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writes:Heyy, Im a 15 year old girl and i need some help please... My boyfriend broke up with me 2days ago. We had only been together 6 weeks but i liked him so much. he said it was because he doesnt like me as much as he did and he would rather us just be friends even tho he still likes me. he's just been on holiday for 2weeks, he finished me the night he was back. i dont belive thats the reasons he said wer the real ones for us breaking up. I dont no how to find out the truth, should i just come right out with it ?Although he said he still likes me he sed he would never get back together with me, i dont no what to do. i like him so much, every time i see him or se a picture or when he comes online i feel so annoyed but happy. every time i get a text on my fone i always hope its off him but then i open it and it never is. Should i tell him how i feel or not ??Please answer back, it would really help, Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008):
Although you won't agree with this right now, I think in some ways you have been lucky that your boyfriend has made it quite clear that it is over. He has said he never wants to get back with you and he's said that he doesn't like you as much as he did. You really do just need to accept that.
I would say it is also highly suspicious that he broke up with you straight after his holiday. Did he cheat on you? I would be very surprised if he didn't.
It is natural to feel confused, upset, in denial, especially when it has only been 2 days. You need more time to think about all of this and it will all become a lot clearer.
Talk to your boyfriend if you need to say something, but ultimately you do need to figure this all out for yourself. Get support from either your family or from a close friend.
Things will get easier, no matter how they turn out; remember that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): Sweetie you are too young to be worried about him. Just leave him alone, and go on with your life. It might take you years to recognize that he wont be your last love, and definately wont be the last time that you get your heart broken. Dont spend too much time thinking of him, because it sounds like he isnt thinking of you. It is hard taking the advice that I have given, but do your best.
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