managed to work ... (231 words)

What can I do about his controlling mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please could anyone offer me any advice? My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years and we have a 5 year old son and my problem is my boyfriends mother.. She has never approved of our relationship and is very protective of her son. To be honest i think she wishes her k... (305 words)

Where can I find a decent man? I've tried all the suggestions!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age - When I read various problems from other people and have one myself similar-I always smile when people say dump him get out there and find a man who really loves you. I dont think there are many men who want love or a steady woman or girl friend. It seems that MOST men want to ... (173 words)

How do I start again as a single mum after 10 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Some one please knock some sence into me please, i have an other half that i'm crazy about, 10 years this oct, but the other night i was fighting with my daughter and i took her phone from her (she is 17 and that is not an easy thing to do)without going into the ins and outs of ... (214 words)

He just wants sex but then talks about marriage. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age - I am very confused. Very confused. Last night I was with my "BF?". We've been seeing each other for about 15 months.Because he travels a great deal for his work, we usually see each other 5-6 times a month with as much as 3 weeks between visits when he travels overseas. I am ... (878 words)

How do I show I like him over MSN and a webcam?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

4 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - ok I met a guy on Myspace and now we are having conersations over webcam :D I'm starting to have feelings for him . How can I show him he means alot to me over webcam and IM???... (41 words)

Did I make a mistake in taking him back? It isn't the same as it was!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey!!i have been going out with my boyfriend for three months we recently broke up...he broke up with me he said we wernt seeing enough of each other and although it was me who had brought the subject of whether we were happy or not up i was really sad about the whole ... (212 words)

How am I supposed to trust him when he goes out all night but thinks I will cheat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

4 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Ok, I wrote this last night http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-trust-him-again-and-stop.html I have to say that yes I may have been somethering him but only because he wants the same from me. He doesn't trust me, and he thinks that I'll cheat (because I lied ab... (440 words)

How do porn stars last so long?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I watch porn and I was wondering.. how do they last that long? They can't all use Viagra can they? What's there secret?... (29 words)

I'm having a breakdown due to my possessiveness over this guy! I hate myself...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im not sure if this is about a relationship or not but im havig a bit of a breakdown i think the guy im seeing who i love very very much is always out and abotu i seehim when i can etc and normally it doesnt bother me the last two days i havnt seen him and realli wante... (276 words)

This girl likes me because I'm an A-hole!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm getting with this girl who's great,but she told me she likes "assholes".. I used to be one and I didn't even realize that girls like me because of it. I somehow became a nice guy.. an now I realize she likes me when I'm an asshole or tough - get it? I don't know - I n... (69 words)

How can I get to know this girl that I see around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - need some urgent help. Seen this girl on social networking website, ive seen her around but never spoken. i hardly see her. i think she is very pretty and she is single. how can i get to know her? how can i ask for her msn? and make sure she genuinly wants to give it with out ... (67 words)

I had a terrible, vivid dream about my boyfriend and his ex! Could it mean something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Well last night i had this terrible dream, about my boyfriend going back to poland to see his ex-gf. And i followed him. And we met up and his ex-gf was pissed that i came, and so on. But we ended up staying at her house. I had my own room there but i wasnt sure whe... (206 words)

My perfect girl lives with another guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - There's a girl at work that is perfect for me. I don't believe in soulmates, but we have everything in common. We hang out often, going to lunch and even dinner and drinks just the two of us at times. Only thing is that both of us are in a relationship. She lives with ... (132 words)

Do I still have a shot with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - in the beginning of my freshman year i had a BIG CRUSH on this guys name Alfredo. (Alfredo was a sophmore, we didnt had any classes 2gether including lunch) By February of the 2nd semester we finally started 2 talk we exchange numbers. we were friends bt he already kne that i ... (210 words)

The married man I'm seeing may break up with me! How do I deal with the heartache?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in love with a married man - I just got thru a divorce that had nothing to do with him. I have been seeing this man for almost a year (four month break - his wife suspected, he got scared, we all tried to do right thing). Then the emails came, and then the meeting... (331 words)

I'm 7 months pregnant and he's not serious about me, how do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i really need some advice,im 7months preg for a man that i have been on and off with the last 4years..we were never serious with each other,u might aswel say it was just for fun!!he will be around for his baby thank god..but i just feel lost at the moment,i dont no wat its ... (108 words)

He thinks a woman's only goal is to steal a man's money...how do I break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - he lives at home and ive suggested we buy a house but he says he wont because women are only after money and he would prefer to get his own, he doesn't ever want kids and i do, he never wants to get married because women steal the mans money. im not that type of person i have ... (271 words)

How can I rekindle what we once had? Please help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This may be long, so please bear with me. I had been in an 8 year marriage, which ended 2 years ago, due to always arguing, taking each other for granted and other issues. After we split, I moved into my parents house and had a couple of short term relationships, w... (989 words)

Why does he say he has no time in his life for me yet tells me he wants to marry me? Does this make sense?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

- hopefully someone can help me find the answers on this one. Why would a man persistently tell you he wants to settle down and marry you every time you speak to him, but then make no effort to contact you . When I have asked him is this what you want as im ok and will a... (431 words)

What does it mean when he stared at me and not her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this one time I was standing off to one side and He was less then a foot away. lets say her name is katrina and she was closer to him then I was. u think he stare at the prettier of the two which in this case is katrina. he barely gave her a glance and he just kept looking ... (94 words)

I met a man on holiday recently but he says he wants to keep it "platonic". Could he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age - I met a man of about aged 55ish fairly recently on holiday. He stood by a couple he met in the hotel also next to me and he said "I wish I was better looking and didnt look like I do" (I liked him) and realised that comment was for my benefit because I assumed he fancied me, ... (265 words)

I am sick and I think I have drained my husband so I feel emotionally alone. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have temporary nervous system damage that has left me bedbound and unable to walk. my husband carries me to the bathroom and back and helps take care of all my basic needs. he only gets out a few times a week when my mom watches me and our four year old son. we still have sex ... (166 words)

Are any of these symptoms of pregancy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. Ok, so i think i might be pregnant and im trying to figure out what the hell is going on with me. I've missed my period and i've been throwing up. I haven't taken a pregnancy test yet but i was just wondering if unexplained crying and then one minute later hap... (110 words)

Are girls who grew up without a father attracted more to "bad boys"?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My question put simply: Do Girls who grew up without knowing their father (i.e the father left home when they were born) have a tendency to be attracted, and go with "Bad Boys" who dont really care for them, and ultimatly cheat on them and treat them with disrespect. Longer ... (401 words)

He says he messed his life up and now just wants to have fun. Am I being used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner and i had a happy relationship until recently. i always knew he had a child from when he was 15 and had debts as a result. i accepted that with no problem after all we all have a history. i also knew he hated his job and wanted to leave it. so i helped him get a new ... (133 words)

Should I go back to ex that cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend of 2 years cheated on my with his ex of 8 years to whom he had a child and a mortgage with. It wasn't just a one off wither, every time he told me he was going to see his daughter, he was in fact sleeping with her. He even went on holiday with her and told me ... (195 words)

Are there different types of orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Are there diffrent types of orgasims? I can only get one if a man rubs my upper vaginal area where you pee. I feel good when I have intercourse but don't orgasim. What's my prob? thanx for input... (38 words)

Does he see me as girlfriend material??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey :) i am in need of help..... man issues... =/ This guy i sort of like was online on facebook.... he was idle though (inactive for 10 minutes) i said hi .... no reply.... he had been online all day acually,idle though, and then briefly went offline. He then came back o... (259 words)

What are the age limits to date a 16 y/o girl??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres no real story behind this question but what would you say is the oldest and youngest age a man should be for dating a 16 year old girl?... (29 words)

Are we in a relationship, just without the label? Is he worth it?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, i was wondering if anyone could help me ... Basically, around three months ago i met this guy, and we hit it off immediately. we dated for about 3 weeks, and then it all ended because he told me that he knew he didn't want anything more, and he didn't want to continue... (334 words)

He wants a 'break'...do I sit and wait this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and for the last week we've been havin complications in the relationship. one which meant me seein a side of him i dont like. and now he has turned round an said he wants time out, time to think about what he wants, an ... (124 words)

Ejaculations problems! help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - everytime i have sex with my girlfriend as soon as i enter i get the kinda tinging feeling in my penis like i'm going to ejaculate and then i do :S How do i stop this from happening so fast?... (43 words)

Is my bf wrong to do this? Is this fair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i just wanted to know if this is fair on me?...my boyfriend has secretly been meeting a girl he used to fancy and go on walks with. he has been telling everything about our relationship to her. and everything bad. she has emailed back to me telling me off. my boyfriens says ... (61 words)

Help! Not a relationship issue, but it will be if my partner sees the nail varnish my daughter got all over the leather settee...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Anybody got any ideas on how to get silver nail varnish off a leather settee will nail varnish remover spoil the leather. My daughter got it all over and my partner is gonna freak when he see's it its dried all ready Thankyou.... (43 words)

I heard him saying he was annoyed because I hadn't gone to bed with him. I told him I was angry. How can I say I'm sorry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age - Having met a man on a recent holiday we became quite good friends but nothing sexual although he wanted to. The reason I didnt respond was becasue I heard him telling another couple in a loud voice in front of about 8 of us that he was anbnoyed becasue I hadnt gone to bed with... (282 words)

After 12 years with me he told me he has met someone else. How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

- I am hoping someone can help a bit here. I was with my boyfriend for twelve years. He told me at the beginning of June that he met someone else. He has been moving his stuff out gradually( so as not to hurt me...or so he says) and is now no longer here. He said I can call on ... (149 words)

Three months since my last period but not pregnant? What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been 3 month late since my last period ive done about 4-5 pregnancy test and 1 in hospital and they all come back negative my partner keeps saying ive not got my period because i think im pregnant but i never thought about it till i were about 2 month late as my periods ... (100 words)

I think I'm addicted to sex. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 years old and I think i am addiced to sex. I go out with different girls but i don`t like the way i am doing. so please, what can you advice me? ... (37 words)

I had a baby very young and people seem to judge me. How should I handle this?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

4 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - why do people always judge me when they see my in the streets, or abuse me and call me all the names under the sun when they see me with my child. im 16 now, just after my 14th birthday i was raped by a friend of my cousins in his late 20's and ended up getting pregnant. i am ... (291 words)

How long did it take you to learn to masturbate successfully?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a general question for males/females with any sexual orientation: How long did it take you to learn to masturbate successfully? I have tried on a few occasions to pleasure myself and all I feel is highly ticklish and/or pain. I give up after a few minutes. My boyfrien... (250 words)

I'm scared that I have cancer

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im really scared that I have cancer when I go to the toilet for a number 2 there is blood there it is bright red and it can be quite alot. Also there is mucus there too quite a bit of it and when I need to pass wind there is always mucus that comes with it too Im sorry if this ... (166 words)

I like this boy but think I've scared him away, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there's a boy i really really like and we used to be quite good friends, we still are but ever since i've liked him i've become quite clingy to him and i think it's scared him away and now we barely talk as much and i think i'm starting to like him more, my quite close friend ... (80 words)

I'm confused about my love life, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi!!!!! lifez becoming hard to me and i really need some advice to my problem wel in brief i was in luv with a guy for 2 years and everything was going on wel until 1day i came to know that my boyfriend is a big flirt;he dated many ;i couldnt believe and i was shocke... (158 words)

I dumped him after a row. But how could he just let me go after telling me he loved me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I just recently finished with my boyfriend after nearly a year cos we kept arguing and I didn't trust him. I had to go through his emails and kept checking his phone. The reason for this was because he lied to me about living with someone else at the beginning of our rela... (331 words)

He seems to have changed. Is he scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i've been with my boyfriend for over 10 months now an he means the world to me, but recently he seemed to of changed to a person ive never seen before an now he's called it off for a bit so he can find out wat he really wants. i said to him i wont be waiting all day for ... (116 words)

Should I give him up as a lost cause?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'll try and keep this short.. I'd really appreciate some other peoples opinions on this, especially guys. My last relationship ended in Jan this year - we were together 2 years and engaged, it was a messy break up and I got hurt pretty bad. My friend set me up on a date ... (304 words)

What's the clue that a western boy wanna go to bed with a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello,guys,I'm a Chinese girl.I'm wonering what's the clue that a western boy wanna go to bed with a girl. I have a friend and he's enlish.He wanted to invite me to watch a film in his own apartment.Before that we are only common friends and we talk about study,politics,l... (113 words)

I need a female perspective: Should I contact her or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Preferably i would like a females view on this matter that has been through this experience or something similar. But guys, feel free to give your opinions. Me and my girlfriend split up about 6 weeks ago, she ended it because i was making her unhappy and she wasnt be... (369 words)

My ex boyfriend says there are rumours my new guy has HIV. Is he lying? If not, what are the risks for me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just met this boy, his name is Derrick. Even though, I don't know him as well as I'd like to. He has really seem to grow on me and I think that someday our relationship could go a step further. Well at least, I'd like to hope so. A previous boyfriend of mine, named Josh... (242 words)

I am married but considering leaving for a married man, should I do it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and I fall in love with a married man.We were together 3 years,then I left with my family(I have a daughter 15yo)abroad.I thought this man would stop me from leaving,but he didn´t...he kept silent till my very last day before the departure.,actually he said at the ... (181 words)

Boyfriend had a wet dream about another man...is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend told me he had a wet dream last night. In it,a man was masturbating him. And he came in it. I find that disgusting. He said it was only a dream and he's straight. Pls help. Is that normal?... (41 words)

Taking a girl out for the first time . What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Theres this girl that I've kina just met and I really like her. We've been textin each other loads and my mate sent her a text from my phone asking her out (not to my knowledge) and she said she doesn't feel she knows me well enough yet. Anyway shes going on holi... (216 words)

How can I trust him again and stop being so jealous of other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5984 days ago

4 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - My bf messed up last week and I still haven't gotten ove it. You see, he has problems trusting me because I lied to him several times about stuff from the past. He's a very jealous man. Well, I haven't done anything wrong these last few months regarding trust. However l... (782 words)

He says he loves me yet wants to be single, it's driving me insane!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago after some complications in the relationship. During this time, he's gone back and forth between wanting to get back together and not wanting to get back together. I think it may have been because I made it too easy... (147 words)

How can I be a good Christian and still have a life? My parents are too strict.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

4 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My parents and I don't get along very well. Ever since a really bad incident a little over a year ago, they don't trust me with anything. I'm still allowed to do stuff, but you know, they still have that dissappointed tone. I'm a Christian, and I really try to run hard after ... (146 words)

I don't know what went wrong! Why won't she contact me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know what went wrong.....my friend and I broke up with our ex's 6mos ago. She's pregnant with her ex's baby. We've been friends for 14yrs and started talking everyday for about 2 mos and went on trips alone to vegas and hawaii. In the past 2 wks we haven't been talking ... (123 words)

For Men: Questions about women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kind of a funny question but why do men like to smell women's hair? Is a womens scent attracting to a man? I know that everybody likes someone to smell good but is this like a sign of beauty? This is just a fun question for men what is it in a women that makes you want... (65 words)

I think I married a stranger!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So my relationship is changing in some major ways. This once very attentive loving man ( I will call "G"), who wanted nothing more than to spend as much time as he could has turned into something else entirely. We had a baby almost 4 months ago, which I know changes a ... (613 words)

Am I being stupid for thinking we still have a chance? My fiance said he's not attracted to me anymore!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My live in fiance'of four years just told me one day that he wasn't attracted to me anymore because I gained too much weight and he wasn't in love with me anymore. He was breaking up with me and moving out. He added that since I postponed our wedding 2 yrs. ago, he felt that I ... (304 words)

How old is TOO old? What's an acceptable age gap for a 24yr old woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How old is too old. I'm 24 years old and get asked out alot by older men my last boyfriend was 32 and the one before that 34. My first real boyfriend was 27 and I was 17.I just like older men more. I really don't see that much of an age diffrence with someone in there 20's and ... (186 words)

Why doesn't he touch me like he does other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5983 days ago

4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am good friends with this guy. He had feelings for me before but I think they've faded but we still talk lots. Anyways, he always touches (hugs, pats) other people, mostly girls, but he wont do that with me! Its confusing why he still talks to me but wont hug me! Why is he... (65 words)

My erections are causing me problems and making things awkward!

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4 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my name is guy (not real) Alright little awkward problem. I get and erection all the time when i am with a person of the opposite sex. and no not like that like if the girls a friend were all good it stays down like a good dog. but say its with my girl friend at the most worst ... (315 words)

Should I date my mom's assistant manager?

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4 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I date my mom's assistant manager? Hi i'm 25 years old and have not had luck with men in my life. I always end up with jerks but I just recently found out my mom's assistant likes me. I have known him for years and we get along good, though I am quite shy. He always ... (202 words)

She wished me luck in finding the perfect partner. Does this mean she's afraid of commitment?

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4 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all,sorry but this is abit of a long winded story but need advice. basically ive known this girl most of my life and have always thought there was something special about her.Neway about 10 months ago I managed to get hold of her no. and got in contact with her.duri... (263 words)

Can someone please help me with this painful separation?

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4 July 2008 (M)

age - I am separated from my wife of 6 years. We have no children togeather but she has 2 boys from a previous marriage.I love her with all my heart and undoubtly she dont feel the same. The only thing that we have ever had a disagreement over was the boys. Her youngest son is 16 and ... (355 words)

How is a clitoral orgasm different from a vaginal one?

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4 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How does the feeling of a clitoral orgasm differ from vaginal ? I've only given a girl a vaginal orgasm through intercourse once. How do I make this happen more often?... (32 words)

My willy won't stay hard for sex!

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4 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm 28 yr old male.Usually if I am trying to have intercourse but having trouble getting it in I lose my erection . If the girl is tight or dry my penis seems to get discouraged after 1 or 2 attempts and will only get 2/3 hard. Its like unless it goes in smoothly righ... (110 words)

Is she worth my friendship? From lovers to best friends, can it work?

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4 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I dated a girl long distance for 6 months. She decided she wasnt ready to commit enough to the relationship to move and be with me. I offered to move to be with her but she declined. Since then we have stayed in touch and stayed friends. I have dated a couple girls and she ... (446 words)

Where drugs are concerned, does a leopard change it's spots?

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4 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My question mainly revolves around the question, does a leopard change it's spots? I was dating a guy for 5 months. I'm 25, and can honestly say I truly felt I was in love with him. We were from totally different backgrounds and he is totally the opposite of the usual typ... (487 words)

Am I still a virgin? And why did my penis bleed?

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4 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well, my problem that i ve been with my GF which is not a virgin as me , the question is that i did penetradte her and after ^^the job was done^^ my peanus start bleeding and i was hurting alot ? well i would really apreciate if u answer 2 my question if i am still a ... (74 words)

I think my teacher had a crush on me, and now I find myself questioning how I feel about him, all of a sudden?

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4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A teacher this year, that taught me in a subject that wasn't my strongest, so I'd always coming for extra help after school, and naturally we got to know each other, but as the year came to an end, I started to realize that he was treating me different, I started to realize ... (448 words)

Giving up her baby for adoption...Is she being selfish, or is she doing the right thing?

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4 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my friend found out shes at an abnormally high risk, for her age, to have a down syndrome baby. shes 20 weeks into her pregnancy, and told her husband she might consider adoption as she strongly feels shes not capable of giving this child the special around the clock attention ... (179 words)

I've wasted my life on a loser, now what am I going to do?

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4 July 2008 (F)

age - Not sure where to start here really, but I feel I've got my 'just desserts'. I left a loving relationship (but not exciting one) for someone which was no more than a conman, in respect of who he really was. We've now been married 20yrs and all he has ever done behind my back... (405 words)

Is there anything I can say or do so that my b/f doesn't cheat on me while I'm gone?

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4 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm going on vacation for a week and I'm wondering if there's anything I can say or do so that my b/f doesn't cheat on me while I'm gone. We both work together and I feel threatened by this other girl. Please help!!!... (47 words)

Is it rational to end the current relationship I'm in, for the girl I'm still in love with?

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4 July 2008 (M) age 36-40 - I'm going to try and make a long story short, or at least as short as possible, so bare with me. I moved to Alabama a year ago last June. I moved my entire life from Georgia, to chase love. Quit my job, left my friends, my home, my comfort zone - everything - to be with thi... (374 words)

I'm mentally torturing myself and have images of him and someone else!

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4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, here's my story; The guy i am talking about in this was my first serious boyfriend and first love and took each others virginity etc. We dated since our early teens but broke up after 3 years, after 2 year separation we got back together and have been back together for near... (380 words)

My boyfriend asked me how big/small his penis was compared to my exes. Does it really matter?

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4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend asked me how big/small his penis was compared to my exes. when i said i didn't remember he said i was lying. so then i said fine, they were all smaller, then he was angry that i remembered what their penises looked like! why is he doing this? it hurts me, and he d... (59 words)

What should I do? I don't want to be hurting either one of them.

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4 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - lets just say my name is Mac. now my problem started on September 8th when i met the one girl i loved. My first love in my life lets call her Mel. after we met we talked for a bit and became closer friends then we started dating on December 10th. how i know these dates cause i ... (309 words)

Help! I'm so inexperienced. I don't have a clue what to do with a penis!

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4 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - help! Im so inexperienced in bed. Ive had a few sexual partners but they've always taken the lead. Basically i dont have a clue what to do with a penis and feel so stupid. Ive never given a blow job and wouldnt even know where to start. Im even useless with handjobs and when... (138 words)

I need ideas to do something surprising & sexy for when my husband returns.

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4 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has been away for a while, I want to do something surprising and sexy (not too romantic) for him when he comes home. We have two small kids, so it'll have to be at the end of the night when they're in bed. I'm thinking of also trying to seduce him when I first see ... (85 words)

Is it normal to ejaculate yet not orgasm?

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4 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a 17 year old boy and when I masturbate I can come, but I have never had an orgasm. is this "normal"?... (24 words)

My fiend claims she likes the same guy, if I go with him it will put an end to our friendship.

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4 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, the situation is that my friend told me he likes me and i like him too, but then when i told my other friend this she claims she likes him also… alot, and being with him would put an end to our friendship. what do i do?... (48 words)

He means everything to me...so how do I show him?

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4 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - how can i apolagise to my boyfriend and show him how much i mean it. he stopped at mine on monday night and we ended up having a big arguement, and we both said really hurtfull things to each other, but then he just smiled at me. I was stood there shoutin loads of random sh*t... (149 words)